News is better and better !

Today's info:

"Mom continues to improve. She is wearing her glasses now, and attempting to read the paper. She and I did a crossword puzzle together last night. Big improvement over last week when she couldn't tell you what year it was! She is able to navigate to the bathroom with just the walker, unaided by people.

Turns out, the rehab center that Dad chose is not covered in his plan, so an alternate facility was chosen. She may not need the facility for long if she keeps progressing the way she is."

Again, Hallelujah!
  • tryphena
    Amen!
    by tryphena at 05/22/13 2:54PM
  • joc
    Happy, happy news!
    by joc at 05/22/13 2:56PM
  • sjean
    Great news!
    by sjean at 05/22/13 3:06PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Hallelujah!
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/22/13 4:10PM
  • aleta
    :) !!!!!!!!!
    by aleta at 05/22/13 5:38PM
  • ceoltoir
    Wonderful!
    by ceoltoir at 05/22/13 7:01PM
  • marmee
    Praise God! This is great news.
    by marmee at 05/23/13 11:01PM
  • chickadee
    So good to hear :)
    by chickadee at 05/24/13 9:20AM

Hooray!

Just got this from my SIL:

"Mom is in a regular room now. She is able to walk with a walker (and someone with her), so she is getting stronger. Don't know when she will move to rehab center, but maybe it won't be a long stay. Things are looking up!"

Hallelujah!
  • aleta
    What a joyous report!
    by aleta at 05/20/13 11:23PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    In the midst of all of the heartache surrounding the recent tornado devastation it sure was nice to hop over and find some truly wonderful news.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/21/13 4:22AM
  • grandmadiane
    Thank God, may her progress continue!
    When will you be able to return to see her?
    by grandmadiane at 05/21/13 7:28AM
  • chickadee
    Wonderful news!
    by chickadee at 05/21/13 9:19AM
  • sjean
    Well. Allright!
    by sjean at 05/21/13 9:20AM
  • ceoltoir
    I prayed a prayer of thanksgiving and asked God to help her continue to improve. Like Dot I find it a great joy to hear good news for a change.
    by ceoltoir at 05/21/13 11:57AM
  • joc
    Happy to hear your great news!
    by joc at 05/21/13 12:25PM
  • AlanL
    So glad she's doing better.
    by AlanL at 05/22/13 2:24PM

Things are slowly getting better...

My dear Mother-in-law is s-l-o-w-l-y doing better. Her urine, which was cranberry-colored, has returned to the normal color, and they have taken her out of ICU. She is g-r-a-d-u-a-l-l-y speaking more and returning to normal, but her kidney function has not returned yet.

She is, however, doing enough better that they have identified a well-reputed rehab center near Larry's sister's home, and anticipate transferring her there by the end of this week. So things are improving, by baby steps.

Keep looking up, please!
  • grandmadiane
    slow and steady wins the race... I hope this progress continues in this direction
    by grandmadiane at 05/19/13 7:09AM
  • chickadee
    yes, it will. I'm going to check now. That's great about your mil.
    by chickadee at 05/19/13 7:38AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Thanks for the update! Praying.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/19/13 2:53PM
  • aleta
    I know your heart feels lighter! Praise God for answered prayers!
    by aleta at 05/19/13 3:09PM
  • chickadee
    It did! It did!
    by chickadee at 05/19/13 5:04PM
  • sjean
    I am glad that she is doing that much better and also glad that the rehab center is near Beth. How far away is Larry's dad from there?
    by sjean at 05/19/13 9:40PM
  • milly
    About an hour. But they make sure he gets what he needs and that he gets to see her.
    by milly at 05/19/13 10:25PM

Doing Better!

The latest word is that she was sitting up and feeding herself a little bit on Wednesday!!

