Ten years!!!

Yesterday, Nate and I celebrated our 10th year anniversary - WOW! Time has flown by!

It has been a good third of my life and I'm looking forward to see what comes next - all I know is that it feels like an adventure =)
  • megan
    Wow, 10 years!!! Congratulations. That is incredible!
    by megan at 12/19/09 12:57AM
  • sarahphim
    Happy Anniversary!
    by sarahphim at 12/19/09 11:06AM
  • ninja_penguin
    10 Years?! Yikes! It couldn't possibly have been that long. :)
    by ninja_penguin at 12/20/09 10:28AM
  • ucnclmeal
    Wow! It just does not seem possible that that was 10 years ago! Happy Anniversary!
    by ucnclmeal at 12/20/09 4:31PM
  • fullofgrace
    congratulations!
    by fullofgrace at 12/21/09 9:22PM
  • casebolt
    Grrr....I missed the card again this year.
    by casebolt at 06/27/10 11:52PM

THANKSGIVING

Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday - which is interesting especially since I never celebrated it growing up!!!
The food, the football games, the weather (most of the time), and the time with family and friends (without the added pressure of having found the perfect gift) are really precious to me! This year, I've thought more about it than in previous occasions because I won't be celebrating it - I'll be, God willing, in Colombia, enjoying my family before I have to move even farther away from them!!!

However, I know many children who will be here and won't have much of a Thanksgiving celebration. So, this year, the 4th grade team at my school has decided to work together to provide a Thanksgiving dinner/celebration to our grade level students = 105. Most of you reading this blog probably know the population I serve (urban, extremely low socio-economic status), so you understand why I'm writing this.

If you are able to either donate some money toward this event or if you are in the Tampa area and would like to make one of the side dishes and bring it over, it will be greatly appreciated =) We will be holding the celebration on Friday, November 20th at around 12:30 at my school. Just let me know!!!! and thanks in advance =)
  • mel_ody
    Maria, I'll talk to Jeremy and we would love to donate something. Also, I could bring something...it would give me an excuse to see the old place briefly! :) I could do something easy like sweet potato casserole, or green bean casserole. Just let me know what's missing!
    by mel_ody at 11/11/09 1:45PM
  • rebekah
    We can't wait to see you all, either!! :) Do you know when yet?
    by rebekah at 12/07/09 10:58PM

Blue...

... the color of my new passport! This means, I am now the owner of an American passport... and I must confess, it is a strange feeling.

Some people try for years to obtain this little book because it literally opens up the doors to the world for the owner, but when I opened it in the mail, I had mixed feelings... Actually holding this book means that I don't have anything stopping me from starting the process to request a visa to travel to Saudi Arabia - Don't take me wrong, I'm very grateful for how easy this whole citizenship process has been for me, and I can't wait to be reunited with Nate (who by the way, is coming in 13 days!!!! - God willing), but even the thought of saying goodbye to people here, and especially to my family and my students, has me in tears.
I know God has great things planned for us - as long as we continue doing His will and serving Him above everything else - but saying goodbye is still hard... very hard!!!

I also know that this time is going to be a little different because I'm moving to a new place, new culture, with my best friend instead of moving alone, but the pain of starting from zero is still quite vivid... arghhh - that's life, though! Can't wait till the moment when we are all together without having to say goodbye EVER AGAIN!!!!
  • jlmanager
    :)
    by jlmanager at 10/27/09 11:00PM
  • i_love_maria
    Now my wife and I share two citizenships! As far as the goodbye's go it reminds me of a Boys2Men song... It doesn't get any easier to say goodbye, but it does help you appreciate things and people more
    by i_love_maria at 10/28/09 4:26AM
  • ucnclmeal
    I wish I had realized when you came to stay with my family how hard it was for you. I don't think I realized how hard it is to move away from your family and everything you know until I got married and moved across the country. At least I was in the same country! But, even though it can be difficult, and you may be homesick, it can also be a great adventure trying and learning new things together. I hope this all goes well for the two of you! :)
    by ucnclmeal at 10/28/09 9:46AM
  • thepoeticmadman
    In line with Nate quoting a song, "Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end."

    Yet another reason why Heaven is better than the world.
    by thepoeticmadman at 10/28/09 11:40AM
  • mountainmama
    So...I guess that means we should send his birthday present to Florida...?
    by mountainmama at 10/28/09 1:59PM
  • pitufa
    Sure Hilary - Thanks!!! He'll be leaving back on his birthday, if his ticket situations ever gets worked out!
    by pitufa at 10/29/09 6:26PM
  • marla
    Amen.
    by marla at 11/01/09 7:53PM
  • carpecollum
    congratulations! Good thoughts, too.

