Dad (December 14, 2010)

We lost Dad to this world on December 14, 2010, and is work here for the Lord, his hope for rest and eternity with the Lord is now. He was baptized on Jan. 20, 1962, he was 87 years old. He was the most humble man I had ever known in my life, his love for the Lord was inspiring, truthful and his example was always to gloifiy the Lord. He was married for 58 years to the Love of his life and hers. And had 4 daughters which he loved very much. Had 8 grandchildren and 6 greatchildren, My Father always carried bible tracks with him in his pockets, and passed them out to anyone who would take one. He would wait in the front of the grocery store while Mom shopped and strike up a conversation with anyone who would listen about the bible and of couse invite them to church. He was the most patient man I ever knew (guess he had to have with 4 girls and 1 bathroom) he used to take Mom and us girls to the store and sit and wait in the car -reading the bible-waiting for us! I remember when I was growing up having bible studies in our home with the house full we would show bible strips on the portable screen, and then there were times we would pick others up for church and we had a station wagon, I remember having 20 people one time in the station wagon (of course seat belts were not used at this time) When the kids were little they lived in VA, he made a wagon to pull the kids in the wagon with the lawn mower, he made us all many things out of wood, we have coffee tables, lamps, tables, plant stands and he made us baby cradles for the babies and even made Carissa a doll cradle. Mom and Dad loved and Lived for God in all our daily lives, I hope and pray to work toward being together with Lord and him someday! Thank you all for your thoughts, prayers through his illness and his hope for eternity.
  • split_rock
    Precious memories. Precious hope.
    by split_rock at 01/10/11 2:42AM
  • mimi71
    Thank you for sharing all of these memories with us :)
    by mimi71 at 01/13/11 1:08PM
  • friedaj
    I would love to have known him
    by friedaj at 01/14/11 5:18PM
  • chickadee
    Sounds like a wonderful father.
    by chickadee at 01/27/11 1:57AM
  • mamabear
    Sounds like you have wonderful memories. Your father sounds like a man who enjoyed his life.
    by mamabear at 01/27/11 10:25PM
  • granny
    Oh, Lilah, I am so glad I came by. What a beautiful tribute to your father. And what a comfort and shining light for you.
    I do think your father and mine must have come from the same egg. How fortunate we both are.
    Ever onward, dear sister.
    by granny at 01/28/11 11:26PM
  • granny
    Lilah, does your sister share her dishcloth pattern? If so, pretty pleeze????
    by granny at 01/30/11 1:36AM
  • pami
    i would like to see the pattern as well. please from a stranger.
    thanks
    by pami at 02/02/11 7:53AM
  • rissaj
    I love seeing papa's picture on here everytime I come to your profile! :)
    by rissaj at 02/11/11 10:42AM
  • friedaj
    He will have therapy in 3 days a week if I am not mistaken.
    by friedaj at 02/22/11 9:29AM
  • friedaj
    My heart goes out to you honey. Anything I can do to help?
    by friedaj at 04/04/11 9:01PM
  • ncreaves
    Thank you for your thoughtful, kind words of understanding. I appreciate them so much.
    by ncreaves at 10/21/11 11:35PM

Thankful Psalm 28:7 (New American Standard Bible) The LORD is my strength and my shield; My heart trusts in Him, and I am helped; Therefore my heart exults, And with my song I shall thank Him.

I have just returned from a trip with my husband to New Orleans, he went for work for some training he had to take he has been there before and he wanted to me to go this time, so we were able to site see in the evening, saw some of the devastation of Katrina, nothing like I am sure it was 5 years ago, a lot still needs to be done, still a lot of homes need to be rebuilt, there are homes that are still bored up. Anyway enjoyed visiting there, but when you go away to other places makes you think how blessed you are in your life, (maybe it is good to get away and step back sometimes) we found a congregation to worship on Sunday night had to travel almost 50 miles to get there one way, as far as I could tell it seemed like a sound congregation (only one visit) but the Church was Southside Church of Christ, in Gonzales, LA the Preacher was R.J. Evans, there were very friendly and even sent me a card to thank me for our visit, it got here before I got home, I had never been there before, we wanted to get some souvenirs for the kids, after going to Walmart, Kmart, and not finding any in any of the stores, ask someone where to get souvenirs, they said you had to go to French Quarter, the travel books showed these places to be very pretty, I personally didn't see it that way, (MY OPINION) it reminded me of Sodom and Gomorrah I told my family, or sin city some call it. The aquarium was beautiful one of the best I have every seen. And the Plantation was my favorite, beautiful place but some sad stories, life for many there. Loved seeing the Mississippi River, and the steam boats. We tried to find a closer place to worship on Wednesday, found Louisa Church of Christ, which turned out to be a liberal, they were very nice as well, I was able to leave a calling card from Northridgeville coc. Anyway kept thinking how blessed we are in Ohio to have so many Sound Church of Christ congregations to attend and visit.