Looks like MAYBE we have dodged the bullet until another day! Hallelujah! He hears our prayers, and sometimes what we want is actually what is best for us, it seems!
  • misssonja
    Very good!
    by misssonja at 05/15/13 11:42PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    So glad to hear it! Was just coming over to ask you for an update when I saw that your name was white.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/15/13 11:46PM
  • chickadee
    Wonderful!
    by chickadee at 05/15/13 11:46PM
  • joc
    Hope the news continues to be good.
    by joc at 05/15/13 11:53PM
  • marmee
    Very very good. You will get home to see her.
    by marmee at 05/16/13 12:00AM
  • grandmadiane
    I know you have a song in your heart with this news!
    by grandmadiane at 05/16/13 12:04AM
  • ceoltoir
    Maybe it was the V8 that turned her around. ;-). I'm very thankful for your good news.
    by ceoltoir at 05/16/13 12:17AM
  • tryphena
    :-)
    by tryphena at 05/16/13 7:41AM
  • aleta
    This is so good to hear this morning!
    by aleta at 05/16/13 9:14AM
  • sjean
    That is good to hear. Let us hear how she continues to do.
    by sjean at 05/16/13 10:57AM
  • ceoltoir
    Thank you. I imagine you understand exactly what I'm talking about. (((Hug)) to you too.
    by ceoltoir at 05/16/13 7:24PM
  • chickadee
    That is too funny. By the way, did you get a friends request from me on facebook? If you get on there, please read my page today.

    by chickadee at 05/18/13 11:11PM

Emails from home

We are getting some disturbing emails from Larry's sister-in-law. It seems his mother has no energy, is not eating, and only gets out of bed to go to the bathroom, sleeping 24/7. She drank a little V-8 today.

Please pray that doctors can find a solution and turn things around for her. We're not ready to say good-bye (when are we ever?) but if her time is near, she is ready to go.

EDIT: We just got word that they have taken her to the hospital to see if anything can be done. Is selfish to want her to last just a couple more months so we can see her once more this side of the great divide? OK. I guess I'm ok with being selfish in this--as long as there is some quality of life - as long as she is really "there" to say goodbye to in a couple of months. AAARRRRGGGGHHHH. This is hard! Hmmmm. Maybe I'd better just leave it in His very capable and loving hands. Ya think???

EDIT #2: Her kidneys have failed. To my surprise, they are putting her on dialysis. This is different from my experience in the past. When my Grandfather's kidneys failed, it was advance notification that he only had days to live. This agressive treatment surprises me, but they must feel that she is still healthy in other ways, so it is worth a try. Still praying His will be done...
  • cyber_space_cadet
    *praying*
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/12/13 4:41PM
  • grandmadiane
    selfish? nope...loving, caring, human -in a good way, yah. Wishing everyo.e had someone to be 'selfish' for them.
    I pray the answers are fixable...praying for those in whose care she is and those who care for her.
    by grandmadiane at 05/12/13 7:15PM
  • tryphena
    It is a dilemma, isn't it, to want peace and rest for a loved one, but also to want "just one more time" with them.
    by tryphena at 05/12/13 9:09PM
  • marmee
    Yes, and I will pray for her ... and you. Grace & peace to you today.
    by marmee at 05/12/13 9:30PM
  • misssonja
    Bless your heart, and Larry's, too. It's hard enough, but worse to be so far away...helpless...but God is nearby.
    by misssonja at 05/12/13 10:16PM
  • ceoltoir
    I prayed for her and for the two of you.
    by ceoltoir at 05/13/13 12:33AM
  • chickadee
    :( Remember the old saying "between a rock and a hard place"? well, if you think about that, does it mean "in the cleft of the rock"? I pray that God watches over you all.
    by chickadee at 05/13/13 4:48AM
  • joc
    I prayed for her and your family. May God watch over you all and comfort you.
    by joc at 05/13/13 9:19AM
  • sjean
    I was so glad that daddy got more time with you. He almost passed on Christmas, but I think he was hanging on to see you. He talked about you a lot. I hope you get to have more time with your other mother too, but I agree with leaving it in His hands. As for the dialysis I wonder about this sometimes. Of course Grandaddy had that advanced cancer, but even Mark's mom with her whole body failing was put on dialysis. I counted and she had 18 tubes and wires going into and out of her body. It sounds like that is not the case for now with your other mother. I am praying for health and peace for everyone.
    by sjean at 05/13/13 9:24AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Edit #2 = surprising, but hopefully in a good way!
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/13/13 10:47AM
  • tryphena
    The wedding is June 8. Coming right up!
    by tryphena at 05/15/13 10:34PM