Not According to Plan

The main and ONLY thing on my list of Things To Do Today was to go out to the church building (1/2 hour away) and ready my classroom for tomorrow's lesson. However, while walking my dog this morning, I ended up with an extra dog. I am a stray-dog magnet. Siberian Huskies are notorious for being escape artists without an internal GPS. They get away and run and many times, they never find their way home. They are highly intelligent, but in my opinion, they can be a little ditzy when it comes to a homing instinct.

So, my morning and much of the afternoon was spent looking for the dog's home, calling the local Husky rescue group, getting myriad instructions from same, tracking down a crate (the other option was to drive her to an inner-city vet clinic who has an agreement with the rescue group), giving her a bath (she reeked!), cleaning up after her when she signaled for the umpteenth time her need to go outside and for the first time it wasn't a false alarm (and of course for the first time I ignored it)...

And this after a very late night up with kids. And an early morning. And spilled coffee all over my newspaper (I didn't do it).

I am so. very. TIRED!!

Now, I've made a decision that I am almost sure to regret: I am opting to drive to church an hour early tomorrow, by myself, to ready my classroom. It's Daylight Savings night, too, so there's that loss of an hour's sleep, too.

I will survive.

By the way, hubby came home from work, walked the dog around the neighborhood, and she led him right to her front door. Go figure! Just like the Santa thing--I do all the work, and he's the hero. Hrrmph!!

Oh, yeah! The hero just walked in with pizza!!!

The husky's photo is posted in a room. I can't find the room number in order to place it in my blog, for some reason.
  • aleta
    I hope the dog's owner appreciates all you did for their pooch! And, yes, it just hit me that we are losing that hour of sleep. Need to get busy on my lesson, too!
    by aleta at 03/13/10 7:14PM
  • misssonja
    You have some nerve -- I read this and all I could think about was PIZZA, so I ordered one. (Haven't had any dinner, so I have a reason to be hungry, but...)
    by misssonja at 03/13/10 8:32PM
  • misssonja
    PS -- I don't know why that dog wanted to go home at all. Sounds like you were much nicer to him than his owners. I think I'm going to wander around in your neighborhood and see if you will take me in.
    by misssonja at 03/13/10 8:33PM
  • 23_bravo_7
    That's what husbands do, we find things you women can't. Who do you think finds Pat's car keys and other things she "lost" over the years? Is it any wonder we have no need to ask for directions?
    by 23_bravo_7 at 03/13/10 8:41PM
  • hoosierbybirth
    I came over here to *ring, ring* and tell you to set your clock ahead, but now I feel sorry for you and all the turmoil you had today. Hope you get some rest tonight.,
    by hoosierbybirth at 03/13/10 10:01PM
  • sallyanne
    That is so funny. This made me laugh out loud!
    by sallyanne at 03/13/10 10:18PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    What a pretty dog! I'm sure her owners were relieved to see her. (Too funny about her taking Ted right to the door, though... :D )
    I'm truly sorry that you didn't get out to get your classroom ready though. :*(
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/13/10 11:15PM
  • sallyanne
    We definitely don't believe in waiting around. We are productive vision oriented people around here :)...definitely keeping busy while we wait on four prince charmings to come (and two princesses). LOL
    by sallyanne at 03/14/10 3:37PM
  • herb_lady43
    RE the computer as a tool: AMEN! I did manage to do my morning chores this morning before sitting down, but here I am, caught up in Pleonast and all its lovely conversations.
    by herb_lady43 at 03/15/10 2:56PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Computer as a tool? You bet! This morning I paid all of my bills (that I could, lol), and now I'm back on to print out some recipes for Ash and Sam and Elise and also look up some supplements (which I can't figure out until you check your inbox, *wink.*) A computer is a Very Handy Item. (And also a serious temptation if one is not careful.)
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/15/10 4:31PM
  • granny
    I loved your ending. A hero after all with a pizza!
    by granny at 03/16/10 3:20AM
  • misssonja
    Your sentiments resonate with my natural self :) -- I wouldn't want a meal of all tofu, but if it's "firm" tofu and mixed in with the other stuff, it's innocuous. The Chinese lady that owns the Chinese restaurant near me can really make tofu taste good (which takes talent, my friend!!!) -- she pan-fries it, and I'm trying to figure out exact what she does from there. I think maybe she dredges it in flour first? I was eating there regularly for a while and she/I talked about books because I read while eating alone and I have a nifty bookstand that folds up ($6 at B&N). She liked it, and I happened to have an extra in the car, so I brought it in and gave it to her. The next time I was in, she gave me a complimentary plate of her nifty tofu. Anyhow, tofu is really good for your body (protein) and EASY PEASY on your digestion. Leaving plenty of calories for CUPCAKE!
    by misssonja at 03/16/10 10:07AM

