Prayers Requested
I know no one gets on here anymore but to my brother and sisters in Christ I come asking for prayers. For all who don't know, I'm dating an unbeliever. There's really no other way to describe it. He grew up with no religion and believing everything that school taught him. He's been going to church with me for a little over 10 months now. He's been asking questions and it seemed to me that he might actually start believing in God sooner rather than later. But tonight was the first night he's actually told me no, he doesn't want to go with me to a church service. It almost broke my heart. This was over the phone because he had to work late so he didn't see the look on my face. He knew he upset me though because he let me get off the phone with him without any kind of struggle. He doesn't like confrontations or feeling like he's in trouble. Instead of calling back and asking why he didn't want to go and risk crying all over my new phone (which would have happened) I decided to text him and ask. He's usually, as most people are, more to the point when asked something like that via text of some sort (SMS, email, etc.). He didn't want to go because he doesn't like driving so far just to sit and listen to something that's dull and he doesn't understand. Again, my heart sank. This entire time I was praying to God for wisdom on how to handle this and respond back. Apparently I responded back in just the right way because by the end of the texting we had decided to read the bible together a little every other day and talk about it. I hadn't the nerve to ask if he still didn't want to go to services with me tomorrow night. I absolutely do not want to come off as someone who is being pushy about it or shoving it down his throat. In His time. Please pray for me as I study with him. God has no hands but our hands...that responsibility scares me to death. And please pray for him. That he'll have an open, tender heart for the word of God. God gives the increase. If I've learned nothing else, I know patience is something I've made very big strides in but I still have so much more to learn in that respect. And patience is something I know I'll need a lot of. Hope is still thriving in me. I've calmed down greatly just typing this out and saying prayers. I can't imagine what other great things will happen with y'all's prayers added to mine. God bless
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Hang in there and keep encouraging him. -
We had a pretty indepth conversation after church Wednesday night. It's looking very promising. By promising I mean he's more open minded and will actually ask me questions about the bible now. He asked what did the people do before Jesus came. I used Acts 17:30 and explained about the Jews and the old law. That Jesus' blood went "forward" and "backward". He said it made sense and he understood. I really hope I did a good job explaining. The only scripture I could think of that would really apply was Acts 17 with Paul in Athens. Any scriptures to better explain it? Or to help him better understand?