How to break your mama's heart

Today my son wanted me to take him to kindergarten instead of daddy. I have been avoiding this because I knew exactly how it would turn out...and it did. He was brave until I told him I was leaving. I picked him up to give him a kiss goodbye and he plastered himself to me. Legs around my waist and arms around my neck. Death grip on my shirt. He put his nose on my nose and kept repeating "I WANT YOU!" What is a mama to do? Finally a teacher notices what is going on and comes over to ask if I want her help with the "situation". She then trys to peel Ian off of me. After a few seconds, she says "Boy is he strong!" The harder she pulls the louder Ian screams. All the other kids are watching in astonishment. The school secretary has to come over and help teacher #1 get Ian off of me. They take him to his classroom, where he calms down quickly (Supposedly!).

Needless to say, I felt sad all day! We had a ladies bible class this morning and then we all went out to lunch. Since I was already all the way down town, I went ahead and picked Ian up after lunch. We live on the far northwest side of town and the kindergarten is on the far southeast side of town. It takes 15-20 minutes to get there. I wasn't about to go home for half an hour and then turn around and drive back down there. Plus he has lunch from noon to 12:45 and then rest time from 12:45 to 1:30. THen it is time to get packed up to go home. So what was he missing - nap time, which we did when we got home!

Daddy is going to have to go back to taking him to school - my heart can't take this everyday!
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    Awwww! I'm glad you got to pick him up early...:) and I enjoyed lunch with you!
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 08/15/06 8:19PM
  • aucowgirl
    bless his pea picking heart. i know that killed you!
    by aucowgirl at 08/15/06 9:17PM
  • sar
    That must have been so hard for both of you. Better let Dad take him to school from now on. I'm sorry that happened!

    bless his pea picking heart, that must be a southern saying! I love it!
    by sar at 08/15/06 10:06PM
  • doodleallthe
    How traumatic (for both of you)! When we were in Brazil, Noah went to a school for about 2 hours in the mornings. He always cried when we took him saying "but I'll miss you" but when I asked him "Do you want me to come get you early, or do you want to stay for snack/play time?" he would, through his tears, say "I want to stay longer." He loved it, but the separating was hard.
    by doodleallthe at 08/15/06 11:34PM
  • roseofsharon
    that's why they should have neighborhood schools with buses and neighbor kids or older siblings you can trust to see that he gets where he needs to go. The bigger schools where you walk them in to make sure they are safe and sound are too hard on both mom and child. A bus ride is an adventure! And somehow, them leaving you at home is easier than you leaving them at school.
    by roseofsharon at 08/15/06 11:41PM
  • rica5219
    awwww, poor Ian. That's so sweet. He loves his mommy!!!
    by rica5219 at 08/16/06 8:30AM
  • lalalalalolo
    Ohhh!! I would not have been okay ... I'm impressed you made it to/through ladies bible study after that!! :)
    by lalalalalolo at 08/16/06 11:45AM
  • lalalalalolo
    We are definitely coming in November - I'm skipping my college roommate's wedding, because it's the same weekend. Yahoo maps says it's 8 hours from where we are ... is it lying?
    by lalalalalolo at 08/16/06 4:31PM
  • sar
    My kids don't go back until Sept. 5th. I'm glad he didn't cry today! Did you?lol
    by sar at 08/16/06 5:50PM
  • dederich
    Oh, they do love to pull our heart strings, don't they??? Wait till he gets married!!!
    by dederich at 08/17/06 10:54AM
  • charliesangel
    bless your heart...i would have cried all day!
    by charliesangel at 08/17/06 11:39AM
  • charliesangel
    oh, thank you for the ofer, but i'm planning on flying with Evie while my dad and charlie drive the car.
    by charliesangel at 08/17/06 11:41AM
  • charliesangel
    are you coming to ladies day?
    by charliesangel at 08/17/06 11:43AM
  • lalalalalolo
    Yeah, we're only about 3 hrs from Indy ... Mapquest also takes us on a route that avoids Indy and Louisville - takes us down through Central IL and then east.
    by lalalalalolo at 08/17/06 1:18PM

We did it!!!

