For all of us women out there needing to find our inner harmony.....




"...understand that to nurture and love others with the grace you desire means taking care of yourself and cultivating your own inner harmony. Inner harmony grows not by finding ways to get away from your child, but by giving yourself the gift of a hot bath at the end of a long day, reading a book of poetry, talking to a friend on the phone, taking a nap, crying, getting a massage, having a day off from cleaning and cooking, staying in your pajamas all day, swimming, going out to eat, or attending a conference. Do something for yourself as you give. Learn to laugh at yourself and not take yourself so seriously."
~ Peggy O'Mara, The Way Back Home



We are all as women going through life sometimes triumphant, sometimes downtrodden, and sometimes hanging by a thread. We are a mix of all emotions every day. We are a mix of expectations of ourselves that we can somedays meet with no problem while other days we fail ourselves miserably. We can judge one another harshly and then turn inward and wonder why we are so discontented and lonely. The good Lord gave us our nurturing personalities because it is a gift that he knew we would use. Mother or not, we are all taking care of someone and nuturing someone. Be good to yourself, it is not a luxury....but...a necesseity to be that person you want to be.
  • sallyanne
    I'm reading Fit Not Fat at 40 Plus and it is the first book I've ever read on diet and exercise that has focused 1/3 on rest and relaxation! I've always taken time for myself when the kids napped and it is a wonderful rejuvenating time--it was life saving when I had four under the age of five and five under the age of eight!! Before I had another baby (in between Julia and Josh) I found myself needing that quiet time even though no one was napping any more. So, whether one has a baby or not--I highly recommend at least an hour to read, rest or hobby each day! This is a blessing for anyone, but for stay-at-home-homeschooling-moms...it feels like a MUST ;)
    by sallyanne at 03/04/10 10:15AM
  • mockinbird
    I am at the hanging by a thread point. Thanks for reminding me that I have had, and will have again triumphant times when I am rested, relaxed, my house is clean and my family is nutriously fed.
    by mockinbird at 03/04/10 10:35AM
  • heatheronthehill
    Just got my copy of Mothering today... I always love Peggy's writings! So do you like the book? Maybe I need to look for it.

    I took a bath yesterday with a nice (short) soak in the tub. The last time I did that was before Jack was born. It was sooooo nice! I'm relishing in my daily naps with our little one. It makes the tough moments bearable!
    by heatheronthehill at 03/04/10 10:39AM
  • justg
    I had a massage scheduled for today at 1:00. I've had the appointment for a month. Since I was going to be out of the house until that time, I packed some comfy clothes...then...went to the errands. At 1:30, my massage therapist called..."where are you?" I totally FORGOT about it!
    Time for this girl to clear her mind, turn off the screens, and breathe.

    Thank you for the reminder.
    by justg at 03/04/10 2:48PM
  • mamahastings
    Amen!
    by mamahastings at 03/07/10 9:07PM
  • mamahastings
    are you feeling better yet?
    by mamahastings at 03/09/10 1:01PM
  • mockinbird
    Yes, my family and I are experiencing all the joys and sorrow that life gives us just about at the same time!!! How do people that have no solid rock to build there lives on ever get through it? I so appreciate all of your comments to my posts.
    by mockinbird at 03/09/10 3:19PM
  • smiley_face
    Amen. Someone told me, "Whatever you look for you will find." It was in context to the environment at FC, but it applies to almost anything.
    by smiley_face at 03/09/10 4:44PM

"Twin" Birthdays.....

Please go wish Ashley and Andrea a very happy birthday! They are turly the best sisters a girl could ever have!


