What's My Motivation?
It was a hot July afternoon when Dalton arrived at Mrs. Smith’s house. Mrs. Smith’s yard was out of hand, and it was obvious she needed help tending this small jungle. After two full hours of work, Dalton finally finished and started loading his mower back into the truck. Mrs. Smith came out to express her appreciation with a tall glass of lemonade and a big hug. “You really didn’t have to do all this.” she said, her face beaming with gratitude. “Oh, it’s no trouble,” Dalton replied, “I did it for my reputation, not for you.”
Admittedly, this is an unlikely story...but it may be closer to the truth than you think. “Good” deeds are often done for the wrong reasons, but rarely accompanied with such honesty. There are many times when we are guilty of having the wrong motives but fail to admit it—even to ourselves. We may do something simply “to be seen by men” without even realizing that our motives are skewed.
A Christ-like life means that good deeds are done out of love—not selfish motives. In Matthew 6, Jesus urges, “Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men.”
When Jesus says not to sound a trumpet for attention, he’s not just talking about going to extremes. With practice, you can become quite adept at subtly drawing the praise of others. Even if you fool everyone around you though, God knows if that’s all you care about. We may be skilled at camouflaging self-centered actions, but ultimately we cannot hide them from our Lord.
If you’re not sure if this is a problem for you, there’s a good way to test: Sometime today, do something kind for someone else without them knowing. The more effort you have to put in to this action, the better! The second part is where it might get difficult: make sure nobody EVER finds out. Don’t talk about it. Don’t bring it up if nobody notices what you did, or take credit if someone else points it out. Let this act of kindness be a secret that only you and God share.
Seem easy? Hopefully it will be… but I challenge you to try it.
Admittedly, this is an unlikely story...but it may be closer to the truth than you think. “Good” deeds are often done for the wrong reasons, but rarely accompanied with such honesty. There are many times when we are guilty of having the wrong motives but fail to admit it—even to ourselves. We may do something simply “to be seen by men” without even realizing that our motives are skewed.
A Christ-like life means that good deeds are done out of love—not selfish motives. In Matthew 6, Jesus urges, “Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men.”
When Jesus says not to sound a trumpet for attention, he’s not just talking about going to extremes. With practice, you can become quite adept at subtly drawing the praise of others. Even if you fool everyone around you though, God knows if that’s all you care about. We may be skilled at camouflaging self-centered actions, but ultimately we cannot hide them from our Lord.
If you’re not sure if this is a problem for you, there’s a good way to test: Sometime today, do something kind for someone else without them knowing. The more effort you have to put in to this action, the better! The second part is where it might get difficult: make sure nobody EVER finds out. Don’t talk about it. Don’t bring it up if nobody notices what you did, or take credit if someone else points it out. Let this act of kindness be a secret that only you and God share.
Seem easy? Hopefully it will be… but I challenge you to try it.
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Wow that is amazing! thanks that is very encouraging