Well, there is a lot to say for peer pressure! In this case, I am hoping that the pressured person considers it positive peer pressure. Me and several friends have talked my sister into joing pleonast! Yeah! With her having three kids and me having two, it is hard for us to have a telephone conversation. So now maybe we can feel a little more in touch. So all of you who know her, run on over to Naomi's page and say hello. She is on the bottom of my friend's list - as "mi hermana".
  • aucowgirl
    yay
    by aucowgirl at 08/13/06 10:16PM
  • lalalalalolo
    yay for getting nomi on here!! :)
    by lalalalalolo at 08/13/06 10:20PM
  • ladyfire
    yeah i am glad you are on here now! Y'all still need to come visit me at work sometime it would give me something to do while i am here!
    by ladyfire at 08/13/06 10:45PM
  • rica5219
    I love all my friends that I don't talk to much being on pleonast. It's so easy to keep up with them that way! :)
    by rica5219 at 08/14/06 9:18AM
  • roseofsharon
    So... taking all the credit are you? Hah! - now if I could only get my biggest (not tallest, oldest) sis to join. She's a busy girl though.
    by roseofsharon at 08/14/06 3:01PM
  • sar
    The little white dots mean that there is a comment on that persons blog or on the group.
    by sar at 08/15/06 7:19AM
  • sar
    How to link:
    SarahDo not put the space and then it will link.
    by sar at 08/15/06 7:20AM

We have survived...



Well, we have survived the first two days of school. When I picked Ian up on Wednesday, I told him that I was glad he was done with kindergarten. He said "mama, I have to go back tomorrow." I couldn't convince him that kindergarten really lasted only one day. He is a little upset that he hasn't gotten to play on the play ground equipment yet! I keep asking if he has learned how to read yet and he keeps saying "No, she hasn't taught us that yet!"

Maddie's 2nd grade teacher is wonderful. Maddie likes her as much as I do. Mrs. Arnold suckered me into being one of the room moms. I have plenty of time for this but I get a little tired of trying to get money out of the other parents for gifts and party goods. Maybe this class will be more helpful.

I am also the troop leader for Maddie's brownie troop. I know what you are thinking! She surprised me the other day by saying that she did not want to do scouts this year. I was a little excited about being able to get rid of this responsibility. So today I spent two hours filling out the financial report I would have to turn in to the council in order to get off of the troop checking account. Not a fun time! Then tonight I was trying to organize all the badges and such. Maddie walks in and looks at it all and says "OK, I'll do Brownies again!" Now, how can I talk her out of it again? Am I horrible?

Ian and Stacy are signed up to play (coach) soccer. Hopefully Ian's girl friend from church will get put on the same team. Notice I did not say girlfriend. Watching 4 and 5 year olds play soccer is such a hoot!
  • lalalalalolo
    Watching Ian's age play soccer is hilarious - I had friends in FL with a 5 year old, and I went to some of his soccer games - I laughed my head off! Glad you and the kids survived! :)
    by lalalalalolo at 08/11/06 4:24PM
  • lovnprayers
    On Charlies first day of 1st grade when I picked him up at the end of the day he said "That was the longest day of my life." His second dsy he said "I've learned everything I need to know." LOL I thought I would bust a gut.
    by lovnprayers at 08/11/06 5:38PM
  • chaz
    BLAST!! I got the details wrong.
    by chaz at 08/11/06 6:23PM
  • missysnapp
    Yep. Today I was fully dressed with my hair blown dry (hasn't happened in 6 weeks!). We actually ventured out today! Did Ian get the teacher you were hoping he would?
    by missysnapp at 08/11/06 7:02PM
  • this_old_man
    Good Luck being a room mom. Remember a lot of people won't volunteer until they are asked. Don't try to do it all.
    by this_old_man at 08/11/06 8:29PM
  • this_old_man
    If you or Stacy are interested in volunteering we ALWAYS can use help at the fair.:)
    by this_old_man at 08/12/06 8:18AM
  • this_old_man
    And my goodness, Your children have grown! Good looking too!
    by this_old_man at 08/12/06 8:22AM
  • this_old_man
    It was good to see ya'll as well. The person baptized was Spencer S. son of Ken and Susan. We have been praying he would. The Historical Fair is held at the same time as Syrup Sopping. The Historical Society started the fair back in the early 70's the raise funds and the town started Syrup Sop a couple of years later. However the Syrup Sop folks say they started it first.
    by this_old_man at 08/12/06 8:34AM
  • this_old_man
    The above posts are out order because I had to correct them. Sorry.
    by this_old_man at 08/12/06 8:35AM
  • lalalalalolo
    We do indeed have the same cousins ... although, the cousin in that story was your sister, if I remember the story right. :)
    by lalalalalolo at 08/12/06 9:26AM
  • lalalalalolo
    Ohhhh!!! I guess the story was exaggerated and misattributed by the time it got to me ... :)
    by lalalalalolo at 08/12/06 12:10PM
  • aurob1607
    i like that play ground at the early ed. center, i have a friend who sprained his wrist on it a few months ago
    by aurob1607 at 08/12/06 2:21PM
  • jaimer
    Yes, I do remember you. I believe your family came and visited us up in Wisconsin Rapids once. I also ran into your Mom when I was at FC, but that has been almost 10 years now.
    by jaimer at 08/12/06 11:43PM
  • roseofsharon
    Glad to help. It's so great to have a chance to talk to you two again more regularly. I miss you guys more than I realized.
    by roseofsharon at 08/13/06 3:57PM
  • roseofsharon
    He used to send one for every year, that got expensive. This year, though, I got a new ring since I gained enough to outgrow my original set. Kids do help your brain scatter. I used to be articulate, too.
    by roseofsharon at 08/13/06 4:02PM
  • roseofsharon
    No Bonnins where I am. Sorry. We are in an suburb north of Austin.
    by roseofsharon at 08/13/06 4:11PM
  • roseofsharon
    July was 7 years. We're practically growing roots but there's only about an inch of soil before you hit rock, so I don't know if strong roots are possible.
    by roseofsharon at 08/13/06 4:14PM