    I love the fact that I don't really have to say goodby to my Christian friends. I just say, "See you later." :-) I'll see you later, Maria.
    by carpecollum at 11/03/09 1:19AM

Writing Therapy

As part of my job description, I have to attend Writing meetings and trainings throughout the year. At these trainings, we learn how to model lessons for the teachers at our schools, and part of the lesson is to act like the student and actually write!
Well, since Nathan left for Arabia, MANY things have gone wrong over here.... I was warned.... I knew that everything that could break/malfunction/go wrong, would happen now that Nate is gone. However, I wasn't ready for everything to happen at once! Anyway, on Monday I had my first meeting of the year, and the Writing time was the exact therapy I needed after the kind of night I had on Sunday- Pouring the latest drama onto paper and leaving there, really helped! So, I thought I'd shared my "master writing piece" with you.... Can't wait to share it with my 4th graders =)

"Even though I was exhausted, the infernal noise brought me out of my slumber, as my disoriented self was attempting to figure out why I was awake at 3:00 in the morning... THE HORN! I shouted, while I frantically grabbed my robe and rushed out to the humid, wet, and still FL night. My block was dark and quiet with exception of my driveway, where my Honda Accord sat disrupting the muggy night by blaring its horn out of its own accord. "Oh no!" I thought, as I propped the hood open and got ready to silence it by unplugging the two bells - Please work, please work, I whispered to myself while trying to ignore the ringing all around me and now...also inside my head.
My slender hands slid between the bells and got hold of the shaking and burning fuses I needed to pull. "One out and one to go" I mumbled as I struggled to ignore the ringing around me. My watch now said 3:15... and one bell was still causing havoc through the night. At this point, my sleep-deprived nerves were ready to snap, so instead, my kitchen shears snapped the stubborn wire, preventing ME from losing it just as my car had!"

And then, time was up! I hope your month is going better than mine!
  • mountainmama
    I'm impressed. I would have no idea how to make a car horn stop. I hope things get better! If not, you'll at least have a lot of material for your writing. We miss you!
    by mountainmama at 09/18/09 12:41AM
  • raifhaus
    Ugg!! We park our car in the front room of our apartment... so when the alarm goes off... it sure shakes us up!
    I've also had the alarm stuck on, out in the middle of a dirt road in a middle of nowhere maize field, couldn't open any of the car doors, had the girls with me, but no husband and no cell phone. Some neighbors who are family of some of the brethren came out and finally got the doors opened and we silenced the alarm. I never had to cut any wires :)
    by raifhaus at 09/18/09 10:50PM
  • rebekah
    That sounds crazy!!!
    by rebekah at 09/22/09 2:42PM
  • sjb
    I completely understand! Hope things get better.
    by sjb at 10/11/09 2:57PM

Becoming a Citizen

So, today, after
an overheated car
having to pull over in the parking lot of an Adult Supercenter in the worst part of town
having to drive back to work one block at a time (literally)
borrowing a car
arriving within seconds of the immigration lady calling my name
answering all kinds of questions about my past and the communist parties I may or may not have joined, and the terrorist cells I may or may not support,
answering 6 questions about the government and history of this country
writing down a simple sentence (Lincoln was the President during the Civil War)
and showing that I can read, write, speak, and understand English well enough to function in this country...

... I was recommended to obtain my citizenship and attend the naturalization ceremony where I will receive my citizenship certificate =)

I know this is a big deal - to me it's just hard to get terribly excited about becoming a citizen of anywhere when I know the only place where I want to make sure to get a Citizenship certificate for is HEAVEN!!!!

Well, plus the fact that I have to get a new radiator, fan, oil something or other, and a couple of other things for my car, kind of puts a cork on my bottle of enthusiasm for the day =P

Thank you to all of you who were praying for me today =)
  • jra
    Congrats Maria! Are we allowed to be excited for you? :)
    by jra at 09/09/09 12:15AM
  • nthnswmn
    What a day! I'm glad you're ok and congratulations!
    Love you.
    by nthnswmn at 09/09/09 12:49AM
  • megan
    Nice job!
    by megan at 09/09/09 7:44AM
  • rebekah
    Congrats!! Sorry about the crazy car situation!!!!
    by rebekah at 09/09/09 8:56AM
  • jlmanager
    Wahoo!
    by jlmanager at 09/09/09 9:13AM
  • meg
    That's cool! I'm glad it went smoothly.
    by meg at 09/09/09 11:21AM
  • mountainmama
    Yay! When is your ceremony?
    by mountainmama at 09/09/09 1:05PM
  • thepoeticmadman
    Thumbs up!
    by thepoeticmadman at 09/09/09 2:28PM
  • raifhaus
    I'm glad it means you can travel!!
    by raifhaus at 09/09/09 8:07PM
  • mel_ody
    Thanks Maria! I read "My Sister's Keeper" Boy was the ending depressing! Well, really the whole book... :) Interesting, but so sad, wow! I did enjoy it though. Didn't read the Travler's Wife. Went for something a little lighter at that point! :) But, I do want to read it, especially after watching the movie. Have you seen it yet!? Would love to get together - even if it's for coffee one evening at Starbucks or something! I know you're probably really busy, let me know when would be a good time! Hope your week is going okay! Tomorrow's Friday! :)
    by mel_ody at 09/17/09 9:03PM