03/12/10 9:23AM

The subject of my previous entry has no bearing on salvation, so I'm not going to beat a dead horse. Between public comments and private ones, there is no consensus for or against among the readers. The only thing I will reiterate here is that the apparently common interpretation of the situation is incongruent with the way we usually interpret the Bible, and that can be a real pitfall when studying with others. I see this whole episode not as a pronouncement of God's nature, but a pronouncement of Jephthah's nature. As one pointed out, the period of the Judges was not a bright spot in Israel's history.

Anyway. Onward.

I've been very busy--mentally, at least--with our new business venture, which I will share with you when more ducks are in a row. (Sorry, Sonja, about the duck reference. I know you abhor them, although I can't quite grasp why. Geese are the enemy.)

Spring is in the air, and I am thrilled! There was a huge clap of thunder yesterday morning (I think it happened when one of you entered your opinion on the previous entry...), and I could not help but smile. Very soon, the Green Fuzz will appear in the woods--that brief time when the teeny, tiny, baby leaves are just barely peeping out of the tree branches, creating a green haze in the treetops. I love that day!

BTW--the parenthetical aside was absolutely tongue-in-cheek, OK? I love you all.

Work, lunch with a friend, prep for teaching Sunday's Bible class, make something for tonight's singing, the singing, and a couple of house guests. A good day.

Have a blessed weekend.
  • misssonja
    You have a point about the geese -- they are fatter duck-like creatures with bigger duck-like poop. My reason for my aversion to ducks is that they are NASTY. Anything that poops where it DRINKS and swims is vile and should only be viewed from AFAR, not as a farm pet. You're probably sorry you brought this up now, but at least I am able to offer insightful commentary on this post :)
    by misssonja at 03/12/10 10:31AM
  • flyonthewall
    After reading and re-reading your entry below, I'd have to say I agree with you. The Scriptures clearly state that Jephthah kept his vow: "...who did with her according to the vow that he had made." It is a horrible situation, and emotionally we don't WANT to believe this happened. But if we deny what the Scriptures say, are we not just as guilty as those we try to teach who deny what the Bible says about, for example, baptism? Good thoughts, Anita.
    by flyonthewall at 03/12/10 10:48AM
  • crysi
    Just saw a goose at Wal-mart today. Had to get off the phone with an elder's wife bc my daughter was going to go chase it.
    by crysi at 03/12/10 2:29PM
  • crysi
    Well, she probably wouldn't have done that again. They were letting her get way too close, scared me to death. They just look evil. =)
    by crysi at 03/12/10 2:40PM
  • 23_bravo_7
    In reference to below, I have reached a stage where I am not afraid to say "I don't know". I think more of my brethren would save themselves much trouble to say that instead of trying to explain things they have not given sufficient study to. Example: having only "pulpit" knowledge.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 03/12/10 2:55PM
  • justg
    I hope your weekend continues to be a good one! It's been a busy week for me, but now...I'm ready to let someone else do the work.
    by justg at 03/12/10 9:58PM
  • misssonja
    I'll take the momentary aroma problem over "drinking my own poop" anytime -- yuck (and then some)
    by misssonja at 03/13/10 11:11AM
  • misssonja
    ^ After all, you get that same problem from having a man!
    by misssonja at 03/13/10 11:12AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/13/10 12:47PM

Judges 11

What are your thoughts about the account of Jephthah, his rash vow, and his daughter?