My baby...



Only one more day till my baby goes off to kindergarten. I keep telling him that I have changed my mind and he has to stay home with me. So far he's not falling for it! Tonight we go and meet both the kids' teachers. We already know who Maddie's teacher is and I am thrilled! She was the top choice of a family friend who used to teach 3rd grade at Maddie's school. Ms. Arnold individualizes everything - so she should be able to keep Maddie challenged.

We won't find out till we get to the kindergarten which teacher Ian got. Auburn does their kindergarten in a unique way. Every single kindergartner goes to ONE school. Yes - they have about 450 5-year olds in one school. It is amazing! When we get there tonight we get to fight our way through the crowd to see the lists they have pinned up on the wall. Kind of like the scenes from a movie where everyone is fighting to see the list of who made it into the school play. I am hoping against hope that Ian miraculously gets the teacher Maddie had. I wrote a letter to the principal, trying to explain how very shy Ian could be in new situations, and telling her that he would be more comfortable in a situation he was already familiar with. They group the classrooms into 5 different pods - so maybe he will at least be in the yellow pod, like Maddie was. Keeping my fingers crossed - and yes I said my prayers!

Guess I should go get dressed. If we don't go meet the teacher, does that mean he doesn't have to go to kindergarten?
  • maddieandiansmama
    Yes, we gave him a real cordless drill for his last b-day. He is the king of power tools!
    by maddieandiansmama at 08/07/06 3:53PM
  • lalalalalolo
    I was about to ask!! Wow, it does NOT seem like Ian should be old enough to be starting school!!! Now I feel old!
    by lalalalalolo at 08/07/06 4:14PM
  • curlie
    I can't believe how big he is. What a cutie! :)
    by curlie at 08/07/06 4:37PM
  • lovnprayers
    How handsome it he? He's getting so big.
    by lovnprayers at 08/07/06 5:25PM
  • autatalicious
    He is so SO precious! also...babysitting tonight still? (i remembered!) ..lemme know what time! (my work number is 844-9400 - just ask for me :-) )
    by autatalicious at 08/08/06 8:43AM
  • rainout
    that sounds just like our kindergarten here in Crosby (TX)..all at one school. It's a great way to do it. Good luck with the teacher thing, exactly like our situation too, and we DID end up getting the same teacher that brother got. (you don't know me, but I go to church at Eastside in Baytown--ring any bells?)
    by rainout at 08/08/06 8:58AM
  • aucowgirl
    i love love love love them
    by aucowgirl at 08/08/06 9:36AM
  • ghostlady
    Wow! Is that really Ian? I think I've only seen him once since y'all left IN and that was awhile ago.
    by ghostlady at 08/08/06 9:37AM
  • sar
    A cordless drill, I love it!
    by sar at 08/08/06 9:49AM
  • sar
    Did he get the teacher you wanted?
    by sar at 08/08/06 9:49AM
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    Good luck and hang in there. Ian will do great! I plan on being there Wed to pick up the pieces...love ya! ;)
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 08/08/06 10:02AM
  • rica5219
    awwww, he's so cute. I'm sure he'll do great!
    by rica5219 at 08/08/06 10:29AM
  • doodleallthe
    Hey, Sarah! I checked out your blog recently and I love your quilts! I bought Alex Anderson's quilting book for kids and hope to quilt with both of my kids eventually. Noah (8) would absolutely love a big cordless drill like Ian's. He has a toolbox and his own tools we are adding to each year, but nothing like that! Can Ian drill at will?
    by doodleallthe at 08/08/06 8:28PM
  • adampual
    i know your cousin, Lauren. actually i know her whole family from visiting Kleinwood. i also know her husband, Matt.
    by adampual at 08/08/06 11:39PM
  • steph
    my mom is on here and so are my aunts and my grandpa. Hi ya i don't remember u at all. sry!:}
    by steph at 08/09/06 12:37PM
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    Wow! Her husband wrote the awesome hymn, "Exalted" That's really neat that y'all are related. I enjoyed this morning at Chappy's and meeting your friend Kristi.
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 08/09/06 5:57PM
  • autatalicious
    SERIOUSLY!?!?! AMAZING! b/c i just told erica yesterday that we needed throw pillows! (we wont be there on Sunday bc we'll be at my sister's...but, i'll get them wednesday) :-)
    by autatalicious at 08/10/06 8:28AM
  • aucowgirl
    let me just tell you. you're kids are amazing in class. they remember tons of stuff. ian answered so many more questions in class last night and i could just tell he was so proud of himself. maddie was adorable because she'd rub his back when he got one right! hehe i lvoe it
    by aucowgirl at 08/10/06 10:14AM
  • roseofsharon
    Hi. I know just how you feel sending your baby off to KG. I felt like I was no longer protecting but throwing him to the wolves. Ana went for the second half of last year. She will be starting second grade and Scott in fifth. One more year until middle school. OUCH!
    by roseofsharon at 08/10/06 3:30PM
  • sar
    Steph asked me who the girl was that used to feed her cheerios!
    by sar at 08/10/06 8:21PM

