A Lesson Learned

Yesterday started out like any other day in the life of Kaitlin...

I overslept a little bit and got to the office a little bit after 9:00. I worked, had lunch with a good friend, and worked some more. I left to take Molly to the airport, and on the way there, I realized that I have no idea when I will see her again because our schedules conflict so much this summer. I realized that it might be months before I see her again, so I dropped her off and immediately started crying. As we pulled up to the airport, she suggested that my gas tank seemed low and I probably should fill up before I headed home... Do you see where this is going?

Here is a (loose) timing of the rest of the night:

4:45 - Start heading toward the interstate through rush hour traffic (Still crying)
4:47 - Car starts sputtering and shaking and I realize that I have to get to a gas station ASAP.
4:48 - Car runs out of gas and dies in a left hand turn lane as I try to pull into a parking lot for my car to die in peace. (I start crying more)
4:49 - Call my older sister to see what I need to do. She tells me to stay in the car and she will be there as soon as she can with a gas can and she tells me to stay in the car. She is on the other side of town, so she leaves her dinner plans to drive through rush hour traffic to rescue me.
4:55 - The people behind me waiting for the turn signal finally realize that I'm not going anywhere and my emergency lights are on.

For the next 45 minutes, I sweated and cried in my hot, dead car as people swerved around me, giving me "the finger", yelling unrepeatable words at me, or just ignoring me completely. Needless to say, I knew what the man on the side of the road felt like before the good Samaritan came to help him. I was shocked that no one stopped to help me. I wasn't on my cell phone, I was sobbing, and I was all by myself. I kept praying that God would send someone to help push me off the road before my pregnant sister got there and had to do it. A kind couple finally pulled up beside me and helped push me through the intersection into the parking lot. I got out of the car to call Emily, but I did not know at the time that her phone battery had died. As I'm calling, I realize that I am standing in a red ant pile, and they are in my shoes biting at my feet. I got back in my car and waited for another 45 minutes before Emily finally found me.

Things I learned from this 3 hour experience:
- Look for ways to help people. Take time out to serve those in distress. It WILL make a big difference to them.
- My sisters are wonderful and will always be there for me. I appreciate them and love them so much.
- I need to get my gas gauge fixed, and take my dad's advice to fill up when I am at 1/4 tank. :)

  • nickomundo
    Whoa. That's awful. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Glad you made it through safe though!
    by nickomundo at 05/17/08 3:26PM
  • mandymara
    WHAT?! Could your afternoon been ANY worse? I'm sorry, darlin - you should have given me a call! I would have helped ya! (And I'm not pregnant!!) :)
    by mandymara at 05/17/08 6:12PM
  • texas_kandikane
    aw kaitlin.... i am sorry. man ok lets see...
    1-dad's(males) always say fill up at 1/4 tank
    2-you do have great sisters
    3-lesson one learned-hahaha we learnesd about that the sunday night before school let out at the service where the "taylors follow kandi"- thats waht i call it when your whole family and i end up at church together..hahaha-at North Livingston...

    PS besides jerk people, MOlly leaving work late, prego sister looking for you are you ok?


    also beside this day... how are u?
    by texas_kandikane at 05/17/08 8:00PM
  • entheos
    (tracy) oh, this is awful! we wish we could have been there to help you!
    by entheos at 05/17/08 8:17PM
  • darthdufus
    what keeps me going through sore events is knowing that someday I will laugh at it instead. It truly is amazing that God gave us a sense of humor. but, in the mean time.... I really am sorry for you! just remember that there are those of us who always look forward to seeing you smile. God bless.
    by darthdufus at 05/17/08 8:51PM
  • cannedjello
    wow that sounds horrible... glad you made it back ok!
    by cannedjello at 05/18/08 7:31AM
  • dixiechick
    I'm so sorry. I'm glad someone stopped to help, and everything is okay now.
    by dixiechick at 05/18/08 12:15PM
  • macmcc
    Sorry!
    by macmcc at 05/18/08 8:19PM
  • angiebrewer
    That's a very sad story. :(
    by angiebrewer at 05/18/08 8:51PM
  • luvs2sing
    Awww Kaitlin!! I'm so sorry that happened to you!! I'm always so afraid that will happen to me. I tend to underestimate my gas tank sometimes. Glad everything turned out ok though! Love ya! :)
    by luvs2sing at 05/18/08 10:06PM
  • adampual
    i'm so sorry...i'm glad you are okay, though!
    by adampual at 05/19/08 9:25AM
  • sunnylee
    oh dear...I'm sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and yes..moving is a whole new and different and sometimes frustrating experience!!!
    by sunnylee at 05/19/08 9:43AM
  • heidiw
    AWWWW!! That sounds like an experience that my mom an I had years ago. Except ours was in the dead of winter and we were only about 2 miles from our home. So sorry that happened to you, but I am glad that you are safe!! Hope that you are having a good summer so far!! Have a good day!
    by heidiw at 05/19/08 10:51AM
  • megan
    Wow! How awful :( Glad it's better now.
    by megan at 05/19/08 11:01AM
  • amy_szabo
    i miss you too!
    by amy_szabo at 05/19/08 7:04PM
  • jenjam
    That's a terrible story and a hard lesson learned. I ran out of gas once, but thankfully I was just down the street from my house and Reagan was right behind me.
    Glad you're okay and that you have such great sisters. How is Em doing? I need to call her.
    by jenjam at 05/20/08 8:49AM
  • rainout
    wow, i think i need to go get gas! kinda makes me think about passing people in need on the street and getting aggravated at them -- maybe i am not much of a "good samaritan" either...sorry about your rotten day!
    by rainout at 05/20/08 10:16AM
  • jhagan
    Sorry to hear about your bad day. Fortunately, that is in the past now! As for starting the series in August, I don't know if I will wait quite that long, but you won't miss much. I expect the series won't start for at least a month, and it may very well not start until August. We look forward to seeing you!
    by jhagan at 05/21/08 4:25PM