Status update!

On July 18, 2008 I decided almost spur of the moment to make the drive to Nashville. I called Jennie and found out she wasn't working late. We had already mentioned the possibility of me coming up there for a brief visit. So, I said something to the point of now I had nothing to do since she wasn't working. We decided that I should come on up, and that we would eat out.

I made several suggestions as to where we should eat, but I already had a place picked out. For our first dinner together, we ate at The Olive Garden, so I just knew we had to eat there on this night. I was able to suggest my way into us picking out The Olive Garden together. My plans were starting to unfold in my mind.

On the 2-hour drive, I had lots of time to think about how I would make this night very special. All sorts of ideas kept running through my mind. The one that made the most sense to me was writing it down in our journal. The down-side to this was that I couldn't very well write and drive at the same time, and I was in quite the hurry to get up there, so that meant I couldn't stop and write.

When we pulled up at The Olive Garden, I got the journal out of the car. I took it into the restaurant and said that since I had little time to write in it, I thought I could take the time during the meal, or at least while waiting on dessert. She thought it was a little strange, but went along with it anyway.

The service was absolutely phenomenal, and the atmosphere was perfect. I kept thinking "just do it, forget about the plans and go for it." I had to tell myself over and over that I wanted to make this special. So, after a little taunting, I finally wrote in the journal. She wanted to read it, but I wouldn't let her.

After the meal, we decided to go for a walk. It was late - about 10:30 at night - but I knew the park was still open. We went down the trail, with the journal safely under my arm. She kept thinking I was acting a little strange. We came to an open area where the trail split. The stars were shining, and the moon was glowing through the trees. We stopped, and as I was telling her she could finally read the journal, she was asking me if I would let her.

I turned on the "flashlight" of my cell phone so that she could read the words I had hastily scribbled. My nerves were getting the best of me, and as she read, I managed to take something out of my pocket. I looked at her, and as she finished reading all she could do was close the book and say "shut up!" in that tone that indicated she couldn't believe what she had just read.

What were those words she read?

"It all begins with one simple question - Jennifer Renee Jones, will you marry me?"

I got down on my knee, and held the ring up to her hand and looked her in the eyes and said, "will you do me the honor of marrying me?"

She seemed so excited that she almost forgot to answer. She finally said "YES!!!"

So, it's official. we are engaged!

  • theeditor
    I Love You, babe! I can't wait to marry you!
    by theeditor at 07/19/08 5:59PM
  • lynny
    I'm so excited for you guys! Congratulations!
    by lynny at 07/19/08 9:26PM
  • sunshinelove05
    'Grats! beautiful ring!
    by sunshinelove05 at 07/20/08 5:49PM
  • thefloridaaunt
    You didn't tell me it had sapphires in it!! It is beautiful and sooooo You!
    by thefloridaaunt at 07/29/08 10:13AM
  • fullofgrace
    happy birthday!
    by fullofgrace at 08/20/08 1:35AM
  • lynny
    Happy Birthday!!!
    by lynny at 08/20/08 10:17AM
  • benb
    happy birthday
    by benb at 08/20/08 5:30PM
  • bruke
    Happy birthday!
    by bruke at 08/20/08 10:15PM
  • debnray
    dude you have no idea what you are in for this weekend
    by debnray at 08/27/08 5:23AM
  • paulusmaximus
    I've just now look at your post and find it truly honest sorry I was so slow to reed them looking forward to see you in Oct. DAD
    by paulusmaximus at 10/02/08 3:00AM

Mission: Meet the Parents

Well, the day has finally arrived. It is officially Saturday, July 12, 2008. Why is this day important to me? Simple. Today is the day I meet her parents for the first time. Even though I have been assured over and over that they will like me, I still have all these crazy fears running through my mind. I suppose that is pretty normal for these situations, but still. Most of the time, I try not to worry about things, or at least not dwell upon them. However, as time draws near, I can't help but feel a little nervous. I want so much to meet their expectations of me, and I hope that I am able to impress them as much as I have impressed her. In the end, I just have to remind myself that everything is out of my hands and is instead in the hands of someone much more capable - Our Father above. Jennie, I am so very excited about the next couple of days, and this past week has been simply amazing. I know this is just a small sample of the wonderful times we will have together.
  • theeditor
    i love you, babe and I think today went wonderfully!
    by theeditor at 07/13/08 1:32AM
  • debnray
    when you marry the girl you marry the family! think long and hard and if thats not enough are willing to love her as much as Christ loved the church? if you are then you have my blessing if not .....
    by debnray at 07/14/08 10:17PM
  • theeditor
    I MISS YOU!!!!
    by theeditor at 07/15/08 3:59PM

My first post.....

is dedicated to you. I just wanted to say thank you again for all that you have done for me, and to let anyone and everyone know that I am a better man because of you. I count my blessings, and I look forward to many more enjoyable times to share with you.
  • theeditor
    you are so COOL! (insert secret message here)
    by theeditor at 06/24/08 2:26AM
  • theeditor
    Like this?
    by theeditor at 06/24/08 2:32AM
  • xsaudio
    Good job!!!
    by xsaudio at 06/24/08 2:34AM
  • ward
    Identity.
    by ward at 06/24/08 8:02AM
  • bruke
    So, how do you know our good friend jennie? We want to know all about it. ;)
    by bruke at 06/24/08 8:06AM
  • sunshinelove05
    alright, you two. Spill. What is up?
    by sunshinelove05 at 06/24/08 10:40AM
  • theeditor
    hehe. let's just leave them wondering a little longer...
    by theeditor at 06/24/08 3:01PM
  • debnray
    hey Garrett, her last 3 boyfriends have felt the same way, enjoy your way up, we will see you on the way down. HE HE! we look forward to Saturday
    by debnray at 06/24/08 8:40PM
  • bruke
    Ooh, Garrett, eh? We got a name!
    by bruke at 06/25/08 9:31AM
  • theeditor
    if that's your REAL name!
    by theeditor at 06/25/08 5:50PM
  • xsaudio
    or, it could be my last name. =)
    by xsaudio at 06/25/08 5:57PM
  • keebs
    Hi! I'm a good friend of hers. Nice to 'meet' you.
    by keebs at 06/26/08 10:17AM
  • tickets
    how sweet! :o)
    by tickets at 06/29/08 12:15AM