Some say that the vow was unfulfilled, because "God never required human sacrifice" (other than Jesus), and that Jephthah's daughter lived out her life as a virgin instead of being sacrificed as a burnt offering, as vowed in Judges 11:30. However, at times God did require human life as a consequence of sin (i.e., David and Bathsheba's firstborn). He has the right to take human life as He sees fit.

judges 11:35, 36, and 39 indicate that Jephthah did, indeed, sacrifice her as a burnt offering.

In my opinion, this was done as it was written. It was NOT a requirement of God, but the consequence of a rash vow. It is interesting to me that Jephthah's intent in making the vow appears to be honorable (11:30,31). On the other hand, it appears that God had already planned to give over the Ammonites, so perhaps Jephthah's game of Let's Make A Deal with God was indication of his lack of faith that God was already on his side.

I wonder at the daughter's resignation to her fate, and I can't help but respect her for her response. I think she loved her father very much, and her apparently calm acceptance and willingness to be a sacrifice says volumes about her beautiful heart.

I appreciate that the writer of Judges only offers a record of the events, but sometimes I would like to have a better understanding of what God's judgment was of those events. Another example: We know that God places man over woman in the natural order of things. But if you read the account of Deborah, you see a woman raised to a position of authority and she triumphed over the enemies of God's people just as the male judges did. Was her rise to authority part of shaming the men who refused their roles of leadership? Will she be held accountable for her "usurping" of male headship? Should the account of Deborah have any bearing on our opinions of role of women in areas outside the church (where it is very obvious what the roles are)--such as in business or politics?

I didn't intend to broach two subjects that each deserve their own space...however, I leave it to you, my dear Pleo friends, to decide what, if anything, you want to comment on.

(Can you tell that I'm catching up with my Daily Bible Reading?)
  • lori_in_pa
    Hmmpphh, you ask big questions so early in the day! :) I don't know and I don't know are my answers, but I have wondered (and wandered) along much the same lines of thought as you. Deborah inspires a natural leader like me, but I also fear making "too much" of her and going beyond what God wants me to do.
    by lori_in_pa at 03/11/10 9:20AM
  • mayflower
    Well, natural women leaders make good wedding coordinators!
    by mayflower at 03/11/10 10:16AM
  • sallyanne
    Here's a good article... article. The author saves me the space of explaining my thoughts (which differ from yours). I don't believe the sacrifice was a human sacrifice. I don't think verses 35, 36 and 39 indicate that...

    As far as Deborah. Yes, her rise shamed the male leaders, but it was done by God on purpose so she did not usurp their headship. I believe women need to be careful to shine (lead) in their realm (the home). I am not saying women are in sin if they are in leadership roles in business or politics. I am certain that some women may be able to do this and remain the type of woman that God wishes them to be. However, since I have a strong personality and am a natural leader--I am inclined toward usurping and must treat cautiously in my dealings with men.
    by sallyanne at 03/11/10 10:45AM
  • deputyheadmistress
    I also don't believe he actually burned his daughter on the alter. God may have required human life as the consequence of sin, but that is not the same as a sacrifice in response to a vow, and God forbids human sacrifice.
    I think that Jephtha's Daughter loved God very much.
    by deputyheadmistress at 03/11/10 2:16PM
  • tryphena
    First, let me say that I am not trying to be argumentative here and that I am willing to consider all. The article that she linked is well-written and I appreciate the opportunity to read it. I respect the writer, based on what little I know of him.

    I won't speculate on why God allowed Jephthah to win a battle that would result in the sacrifice of his daughter...that is simply not knowable.

    I guess where my thoughts diverge from the majority here is that we treat the book of Judges literally other than this, don't we? I can't think of another place in the book that we try hard to make it say something other than what it says. The more explanation something requires, the more dubious I am of the interpretation. Why do we find it necessary to explain away something that isn't there, when the words (in several translations that I've looked at) say what they say. It is not a reflection on God that Jephthah said such a thing and that he did it, but a reflection on Jephthah. It was neither righteous of him to make the vow in the first place nor to fulfill it. But the words of the passage say that he did.

