02/08/07 5:26PM

With Love to all my special friends and family...

Saw this notation and thought it was very good

"We can get so busy being useful that we can become useless for our families"

May God grant all of us the wisdom to chose our time wisely, and may we all keep the faith that has been once for all delivered to us, so that we can all with thankful hearts see eachother again; if not in this life, but in the life to come.

  • eruve
    Missing you today, Mel! Wish I could just pop over for some laughs and a cup of coffee!
    by eruve at 04/17/07 11:45AM
  • sirtorin
    Hello Mrs. Gougar, this is a Hamilton twin.
    by sirtorin at 05/23/07 4:58PM
  • sirtarin
    Hello Mrs. Gougar, this is another Hamilton twin.
    by sirtarin at 05/23/07 5:02PM
  • phyllisophical_mom
    Hey you, from HS Camp...do you ever post?
    by phyllisophical_mom at 09/26/07 12:45AM
  • deputyheadmistress
    I think it's time...
    by deputyheadmistress at 09/26/07 4:48PM
  • whisperam
    Hello Melanie. I met you at the Hscampout!
    by whisperam at 09/29/07 3:40PM
  • whisperam
    I'm Anna Linden
    by whisperam at 09/29/07 3:42PM
  • stitchinmom
    by stitchinmom at 10/02/07 6:32PM
  • sirtorin
    I agree that you need to post. Before the HS Camp, you hadn't even had a comment in close to 5 months, much less a post. =)
    by sirtorin at 10/05/07 6:56PM
  • bookworm14
    Happy birth anniversary mommy!!!
    by bookworm14 at 10/19/07 11:06PM
  • sirtorin
    Oh! I did not know! So HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
    by sirtorin at 10/19/07 11:13PM
  • sirtarin
    Happy Birthday!!!
    by sirtarin at 10/19/07 11:43PM
  • ever_learning_mom
    Hi from PA.
    by ever_learning_mom at 12/13/07 9:01PM
  • bookworm14
    ♥ Happy Wedding Anniversary!
    by bookworm14 at 12/31/07 10:05AM
  • sirtarin
    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! :D
    by sirtarin at 12/31/07 11:08AM
  • sirtorin
    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
    by sirtorin at 12/31/07 2:36PM
  • sirtorin
    HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
    by sirtorin at 01/01/08 2:07PM
  • phyllisophical_mom
    by phyllisophical_mom at 01/02/08 12:51PM
  • beulah
    Hi M, missing you.
    by beulah at 04/05/08 4:50PM
  • _sylviaanne_
    Hi Mommy.
    by _sylviaanne_ at 04/29/08 6:06PM

Hello friends!

Permission has been granted me to post for dear mommy.
Mommy loves everyone and all of you even though she doesn't get on here much. The computer isn't really her thing, but I do occasionally show her stuff that you all write.
Mommy has been doing really well since we've been here. She has been a wonderful mother to all of us and has been helping us so much with schooling and just things about growing up.
She has been a great example to others as well as to her family.
Rhode Island has helped her to learn alot of things and she is such a blooming person and has grown so much since we first moved to rhode island.
She has been doing alot of crosstitching in her nice wing chair and is discovering a bunch of new tricks about the crockpot.
She has been surprisingly calm with my driving, and has been graciously letting me do so.
She loves daddy so much and is setting a good example for us children of how a godly marriage should be.
She has been taking us to the LIBRARY most every week and has been checking out lots of books instead of buying them.
I think mommy has only bought two purses since we've been here. (isn't that great?)
She talks about different ones of you almost daily and wishes so much that she could go back there to be with you.