The first one:




And the second:


I'm kinda a proud big sis! :)
  • whipsmile
    :-)
    by whipsmile at 03/02/10 11:39AM
  • justg
    Nice!
    by justg at 03/02/10 1:56PM
  • mamahastings
    So pretty and so sweet!
    by mamahastings at 03/02/10 6:20PM
  • ashleyb
    you are the best big sis in the world thanks for tonight
    by ashleyb at 03/02/10 9:50PM
  • tryphena
    Appreciated your comment in the Ladies Book Club; I haven't started the book yet. Re the low-carb diet: Yes, getting off carbs does weird-o things to you, but it's well worth it. Just don't go too low on carbs. Your body needs *some* carbs! I try to do a 2:1 carb-to-protein ratio, and that works very well. Good luck on the diet!
    by tryphena at 03/03/10 10:41AM
  • smiley_face
    Thank you! :)
    by smiley_face at 03/03/10 6:29PM
  • sallyanne
    They sure are lovely ladies!
    by sallyanne at 03/04/10 2:22AM
  • jasonswife060305
    Thanks sis! I'm so lucky to have a big sis like you. I had a blast Tuesday night! Thanks for driving down for us! I love you bunches!
    by jasonswife060305 at 03/04/10 3:43PM

Once a year.....

We have the opportunity to purchase.....




It is what is good about America.....


It is why I should begin the South Beach Diet again.....


Oh well....

There is a whole year to do that till they come out again.


Where is my hot tea and thin mints?
  • justg
    With two 'Brownies' out of five Grands...my freezer will be filled with boxes of Thin Mints. My hips just are NOT big enough yet. Bring 'em on!
    by justg at 02/27/10 4:22PM
  • smiley_face
    I kinda love girl scout cookies... :)
    by smiley_face at 02/27/10 4:50PM
  • mockinbird
    Good ole Thin Mints. I missed out on them this year. I am a little sad.
    by mockinbird at 02/28/10 9:27AM
  • justg
    Yep...MelissnTim and all the excited, tanned Grands are home sweet home. Thank you for your caring.
    by justg at 02/28/10 6:02PM
  • whipsmile
    you know...I might have bought GSC maybe once in my life. And it was more for helping out the girl.
    I like the cookies, I just don't crave them.
    by whipsmile at 03/01/10 7:35AM
  • whipsmile
    NO, NO, NO!!!! I wasn't judging you and your cookies at all!!! I am HAPPY to read about non- life and death things.
    and Thanks. :-)
    by whipsmile at 03/01/10 2:01PM
  • mamahastings
    Yeah, I was keeping my eye on those thin mints on top of your fridge. I should have been a good friend and helped you get rid of them :)
    by mamahastings at 03/01/10 3:33PM

Help for a young minister.....

Please go to this link and consider helping a young minister with a voice problem that could end his livelyhood and career. If you have not met Mr. Ruegg, you are missing out on a real treat and a passionate preacher.

Dan Ruegg's plight
If you could also let your elders know about this gentleman.


  • madam_librarian
    so sad about Dan


    I'm glad Remington is not as big as Casey. It would have cost a fortune to clean him:)
    by madam_librarian at 02/26/10 12:56PM
  • smiley_face
    :( Don't they have a little one now too? Wow. Prayers for him.
    by smiley_face at 02/26/10 1:23PM

Let me set the stage.....

Vet appointment scheduled at 6:15 pm. The appointment was with the tech and was for Casey's last booster for the year. I thought we would be in and out in five minutes.

I should never think anything.


Over an hour later.....


Angel emerges......


Casey is panting like a maniac.

I have been whipped like a smoothie in a blender.


And......


my beast dog gained 15lbs in three weeks!


You know that a new dog has taken over the record for the largest in the world.....


he is a great dane.....


He is 250lbs.


I am going to have nightmares!
  • mamahastings
    Oh my! I don't think the four humans in your family weigh 250 put together! You need to find a pasture for him to graze in!
    by mamahastings at 02/25/10 12:02AM
  • justg
    Wait. Your dog is a Great Dane?? Oh my!
    by justg at 02/25/10 6:58AM
  • whipsmile
    that's a big boy!
    by whipsmile at 02/25/10 9:33AM
  • amcmichael
    haha!! I love you Angel!! I will try and remember that Kennel on sunday! You need to remind me of these things!!
    by amcmichael at 02/25/10 10:53AM
  • madtomkidd
    Just so you know, almost all of the medications that you'll need on a regular basis for your dog can be purchased at Tractor Supply for next to nothing. And, if it is something requiring a shot, I can do that for you.
    by madtomkidd at 02/25/10 2:07PM
  • smiley_face
    WHOA! I thought Duke was big! Yours is still a puppy too isn't he? wow...
    by smiley_face at 02/25/10 5:43PM