    Judges 11:39 "After the two months, she returned to her father and he did to her as he had vowed. And she was a virgin." How many meanings can "he did to her as he had vowed" possibly have? Again, my emphasis is not whether God approved or not (obviously, He would not have approved of this any more than He approved of any other sinful act that man has done) but simply that from what the scriptures say, it occurred. Anyone outside the church would find it difficult to reconcile the reasoning associated with this passage and our general premise that the Bible is literal (with the exceptions of poetry and obvious imagery, such as in The Revelation).

    Not going to make a federal issue of this, but it's one of the areas where I think we want to make it something other than what it is.
    by tryphena at 03/11/10 4:53PM
  • justg
    I have never believed that Jeptha's daughter was sacrificed. Human sacrifice was something that was always condemned. Lev. 18:21. Her banishment to the mountains to live out her life in service and dedicated to God, to me, is akin to Hannah telling the Lord that she would give her son to His service.
    It's just one of those questions, isn't it? :)
    by justg at 03/11/10 6:19PM
  • hoosierbybirth
    I'm with you, Tryphena. In Numbers 30:1-2 we have recorded the law concerning vows made by man. If he vowed it, he was to carry it out. Was Jephthah's pledge an unwise one? By all means, and is a good lesson for us to think about the consequences of what we might say and not make pledges or promises foolishly.
    by hoosierbybirth at 03/11/10 6:21PM
  • rtlittlejohn
    Ok, here are my thoughts. He wanted to give praise to God for his defeat of the Ammonites. He was not assured victory as of yet, so he made the promise to sacrifice the first thing which came from his house to greet him.

    How was he to know it would be his only daughter, for in Judges 11:35 he said to her "Alas, my daughter! You have brought me very low, and you are among those who trouble me; for I have given my word to the LORD, and I cannot take it back."

    Here is what Psalm 15:4 says:

    In whose eyes a reprobate is despised,
    But who honors those who fear the LORD;
    He swears to his own hurt and does not change;

    In that respect, I say that Jephthah did the only thing he could do. If he even thought that his daughter would have been the first one to come greet him, he would have worded his vow differently.

    However, he did vowed a vow unto God to give Him the glory for the defeat of the Ammonites, and he kept it. For that he should get some credit.

    Ecclesiasties 5:4-6 states:

    When you make a vow to God, do not be late in paying it; for He takes no delight in fools Pay what you vow!

    It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay.

    Do not let your speech cause you to sin and do not say in the presence of the messenger of God that it was a mistake. Why should God be angry on account of your voice and destroy the work of your hands?

    For that, Jephthah deserves some credit.
    by rtlittlejohn at 03/11/10 10:16PM
  • deusvitae
    I find it hard to dispute that he offered her as an actual burnt offering-- the text calls her an 'olah a whole/burnt offering, which is not used for dedicatory offerings.

    The time of the Judges is clearly not a time where God's people are following God's Word to the letter. It's another demonstration of the depravity of the age.
    by deusvitae at 03/11/10 10:50PM

No Excuses!

"We are influenced by our personality but not controlled by it." Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages

I often fall back on the excuse that something is not in my nature or is outside my comfort zone. My personality influences what I do to a great extent and even though my abilities might allow me to go far beyond what my personality dictates I am comfortable with doing, I limit myself far more than I should.

I might add to this thought that one's past experiences influence us, but should not control us. My mother shared memories of her childhood with me on our trip, and I can now easily see how living with a serially-adulterous father had a great influence on who she is. It doesn't have to control her ability to trust and to be optimistic, but it tends to. Definitely an Aha! Moment for me as I contemplate the way she protects herself from hurt.

We have responsibilities that are independent of personality, personal preferences, past experiences, current situations, or any other excuse we can conjure up. As growing, maturing, developing creatures, we have a great measure of control over the direction of our growth. It is when we accept our responsibilities without excuse that we grow the best.