My Mom has my Dad at home, they came home while I was away with my husband, my Sister (Nana) and her husband (Jose) have been seeing to all their needs and have made them both as comfortable as possible, Mom said she is happy to have Dad home with her, she said she missed him, she said she hopes and prays God will give her the strength physical and spiritual to take care of him until he is to be with the Lord. My sister has everything made as easy for Mom to handle, she has learned how to do Dad's feeding tube, put the medicines in the tube and all his other needs. Her Love for Dad and the Lord are an inspiration to ME!

Went to see him last night and we sang a little. He was happy to see me as I was happy to see them both! Feeling thankful today for all my blessings.

2 Corinthians 4:16-18
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Thank you all for your continued prayers for Our parents.
  • split_rock
    So glad you're home. We've missed you.
    by split_rock at 09/01/10 5:01AM
  • rissaj
    Welcome, home! love you.
    by rissaj at 09/01/10 8:07AM
  • marie
    So happy to have you back.
    by marie at 09/01/10 1:03PM
  • alp1926
    Glad you got to go, but glad you're home safe and sound.
    by alp1926 at 09/01/10 10:09PM
  • chickadee
    Needed that reminder from God's word.
    by chickadee at 09/01/10 10:29PM
  • granny
    lovely news and how wonderful to read of family love and care. May we all go forward in honouring our parents. Yes, there are days when we doubt whether we did put one foot in front of the other, but the love must go on.
    So nice to see your comment on my page. Thank you.
    by granny at 09/02/10 1:45AM
  • alp1926
    Yes, we had a nice time, but I ended up sick afterward. I'm on the mend now. The trip was possible because Melissa and John were kind enough to take Tinker. Not just for overnight, but they took her camping with them. She was a happy camper. :)
    by alp1926 at 09/08/10 9:14PM
  • granny
    Lilah, i'm glad I wrote something helpful. Do feel free to "lift" any, whether on my blog or my most recent article, that you think might be useful to others.
    by granny at 09/14/10 8:31AM
  • alp1926
    Thanks. I think our girls have made good choices. Two more to go for us, but we're not rushing it!!
    by alp1926 at 10/21/10 5:29PM
  • friedaj
    Our prayers are with you all today.
    by friedaj at 12/13/10 3:22PM
  • granny
    May our prayers release some of your pain.
    by granny at 12/14/10 1:46PM

Psalm 48:14 For such is God, Our God forever and ever; He will guide us until death

Life is very busy right now, our family is getting ready to bring our Father home, Life will very hard for my Mother, she has said she thinks he would want to be home, even though most days he doesn't know what is going on around him, with the dementia. We sing hymns with him in the nursing home and it amazes me how he still can remember so many of the hymns. In this illness he has shown me that God is with him, so many hurdles we have been able to get over and I know that without God's Grace we could not have gotten this far (Matt. 19:26 And looking at them Jesus said to them, "With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.) On Dad's "good" days he still tries to "teach us" if we speak to loud he tells we should not argue we tell him we are not just have big mouths! He is still my "Dad" in so many ways he is still kind to everyone, and they (the aids) ask us if he was always like this and we said Yes, always. The aids caught us singing in the room the other day and she was amazed how he could remember the words.( 1 Corinthians 11:1 Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. ) So I believe that he is teaching us still. Might be hard to understand, just I think about all the times my Dad presented the Gospel to others and even this disease can't take the Lord away from him! (Psalm 48:14) For such is God, Our God forever and ever; He will guide us until death.) Couldn't sleep so thought I would write or post. Would appreciate your prayers in the coming days for my Mother and Father.


  • split_rock
    I'm so glad you can see the positive in the trials you are enduring as you care for your parents. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you continue to care for them in the days ahead. Take care of yourself, too, Delilah.
    by split_rock at 08/18/10 4:53AM
  • rissaj
    It was 3AM, crazy!!!

    Everytime we leave Stephen says to me how he can't believe how Papa still knows the words to those songs. I still see my papa when I see him and although he is not the same man he was 3, 4, 10 years ago, he still has a heart of gold.

    Stephen and I pray daily for you and mama, that you will be able to find the strength to do what you need to for a man who has cared and lived his whole life for God and others. I know you all are tired; don't forget to take care of yourself, get rest, enjoy your time away with dad, you know papa would want you to!
    by rissaj at 08/18/10 7:27AM
  • alp1926
    Such wise words here from your daughter, but remember . . . her papa taught her (along with her mother), too. Those hymns are deep inside him. Yes, he's still teaching -- you all and even those aids. What an example. Hope moving him home is the best thing for all.