Yup, that's pretty much the update for mommy as of late.
_______Correction: Mother informs me that she has only bought ONE purse since we've been here:P________
  • bookworm14
    Ah. Sweet satisfaction.
    by bookworm14 at 11/29/06 2:15PM
  • sarahsmile
    Mel...it's Ok to treat yourself to a purse now and then. ;-) I say that because I like to treat my self to shoes.
    by sarahsmile at 11/29/06 3:25PM
  • schmidtkins
    Mel, wish you had personally posted, but nice to get an e-mail anyway... love you!
    by schmidtkins at 11/29/06 10:37PM
  • enyek
    Hi Melanie! I love you and miss you. This was a wonderful update - enjoyed it!
    by enyek at 12/01/06 9:21AM
  • bookworm14
    I can find PLENTY of loopholes in YOUR current post, mister, so pray don't be so hard on me.
    by bookworm14 at 12/02/06 1:00PM
  • nogamusprime
    Hey Mel, how are you guys? It's been quite a while. I saw your parents and paul's family a couple of months ago.
    by nogamusprime at 12/07/06 11:11PM
  • jody
    I miss you!
    by jody at 01/10/07 9:45PM
  • jaydon
    Thanks for brightening my day! :)
    by jaydon at 01/14/07 9:54PM

Hello

Surprise...surprise. This is my 2nd lesson in blogging with Brittany. The first one I managed to sign in, then it was all down hill and I needed a break. Three weeks later...I'm writing to all of my friends. Amazing! I miss you all. What an impression you've left on my heart. Mel
  • comade
    We miss you too! Wish you could come see our new apartment, it's really cute!
    by comade at 02/16/06 8:43AM
  • bookworm14
    =)
    by bookworm14 at 02/16/06 2:13PM
  • laurchel
    Hey Melanie! This is Rachel Dibbell from SNB ... well Buffalo now : ) I can't believe y'all moved so far away! I hope you're getting all settled in the nice hot weather : )
    by laurchel at 02/16/06 3:54PM
  • eruve
    Thank you so much for my Valentine! I got all misty-eyed. You are so special, Mel. I love you!
    by eruve at 02/16/06 10:52PM
  • angelad
    thanks for the valentine. It was so sweet of you to think of me. I really appreciated what you wrote.
    by angelad at 02/17/06 12:11PM
  • enyek
    Valentine's!! What a lovely surprise! You all made the whole congregation smile!!
    by enyek at 02/20/06 10:34AM
  • undomiel
    Thanks for the valentines! They were so sweet! Punkin liked hers from Tiger, too. :)
    by undomiel at 02/20/06 4:04PM
  • neentothebean
    Hey! This is Leah (Whittlesey) Hall. Were you formerly Melanie Finney? Welcome to Pleo :)
    by neentothebean at 03/24/06 1:47PM
  • jaydon
    Will I see you in June at a certain wedding?
    by jaydon at 04/14/06 6:57AM
  • bookworm14
    Mommy, i just found a group called TheFlyLady and you should definately join it...miss you while your gone.
    by bookworm14 at 04/28/06 5:34PM
  • sugar_mama
    Hello from Thao
    by sugar_mama at 05/04/06 11:49PM
  • sailing_mousse
    Hi there Goobers, this is Rob W.
    by sailing_mousse at 09/03/06 10:39PM
  • a_starr
    Hello, Mel! I miss you!! We were just looking over the wedding video this weekend in RI. Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOO much for all that you did so that Sylvia could be in our wedding. We have a video of the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner and wedding that I will mail to you. You will probably get it *before* you see this message! ;)
    by a_starr at 09/06/06 9:35AM
  • schmidtkins
    cool to find you here! Love you!
    by schmidtkins at 09/14/06 12:40AM
  • mr_gougar_jr
    Happy Birthday mommy
    by mr_gougar_jr at 10/19/06 11:22AM
  • a_starr
    Happy Birthday, Mel!!!
    by a_starr at 10/19/06 3:18PM
  • octaveleaper
    Happy Birthday!
    by octaveleaper at 10/19/06 11:35PM
  • eruve
    Happy, happy, Mel!!
    by eruve at 10/20/06 9:49AM
  • a_starr
    I called and sang you happy birthday on your voice mail - at least, I hope that was your voice mail! Do you still have your RI cell phone number??? If not, some poor soul has a voicemail with me singing happy birthday. :)

    Love you!
    by a_starr at 10/20/06 10:32AM
  • schmidtkins
    Happy Thanksgiving!!!
    by schmidtkins at 11/23/06 8:53AM

I am soo overwhelmed!