I find that it helps to be aware of my self-limitations, then realize that WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. He has proven over and again that He is the God of Overcoming. It is difficult for me to do many things, but it is not impossible.

Whatever your excuse is, that's all it is: An excuse. However, we are not excused--excuses are not going to fly in the end. Today, I will do things that are beyond my self-perceived natural capability because God is with me. And I will succeed because God is with me.

That's how the Israelites conquered Canaan. That's how Paul survived so many trials. That's how Jesus went to the cross.

Have a great no-excuses day!
  • sallyanne
    I love this! Great thoughts! Makes me think of Moses--instead of excusing him because of his excuses, God supplied what he needed (Aaron!).
    by sallyanne at 03/08/10 8:27AM
  • justg
    Name it. Claim it.

    Let go of: "That's just the way I am." ("Roll" if you are under 25).

    Easy to say.

    Hard to do.

    Great post.
    by justg at 03/08/10 8:49AM
  • flyonthewall
    Excellent! Thank you for the challenge. No excuses.
    by flyonthewall at 03/08/10 9:34AM
  • aleta
    I love this, and struggle in several areas about it. It helped to hear someone else verbalize the war within.
    by aleta at 03/08/10 11:27AM
  • sirtarin
    Great post! =)

    'Fraid I didn't hear you. Perhaps you should sing a little louder next time. ;)
    by sirtarin at 03/08/10 3:02PM
  • sirtorin
    Good post. =)
    by sirtorin at 03/08/10 10:01PM
  • lori_in_pa
    So helpful to me just now. I have been in a time of really looking at myself -- where I've been, where I am, where I need/want to go -- and have been spending a lot of time thinking about the kinds of thing you wrote about so well. I especially appreciate: "
    We have responsibilities that are independent of personality, personal preferences, past experiences, current situations, or any other excuse we can conjure up. As growing, maturing, developing creatures, we have a great measure of control over the direction of our growth. It is when we accept our responsibilities without excuse that we grow the best."

    Yes, yes, yes!
    by lori_in_pa at 03/09/10 8:29AM
  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    Wow - I love this post! I came here specifically because of reading her post about a helpful older woman who her mom was able to call when she needed help. And I IMMEDIATELY thought of you and how much I appreciate you. :) love you with hugs and thankfulnes :)
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 03/12/10 9:03AM

03/06/10 7:28PM

Sarah plus power tools equals ulcers...

It must be Project Day in our household. I'm working on a 10 Plagues project for Bible class tomorrow and it's taking a lot longer than it looks like it should. But it's a neat activity for the little people to do and reinforces the lessons of the plagues.

Sarah is making a 3-D map of Iwo Jima for school. She's using power tools to cut the foam board. I think it's turning out very well!

It was sunny and 50° here today--perfect for a short bike ride, which Ted and I did this afternoon. It won't be long before the flowers start to grow again.
  • aleta
    I love the study of the 10 plagues. Each plague attacked and humiliated the gods of Egypt. You'll have to share your lesson!
    by aleta at 03/06/10 8:13PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Sounds like a busy day! Glad you were able to get out for a ride.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/06/10 8:40PM
  • misssonja
    You just made me realize that I could do a little bike ride tomorrow -- imagine that!
    by misssonja at 03/06/10 8:47PM
  • misssonja
    It makes me feel both old and a little bit better about myself to see that Victoria Jackson is middle age chubby like me.
    by misssonja at 03/06/10 11:29PM
  • 23_bravo_7
    Iwo Jima? Is that for the battle? Very interesting how the Japanese commander learned a lesson from D-Day and did not set up his forces on the beach as the Germans did.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 03/07/10 5:31AM
  • 23_bravo_7
    BTW, I got rid of my Bulldog. Used it on a trade for a S&W K-38. Not that I had a need for one, "just had to have it". I now have 5 revolvers that fire .38 Spec. ammo.

    My preferred CC gun is a little S&W 36, five shot revolver but sometimes it is replaced with my "baby" Glock 9mm depending on my mood when I go out.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 03/07/10 6:25AM