    And, yes, we are fine. They grow up and can't stay here forever. I don't have to tell you that.
    by alp1926 at 08/18/10 8:03AM
  • friedaj
    My Mom cannot speak anymore but when we put on CD's or sing the songs we sang in services, she smiles and reacts in a manner that tells us that "She Knows"
    by friedaj at 08/21/10 2:17PM
  • 62andhappy
    What can I say, you don't even know me.
    But, I am your sister in Christ and I will say a prayer
    for you and your Family, I pray that God will keep his
    hand up on you and when you need it his arm around you all .
    by 62andhappy at 08/21/10 5:35PM

CLARK-

I have a new grandpuppy his name is Clark, he is a black lab and he is 9 weeks old all black, they (Carissa and Stephen) got him on Wednesday, of course he will never replace Krypto but he hopefully will fill some of the void. Sorry don't know how to put pictures on here, maybe we she will be able to soon, they have been very busy. And of course his name is Clark. He keep Mommy and Daddy up most of the night Wednesday, getting used to his new home.
  • rissaj
    :) He's a cutie! He was really good at the new house yesterday, just found a corner and curled up and went to sleep. Then he wanted to help me pull out the carpet! hahaha.
    by rissaj at 03/12/10 9:13AM
  • rissaj
    I can't wait for you to get here! HURRY UP!
    by rissaj at 03/12/10 9:14AM
  • split_rock
    Here's your grandpuppy:

    Puppy Clark Budd
    What a cutie!
    by split_rock at 03/12/10 12:42PM
  • lydiasmother
    awweee
    by lydiasmother at 03/12/10 1:34PM
  • split_rock
    And look at the size of those paws! He has some growing to do to grow into them!
    by split_rock at 03/12/10 1:47PM
  • madam_librarian
    he is so sweet!!!!! I got to hold him.
    by madam_librarian at 03/12/10 4:06PM
  • alp1926
    No, he won't replace Krypto, but Clark will find his own special place in their hearts very, very soon. In fact, he probably already has. I'm so happy they got him.
    by alp1926 at 03/12/10 4:44PM
  • hannahk
    he's sooooo cute!! :)))
    by hannahk at 03/12/10 5:55PM
  • marie
    He looks exactly like Luther!
    by marie at 03/13/10 1:26AM
  • lizsmith
    He is too, too cute - glad they felt ready to get another puppy!
    by lizsmith at 03/13/10 6:52PM
  • tesnus
    It was great to see you yesterday! Sorry I didn't get to say hi, hubby was doing the "key jingling". Who was with you? She looked a lot like you!
    by tesnus at 03/22/10 9:19AM
  • rissaj
    Hi!
    by rissaj at 04/06/10 7:27AM
  • marie
    Thinking of you....hang in there.
    by marie at 04/30/10 12:47AM
  • rissaj
    You need a new post!
    by rissaj at 06/09/10 9:03AM
  • split_rock
    And I need a new picture of Clark. Cute as the above picture is, I'm sure he has grown bunches since then.
    by split_rock at 06/09/10 12:13PM

Carissa and Stephen

Hello All, we have some sad news Carissa and Stephen's dog Kripto was hit by a car tonight and after being taken to ER he had to be put to sleep, please remember Carissa and Stephen they are both very sad, if you have ever had a pet they become a part of your family, if you will, your child they both are very upset, Abby is visiting as well and hopefully be of some comfort to them both.
  • alp1926
    Abby called me and had me online looking up clinics. I finally found where they were, and they told me they had left about five or ten minutes earlier. Because of confidentiality, they were not allowed to tell me Krypto's condition. I was so hoping for a different outcome. You know how we feel about our pets. We fully understand that he was their baby. We have done nothing but think about them since we got the call. Abby and Amber were heading over there the last time I talked to them.

    Can I ask where it happened?
    by alp1926 at 03/06/10 10:31PM
  • alp1926
    I am so, so sad. I can't tell you how I hurt for them. I hope having Abby and Amber will help and not hurt. Abby was upset about it. Mark and I weren't home when she first called, but I got online as soon as I did get home. Don't you wish we could just rewind a few hours.
    by alp1926 at 03/06/10 10:42PM
  • marie
    I am so very sorry to hear such sad news.She was just telling me how much she loves Krypto.
    by marie at 03/06/10 10:44PM
  • split_rock
    I'm so sorry.
    by split_rock at 03/07/10 6:45AM
  • lizsmith
    I know exactly how they feel because I've been there. It's horrible, and I'm so sorry for them.
    by lizsmith at 03/07/10 7:38AM
  • mimi71
    So sorry for them :(
    by mimi71 at 03/09/10 10:18AM