  • undomiel
    Mel, we miss you already! You are really good with people who are returning to the Lord - like Tara (announced tonight) and another who has not been announced yet. We miss you just because, also!
    by undomiel at 01/06/06 12:51AM
  • spinningbee
    Welcome to pleonast! Don't forget me and Brian!! :) Looking forward to getting back in touch. Where are you worshiping in AZ?
    by spinningbee at 01/06/06 6:38AM
  • jaydon
    I agree with Jody! Keeping your seat warm for you.
    by jaydon at 01/06/06 8:22AM
  • enyek
    Hi Melanie! Don't be overwhelmed - "be still my soul". Just do what you can, can't do or expect more than that! Miss you!!!!!!
    by enyek at 01/06/06 9:05AM
  • eruve
    Ooooooh, you're finally here!!!! Welcome! Love the name! We're missing you already.
    by eruve at 01/06/06 11:32AM
  • comade
    Hey! This will be great to keep in touch! Enjoy the hotel!
    by comade at 01/06/06 3:13PM
  • robin
    This couldn't possibly be my cousin, Melanie, could it? =0)
    by robin at 01/06/06 4:42PM
  • jaydon
    You know that toothbrush that I thought belong to Pooch,well I think it was a bone and well, big pause... Kenya ate it! Sorry! But she did have nice fresh breath afterwards.
    by jaydon at 01/06/06 8:02PM
  • sarahsmile
    Next time I'm in arizona for work, I'm coming to see you that weekend, ok?
    by sarahsmile at 01/09/06 2:14PM
  • sutherlandfam
    Hi Mel...overwhelmed?...I remember numerous times in Rhode Island when your family,my family, or others were overwhelmed but we continue on smiling! You are missed...say hello to Eric and the kids.
    by sutherlandfam at 01/09/06 4:24PM
  • jaydon
    Love the house. I love the sunny sky! I want to visit the sun. oh and all of you too. lol
    by jaydon at 01/09/06 6:11PM
  • thedoctorisin
    hey, I just wanted to say hi cause yr the first person Ive found with the same name as me :)
    by thedoctorisin at 01/10/06 5:16PM
  • jaydon
    think_update_think!
    by jaydon at 01/16/06 7:22AM
  • undomiel
    btw, the other person who recently repented was Jason Mulligan, Matt's brother. Did you ever meet him?
    by undomiel at 01/16/06 10:54PM
  • molly24
    I hope all is well in your household. How is the new year going so far?
    by molly24 at 01/18/06 2:38PM
  • sutherlandfam
    HI Mel! Miss you much! How is your brother doing? Please write soon.
    by sutherlandfam at 01/18/06 9:13PM
  • enyek
    OK, didn't we all know she would never post on pleonast??
    by enyek at 01/24/06 9:17AM
  • jaydon
    It was so good talking to you yesterday!
    by jaydon at 01/28/06 8:31AM
  • undomiel
    Yep
    by undomiel at 02/01/06 11:48PM
  • sutherlandfam
    Melanie, I want to let you know that I am thinking of you and am praying for both your brother clint, and your sister Marie. How sad. I plan to call you tomorrow, MOnday. I love and Miss you very much. Deb
    by sutherlandfam at 02/05/06 7:25PM

I HAVE A BLOG!

  • a_starr
    Very nice! :)
    by a_starr at 01/05/06 2:13PM
  • bookworm14
    by bookworm14 at 01/05/06 2:20PM
  • bookworm14
    =)
    by bookworm14 at 01/05/06 2:20PM
  • sarahsmile
    MEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Horay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I miss you like crazy, Mel!
    by sarahsmile at 01/05/06 2:55PM
  • jaydon
    Now lets see if she(Mel) posts or if Brittany is just adding on another blog! lol
    by jaydon at 01/05/06 3:49PM
  • jaydon
    I love the Babe!
    by jaydon at 01/05/06 3:50PM
  • a_starr
    LOL!I was thinking the same thing! :)
    by a_starr at 01/05/06 4:46PM
  • kristine
    Melanie! How exciting! I'll probably talk to you more on here than we ever have on email or phone, huh?
    by kristine at 01/05/06 6:04PM