06/07/13 3:03PM

Jackson hasn't had an accident for weeks now and is not wearing diapers (or pull-ups) at all to my knowledge. YAY!!

Nola finished her soccer season and immediately asked what was next. "Can I be in ballet?" I know she wants to do this because there's another little girl in her Bible class who takes lessons. I'm not letting Nola take ballet, but what have you used as a good response to your children when they see other Christians' families doing things you don't allow?

We are house- and dog-sitting for Josh and Christa while they are in the Grand Canyon. Hoping to have a garage sale next weekend while I'm there since their neighborhood is a better selling market than mine.

What exciting traditions do have for 4th of July during the day? I need fun things for adults and tiny kids. Grilling, corn hole, glow sticks, parade...
  • dawnmk23
    We are honest and tell them that Christians should not wear tight revealing clothing like a swimsuit, ballet clothes, etc. Therefore, just because someone else does it, doesn't mean we should or ought to.

    Yay for little Jackson! :0)

    We don't do a lot for 4th of July except go to a parade if it's not too hot, have a grill out, and watch fireworks from our backyard at night while catching fireflies.
    by dawnmk23 at 06/07/13 7:18PM
  • purrph1
    We just explain about the immodest clothes and just because someone else does it does not make it right.
    On the 4th of July, we run the local 5K in the morning. Gabriella is running it this year too! Sean will run with her while pushing Lucy in the jogger. I will race/run hard.
    We are planning on inviting everyone to our house that night at 5 pm for a potluck and outdoor games like volleyball. We can also see the fireworks from our front yard.
    by purrph1 at 06/07/13 9:22PM
  • bestill
    That is a very difficult situation when other Christians allow their children to do things that you don't. We had to deal with that, too. I was honest with them, but also expressed it in a way that let the child know that it is tough to see Christians and their children participating in things that aren't wise. You can pray for that family with Nola. At Nola's age, I might just tell her no and why and stop there unless she asks why the other little girl can do it.
    by bestill at 06/07/13 10:04PM
  • nchantment4u
    I try to remember that I am sometimes on the other end of that scenario. Sometimes we do things that other christians have deemed inappropriate for their family. So, when I'm in the situation you are in, I just say. That is something we have chosen not to do in our family and here is why.
    by nchantment4u at 06/10/13 4:54PM
  • nchantment4u
    Pictures taken and emailed to insurance company.

    Sarah (Sewall): Jonah's girlfriend and sister of Justin's bride.
    Ethan (Piner): friend of Jonah's from FC.
    by nchantment4u at 06/12/13 11:50AM

Odds and Ends

Brent and I have been doing Dave Ramsey classes on Saturdays. We have about 3 weeks left and I already feel so much better. And at the same time I'm slapping myself for years of foolish spending...

Nola and I have been meeting with a local homeschool group on Monday afternoons. She is having fun with her new friends, and I am fortunate to be around moral women. The families vary in religious beliefs: 2 families are Mormon (no, they have tried to proselytize yet...), two are community church-ers, and one woman is the daughter of a Lutheran missionary whose husband fixes pipe organs for a living.

Nola made the front page of a new local news daily after a reporter interviewed me at the library's weekly story hour.

I am still fighting with emotions after losing the baby in December. Some sadness, some guilt, some regret, some trying-to-move-on, some disappointment about not being pregnant yet... I want to be happy. And I want to be happy for other who're holding their perfect little ones. I really do. But it's really tough.

Jackson is back. I've had him almost everyday (excluding Sundays) for about 3 weeks. Because of a sewer problem in their house Wednesday, he has even spent two nights here. I can tell he misses his parents and it breaks my heart when he cries as Tracy drops him off. Poor kid.

Brent is working through Memorial Day weekend, but has next weekend off for my birthday (I'll be 31). I'm hoping for a sushi date (with NO children) and a trip to the gourmet cheese shop. :)

Since my mom's dad worked for DelMonte when he was alive, Grandma stills gets to order from their wholesale warehouse every so often. I was able to get a year's worth of diced tomatoes, tomatoes with green chilies, green beans, dog treats, pizza sauce, chicken broth, sliced new potatoes, pineapple, and cherry fruit-cicles for less than $40. Hot dog!! Dave Ramsey would be proud!

