walking around in circles

Nothing to plan, so much to do, but without a time crunch I can't decide what needs to be done first so I end up just putzing around all day. Sure I got some laundry done, and took pictures of the roof and sent them to the insurance company and helped Jordan look for jobs and talked to the insurance company about Jonah's possible surgery (deviated septum) and made dinnner and walked the dogs and lifted my irises (THAT'S why they didn't bloom!)...just nothing big.
  • misssonja
    You're probably due for a "nothing" kind of day, but with a lot more "nothing" than you just described. You have to be tired!
    by misssonja at 06/18/13 11:03PM
  • tryphena
    There's probably a deadline somewhere on the horizon...just hang in there and a crisis will arise soon enough :-)
    by tryphena at 06/19/13 7:33AM
  • justg
    Relish it...
    by justg at 06/19/13 7:39AM
  • bestill
    OK...that is so NOT where I am!! We leave on Sat. I really am on track. I'm doing laundry and making preparations for being gone. The "To Do" list is much shorter and the items on it much smaller.
    by bestill at 06/19/13 2:32PM

home again

I drove down to her house on Friday to see him and her as they arrived back from their honeymooon and to watch them open their cards and presents. What fun! I was glad to be part of the weekend. I was amazed at the generosity from both family and friends as they received an overflowing amount...packed down and overflowing. They are certainly blessed.
  • tryphena
    Abundantly, in every way! I was so glad you could come...especially since I learned about my mother's disappointment at not having shared our wedding gift opening 25 years ago...

    Lots of good weekends! And so many more to come!
    by tryphena at 06/16/13 9:58PM
  • lovescats
    How nice - and welcome home!
    by lovescats at 06/16/13 10:45PM
  • bestill
    I'm not sure how the gift opening is going to work in our situation. Skype with her family after they arrive in Peoria after honeymoon? I'll leave it up to them but I have shared with them how enjoyable it was with Alex and Jena and both families present.
    by bestill at 06/17/13 1:25AM
  • justg
    Thought provoking comments by you on Anita's page...
    Can't go wrong with zero-tolerance.
    by justg at 06/17/13 5:45PM

storms

They are predicting wild storms this afternoon. We had the roof repaired yesterday and today, per the new insurance company's instructions. Now I need to send them pictures of the repaired roof. Then I need to hope that they accept it and then hope the storm doesn't destroy it today.
Fun stuff!

The kids seem a bit worn out today. Jonah, Jordan, Sarah, Ethan, Kara and Jacob have been doing various activities non-stop for two days. They've also been awakened by a roofer at 8 a.m. two mornings in a row. :/ They went mountain biking at Rock Cut State Park, out to eat three times, biking along the Fox River, jumping at the trampoline park, saw "Now You See Me," painted a long board (well, Jonah did that, the others watched) and today they are going to a skateboard store (hopefully BEFORE the storm hits).

I haven't fed them much because they keep going out to eat and the chocolate strawberry pancakes I made this morning were only slightly eaten. Tonight I'll make a big batch of fajitas. Hope that is something they like.
Storm update: It missed us...went all around us. We could hear the thunder, got a bit of rain, but, as is typical, the bubble that surrounds us continued.
The fajitas were well liked.
  • kendrad
    Ugh. Take those pictures!! Who are Sarah and Ethan?
    by kendrad at 06/12/13 12:32PM
  • lovescats
    Hopefully, the insurance company will say, "Ok."

    Heard from the newlyweds? Where are they going to be living?
    by lovescats at 06/12/13 1:00PM
  • tryphena
    Chocolate strawberry pancakes were not well-received? There's something wrong with those kids!! Sarah just goes through times when she doesn't eat much, and then she'll eat voraciously for a few days. She has a snake's metabolism.

    We're due for storms too. Hope they get out of the way before Sarah and Ethan come home.
    by tryphena at 06/12/13 1:15PM
  • misssonja
    Fajitas!!! I'm so hungry!
    by misssonja at 06/12/13 9:40PM

My point of view

The last weekend had to be one of the best weekends of my life. Hardly any tension. "I can't find my wedding shoes." and "I forgot the honeymoon papers." Spiked a shot of adrenalin and my high-pitched, "WHAT?" But we recovered. :-) The weekend was filled with smiles, loved ones, beauty and good food. That's kinda like heaven, right?

My family was extremely helpful in setting up the rehearsal dinner. I had a sister, sister-in-law, brother, brother-in-law, aunt, cousin, a handful of nieces and nephews, and of course my husband and kids all there at the park and Sewall's house to help set it all up for me. I was able to get them started on show them my vision.Then I left for the rehearsal and came back four hours later and it was beautiful. Pics are on FB.

The wedding day itself was absolutely dream-worthy. We got ready in the downtown Hilton in a huge suite and Chick Fil A platters of chicken minis and fruit and cinnamon rolls (yum! I could live on those) were brought to us. My friend, Sandra, drove over from Illinois and did my hair!! Such a sweet woman. So blessed to have her generosity.

The wedding venue was absolutely beautiful and so was the wedding party. Again, the pics are on FB...hope you can all get to them.

Mike and I feel very blessed to have such a good connection with Ted and Anita. We feel we've found friends for life, most definitely. We enjoyed their hospitality all weekend and felt right at home. I didn't want to come home yet.
  • bestill
    I am so happy to read this. What a joyful weekend. You had the best help in the world to set up the rehearsal dinner!! Something to look forward to some day: You will share grandchildren with Ted and Anita, Lord willing.
    by bestill at 06/10/13 9:18AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Yes, we were there. Got in some talk time with the Hopkins, too, which was super nice. About as soon as we took our seats at the wedding we heard a voice talking to us and there was Brad standing next to us to say hello and take us over to see the rest of the crew. I was hoping we would see them there, it was quite a treat!