Thank you to an American solider


One of my favorite things to do is make quilts. A few years ago I ran across an organization that was collecting quilts for injured soliders. Me and a friend have made one quilt together. We recently spent a week together at my parent's house and we each pieced another "Quilt of Valor". My quilt is going to a family friend who is in the Army. He is a blackhawk helicopter pilot and has served several tours of duty in Iraq. Thankfully, he has come home safely each time. My friend's quilt is going to a solider who worships with my friend's cousin. I think he has been injured.

Please remember our troops in your prayers. And if you get the chance, tell them thank you.
  • aucowgirl
    i love this
    by aucowgirl at 07/31/06 8:23PM
  • janjan
    Hey it is Jana! Matt andI miss you guys!
    by janjan at 07/31/06 8:42PM
  • janjan
    Love the quilt!! Have to move back before I have a baby so I my baby can have one of your beautiful quilts!!
    by janjan at 07/31/06 8:43PM
  • sar
    Neat! I love that quilt!
    by sar at 07/31/06 9:02PM
  • auamy
    I remember looking at your quilts before we played Bunko at your house. They are such beautiful works of art!
    by auamy at 07/31/06 9:41PM
  • autatalicious
    i want a quilt...but, i'm not a veteran. :-(
    by autatalicious at 07/31/06 9:43PM
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    how wonderful to know your gift will comfort those who have been made so uncomfortable for our freedom.
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 07/31/06 10:02PM
  • curlie
    That is beautiful. I would still love to learn how to quilt--still haven't. I guess I don't live close enough to you or your mom.
    by curlie at 07/31/06 10:51PM
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    I know I am so excited about walking with you! It will be great when our house is finished for many reasons :)
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 08/01/06 7:37AM
  • chaz
    That's awesome. I'll bet those guys love those quilts.

    And Evie's haor isn't red yet. I think I can see a few hints of it there, but only time will tell.
    by chaz at 08/01/06 10:34AM
  • rica5219
    that's so pretty!!!!
    by rica5219 at 08/01/06 10:54AM
  • lucystheboss
    What a great thing to do...I miss you guys too! I'm glad to see you on here!
    by lucystheboss at 08/01/06 2:49PM
  • megan_leigeber
    thats really great! i am sure they will mean a lot to the soldiers who get them.
    by megan_leigeber at 08/01/06 8:35PM
  • rica5219
    thank you for the couch! :) It's AUsome!
    by rica5219 at 08/02/06 10:15AM
  • aimes
    Hi Sarah.
    My family is doing good, thanks for asking.
    I have a little boy who will be eleven on Nov. 2nd.
    My Dad is on here, his screen name is 'dagwood'
    by aimes at 08/02/06 1:02PM
  • autatalicious
    i kinda like those norman kids. haha. I've now written it down in my calendar. I work from 8-5. So, lemme know what time i need to be at your house! Have a good weekend!
    by autatalicious at 08/03/06 5:41PM
  • lalalalalolo
    Hey, it's you!! This is Lauren - Mark and Diane's oldest! How are you??? I saw your name on the IL group, and I thought ... I know only one person with kids named Maddie and Ian! :) How are you guys???
    by lalalalalolo at 08/06/06 9:45PM