At the end of June, Mom, sisters, Nola, and I are going on a girls' weekend to St. Louis. I think we're going to hit up the City Museum, Grant's Farm, and a place called Crown Candy (a friend from FC, not to be confused with an FC Friend, recommended it to us for their BLTs).
  • curlie
    HUGS
    by curlie at 05/25/13 12:26AM
  • dawnmk23
    HUGS Praying that you have healing soon. Also praying that the classes help you and Brent. We discovered Dave after 3-4 years into our marriage. It has been a blessing to us, and I pray that it will be to you, too! Have a great time on your trip!!
    by dawnmk23 at 05/25/13 8:49AM
  • srching4trth
    Check out The Cup if you can when you are in STL! http://www.cravethecup.com/
    by srching4trth at 05/25/13 3:09PM
  • bestill
    Just said a prayer for your emotional healing after such a huge loss you suffered.
    by bestill at 05/26/13 10:48PM
  • nchantment4u
    "matching black socks"...I meant that i need to find 2 black socks that match to make a pair for each of the boys.
    by nchantment4u at 05/28/13 7:56AM
  • onelittlecandle
    Praying for you, my friend. :)
    by onelittlecandle at 05/30/13 8:44PM
  • heatheronthehill
    Just want you to know I'm thinking of you and praying for you. *hugs*
    by heatheronthehill at 06/04/13 6:41AM
  • nchantment4u
    oh yes! got a dress for kara back in march. since i found mine for only $16, I splurged and bought her the expensive one i found. it is perfect.
    by nchantment4u at 06/04/13 7:08AM
  • nchantment4u
    BTW, I love listening to Dave Ramsey. Have been listening and applying much of what he says for about 8 years. Mike and I lived on a strict budget and pretty much debt free all of our married lives, so we don't have a ton of stupid tax to pay. Hope you enjoy the classes.
    by nchantment4u at 06/04/13 7:29AM

05/10/13 8:04PM

I thought I had some pretty spectacular guidelines for potty-training, but I was proven WAY wrong today. Until now I have been a strict "no-pull-ups" believer. If it looks like a diaper, feels like a diaper, and soaks up your business like a diaper, it's a diaper, right?! The child thinks, "It's okay to pee in this." He doesn't feel wet and the parent (or in this case, babysitter) doesn't know the child has gone in his pants.

I've had Jackson every day for a week now. He is consistent about going when on the toilet, but not consistent about ONLY going on the toilet. I've changed lots of clothes thinking if he feels wet he'll get the picture. He doesn't. Being wet doesn't bother him at. all. SO, since we were out of the house today I put him in the good ol' pull-up to save myself the headache. He didn't have one accident. I don't get it. *shaking head*
  • dawnmk23
    That is weird. I think my boys we a bit harder than my oldest. We have 1 more to go, so we'll see where it takes us!
    by dawnmk23 at 05/10/13 9:25PM
  • bestill
    When Brian was potty training, we went on vacation in Orlando. I had gotten Pull Ups for the trip for convenience. Same thing happened. He never had an accident the whole time we were there and came home completely potty trained...of course he was 6 years old....JUST KIDDING!!
    by bestill at 05/11/13 7:16AM
  • nchantment4u
    ^funny!! i don't answer questions about potty training because I was a total failure at it. Don't get me wrong, they learned, but no certain method worked for me. It was hit or miss...pun intended.
    by nchantment4u at 05/11/13 6:32PM
  • kendrad
    ^Bahahaha!!!
    by kendrad at 05/11/13 9:52PM
  • raifhaus
    The comment above nearly did me in! haha! Working with our nearly 3 year old boy now.
    by raifhaus at 05/14/13 8:15AM
  • nchantment4u
    actually it was all done in TWO days and besides my arms, I also had jonah and jordan's arms.
    by nchantment4u at 05/22/13 7:59AM

05/02/13 8:32PM

Q from Dawn: How long have you been a Christian? Did you grow up "in the church?"
A: I grew up going to Methodist church and Sunday school until I was about 12ish. I occasionally visited Wed night Bible classes with my aunt (who was, at the time, the only Christian in my family). After hearing enough of the truth and asking enough questions (and waiting too long, as most do), I finally obeyed the gospel and was baptized Aug. 1, 1998. I was 16.