    ^^ It was funny, Brad's first words were, "Hey! You're sitting on the wrong side!" :D
    by cyber_space_cadet at 06/10/13 10:43AM
  • curlie
    That is wonderful! :)
    by curlie at 06/10/13 4:31PM
  • nchantment4u
    Here's a link to the album on FB. Let me know if this works or not.
    https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10151743993190337.1073741829.558215336&type=1
    by nchantment4u at 06/10/13 5:45PM
  • tryphena
    I think we would be friends for life even without our kids, but how would we ever have met?? SO THANKFUL to God for the way things are turning out--beyond my wildest hopes, indeed.

    We weren't ready for you to go home yet, either...we just wanted for all of us to take naps for a couple of hours.
    by tryphena at 06/10/13 5:48PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    I'm able to access the album. I'm going over to check it out. ;)
    Thanks for sharing!
    by cyber_space_cadet at 06/10/13 6:02PM
  • ceoltoir
    I accessed the album. Thank you so much for that. I totally enjoyed the pictures (except for the few that were sideways - which, because I'm having a dizzy spell right now, made me a vaguely ill :-/). The mothers of the bride and groom were absolutely beautiful. Both of you had gorgeous dresses, great hair, and glowing smiles. Truly lovely.
    by ceoltoir at 06/11/13 2:12AM
  • bestill
    I'm sure men see the video that way! ;) But, yes, just as we might expect them to "just listen", it is certainly a lesson that we, too, need to be open to realizing that the "fix" may very well be much more worthwhile than expecting our husbands to "just listen".
    by bestill at 06/12/13 11:09AM

Not really!!! :-)

So....you know how your husband or kid asks as they are leaning in the fridge or the cabinet, "Where's the ____________?" And you say, "It's right there by the ________." And they say, "I don't see it." And you then blindfold yourself and reach in and pull it out on the first try? We women tend to take pride in our ability to locate missing items when no one else can find them.

Well, my husband had a similar moment yesterday and I thought I should give him credit where credit is due. No, nothing was lost. It was my fridge. Remember? It stopped working. I mentioned it to him and he said, "Probably blew a fuse." I told him we checked that already, but I'd run down and check them again since I did have a kid check that for me yesterday. He reached to the outlet and pushed a little reset button on the outlet and I said, "Jordan tried that yesterday...a couple of times." He pushed it anyway, plugged in the fridge and voila it was working. Yay for Mike!

Lots of cooking got accomplished today. Lots of organizing also took place.

Kara got her driver's license. We grabbed a bit to eat at Panda Express. My grandma bought pedicures for me and Kara. :-)

'Twas a good day!! And it's not over yet. :-)

Must pack and pack and pack and pack. After Bible class.

what's for dinner?!!

Dinner Update: (cuz I know you all are just hanging out here wondering what we ate) Jonah came home from work and said, "What's for dinner?" It was about 4:45 and honestly I had no idea. I offered leftover taco meat. He suggested pizza. We settled on a roasted chicken from the deli, chips and salsa, corn and rice and crescent rolls. Yay! It felt like a real meal with minimal effort.
  • cyber_space_cadet
    I've decided that we're not eating today. :P
    YAY about the fridge!! Go, Mike!
    by cyber_space_cadet at 06/05/13 4:23PM
  • tryphena
    Dinner? I did that yesterday. Probably Chipotle, after Bible study. Because I want it, and the momma is going to get what she wants.

    Yay Kara! Now she can really *drive* you crazy!
    by tryphena at 06/05/13 5:45PM
  • bestill
    I'm glad the fridge is functioning! You're grandma is a sweetie! Have a wonderful weekend! Where will the rehearsal dinner take place? I'm making a groom's cake for our wedding. Maybe I'll just post about it!
    by bestill at 06/05/13 5:50PM
  • bestill
    Years ago Suzy told me why women are better at finding things than men. Having raised 3 sons and with a husband, it has made me much more understanding about why they can't find things that are right there. You'll have to ask her, I can't post it!
    by bestill at 06/05/13 5:55PM
  • ladymustang_08
    I'm so excited to see you all on Saturday!
    by ladymustang_08 at 06/05/13 6:41PM
  • ceoltoir
    My guys had White Castle for dinner. Does it get any worse than that?? Oh, and my dad ate the rest of the leftover liver and onions from last night. Anybody know how to overcome that horrific combination of smells? (White Castle bombs, liver and onions - bleh)
    by ceoltoir at 06/06/13 12:27AM
  • tryphena
    About your dinner: Tuesday, we had a similar scenario. It was getting late in the day, Justin and Hannah were out taking care of business, and they called to ask what's for supper. NO idea...I wasn't hungry and didn't want the work of cooking. By the time they got home, I had gone to the store for deli roasted chicken, bagged salad, cauliflower and corn on the cob. And pretzel rolls. Great meal, almost no effort. It's a good way to go, occasionally.
    by tryphena at 06/06/13 7:32AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    ^ In our family the addition of pretzel rolls to any meal just steps it up one level. :)
    by cyber_space_cadet at 06/06/13 7:43AM
  • nchantment4u
    ^Amen! Love the pretzel rolls.
    by nchantment4u at 06/06/13 9:04AM
  • kendrad
    Mmmm... pretzel rolls. TGIFridays and Chili's both have pretzel breadsticks and hot cheese dip on their menus. Have you tried them?
    by kendrad at 06/07/13 3:52PM