Q from Laura: If you could have any talent, but had to give up one of your existing talents in order to get the new talent, what new talent would you choose and what would you give up?
A: 1. I'm not sure I have any talents too valuable to give them up... Ha! 2. I would love to do stand up comedy. For a living. If I could be creative enough to make people laugh night after night then I'd give up cake decorating or...whatever...forever. Bah. Any creativity would be nice... :)


Q from Irlene: How's the cake business going?
A: Not busy at all. I've had two orders so far this year. One was for baby shower cupcakes and the other is two sheet cakes for Memorial Day (Mary Kate's graduation). :( Certainly nothing to earn an income from...


Q from Lauren: What does a day in the life of Kendra, Nola & Jackson look like?
A: We're usually up between 7-8 (earlier lately since Nola's new curtains let more light in...). We shower and dress and eat breakfast. Then the rest depends on what day it is. Today was Bible study day so we left around 8:45 and were back by 11. Brent was home so we cleaned out the shed while Nola played outside and rode her bike. When it started raining we came in and vegged while Nola took a nap. Tomorrow will be boring. It's supposed to rain and there's nothing planned til our 7PM devotion at the Fountains'. Other days we go to story time at the library, home school group, soccer, the park, grocery shopping... (Side note: I haven't had Jackson too much this year either. Don't know what's going on with that...)


Q from Lauren: What is Brent's new career plan?
A: Really? The same thing he's doing now. He dispatches police and fire departments for Champaign County and most of its individual villages, and he LOVES his job. BUT, if he has a degree in Safety Communications (?), he has a lot more opportunities: training, mgmt, secret service... Just kidding on that last one, but he probably would have to kill us if he told us. ;)


Q from Jessie: What color icing stains the teeth/tongue the quickest?
A: Anything dark. Blue, black... Black, as it turns out, is usually a really dark green or dark purple. It's different with each brand/product. I.e. Black sugar sprinkles melt when it's really hot and run an ugly green down buttercream icing. Your tongue usually shows it too...
  • bestill
    That was fun!
    by bestill at 05/02/13 9:12PM
  • dawnmk23
    Cool. Thanks for sharing. So happy I met you, you are a blessing to know! So glad you obeyed the gospel all those years ago! I didn't realize there was a homeschool group in your area. We have one, but it only meets 1X per month. :0)
    We are having a snow day! Bah!
    by dawnmk23 at 05/03/13 8:04AM
  • raifhaus
    Enjoyed reading!
    by raifhaus at 05/03/13 5:23PM
  • dawnmk23
    We ended up with 4 inches or so! It was hot over the weekend and it melted quickly!
    by dawnmk23 at 05/05/13 7:26PM
  • dawnmk23
    My husband has a full report on FB. We ended up basically going 1/2 hour away to a getaway hotel, then spending time at the downtown farmer's market (a bust b/c of the rain), and walking downtown of a bigger city and seeing some REALLY cool shops. We went to a cupcake place that did all kinds of cool flavors - including bacon! (We weren't THAT adventurous!) Anyway, we ended up having a nice time, and it was very refreshing! :0)
    by dawnmk23 at 05/06/13 8:38AM
  • whipsmile
    I just got an icing education. too cool!
    by whipsmile at 05/06/13 9:09AM
  • nchantment4u
    thanks for the answers. no, i don't usually cook that much at one time, but you know what? i might start.
    by nchantment4u at 05/08/13 2:49PM

Q & A...

Go!
  • dawnmk23
    How long have you been a Christian? Did you grow up "in the church?"
    by dawnmk23 at 04/26/13 11:00PM
  • nchantment4u
    If you could have any talent, but had to give up one of your existing talents in order to get the new talent, what new talent would you choose and what would you give up?
    by nchantment4u at 04/27/13 12:36AM
  • bestill
    How's the cake business going?
    by bestill at 04/27/13 8:45AM
  • wifelet
    What does a day in the life of Kendra, Nola & Jackson look like?
    by wifelet at 04/27/13 8:59AM
  • wifelet
    What is Brent's new career plan? (It's driving me crazy!!!)
    by wifelet at 04/27/13 9:11AM
  • bestill
    I just used soapy water made with Pinesol and a scrub brush. It worked really well! It looks great. It was so dirty...quite a constrast.
    by bestill at 04/30/13 10:35PM
  • whipsmile
    What color icing stains the teeth/tongue the quickest?
    by whipsmile at 05/01/13 9:47AM