WARNING...PROUD MOM MOMENT

All you Moms know the feeling...so you understand.

Luke was the winning pitcher for the school championship baseball game Tuesday night. He pitched innings 3 through 8. The last 2 innings were extra innings because of a tie.

I was so proud of him. He kept his focus and composure as he threw the final strike that won the game 6-5.

After the game, he received a trophy for All Conference league and will be playing in a independent league All-Star game this Saturday. It was a teary night for his dad and me. :-)
  • kmedasmom
    Way to go Luke!!!!!
    by kmedasmom at 05/14/09 8:18AM
  • emersonk78
    Love it! Awesome news. I am also given to the "proud parent moments" and love to hear others. Especially hoss baseball moments. Love it.
    by emersonk78 at 05/14/09 8:25AM
  • justg
    WooooHOOOO! I get the proudness! When you have a granddaddy named after a famous baseball player, you just have to be good!
    by justg at 05/14/09 8:42AM
  • tommyswife
    Good job! That kids got talent! :)
    by tommyswife at 05/14/09 8:44AM
  • AlanL
    Good job, Luke!
    by AlanL at 05/14/09 8:47AM
  • carolattheriver
    Way to go LUKE!
    by carolattheriver at 05/14/09 10:07AM
  • jenkegley
    Way to go, LUKE!
    by jenkegley at 05/14/09 2:31PM
  • jenmurff
    That is awesome!
    by jenmurff at 05/14/09 7:43PM
  • ncreaves
    Wonderful,memorable,treasurable moments. I remember when we went to our 4th sons last soccer tournament (all 4 played) and cried remembering 21 years of going to games. I still miss those moments....so enjoy, they pass so quickly.
    by ncreaves at 05/15/09 6:25AM
  • derbydi
    That's great!
    by derbydi at 05/16/09 4:29PM
  • justg
    Spoke to Janet tonight. We are all caught up.
    by justg at 05/17/09 7:29PM
  • 23_bravo_7
    Gotta hand it to 'em, its the pitcher who does most of the work in a baseball game and to come out on top, GREAT.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 05/18/09 4:09AM
  • jenkegley
    Thanks! :) I guess my dress did kinda look like hers - I never thought about it. I know one thing, it sure didn't cost as much! My mom made my dress. :)
    by jenkegley at 05/19/09 6:21AM
  • 23_bravo_7
    Gary Ogden, is he the one with cancer?
    by 23_bravo_7 at 05/19/09 8:05AM
  • 23_bravo_7
    I am so sorry to hear that. In reading his writings he set an excellent of a man who faced death with strength, courage and a belief in a better life with his Savior.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 05/19/09 3:14PM
  • sheliandbrettsmom
    Whoohoo! Luke! He is such a great kid and that's not even counting his athletic prowess!
    by sheliandbrettsmom at 05/30/09 2:59PM

So...the conclusion???

Thanks so much to those who wrote what they believe about preparation for assembly. It was a topic with my Thoughts for Thursday also. Heard one negative comment about it...but all in all...kind responses.

If your my age...50's..then I am confident you have seen a change in how we present ourselves for assembly. I remember the hat and glove days with matching shoes and purse! Showy???...for some yes..others, just a matter of fashionable dressing.

In my OPINION (please read that over and over :-) )many of us fell into the "Come as you Are mentality and did not expect more than that. Of course we expected more from the preacher, his family, the elders and their families. The preacher in a tee-shirt for Sunday?? Should be okay shouldn't it? But wait...he is being paid. :-(

So my "thoughts" are ....giving our best which includes our hearts and how we present ourselves. When you read of what God expected when offerings were made...he wanted the best. Was not Cain's heart relfected in what he presented?

We all have to decide what is our best. If a college student's best is jeans and tee-shirt...then glad he/she is there. But at some point...my hope would be that he/she would come to understand that presentation before the KING is important. At least that is MY opinion.

We do tend to dress "down" for Sunday and Wednesday. And honestly...I don't know why. But we all do that and is something I want to give attention to for myself.

I appreciate all the thoughts...and please know that my opinion is just that...my opinion :-)
  • nornie
    I posted below.
    by nornie at 05/07/09 11:45AM
  • mandao
    Good point, you presented something different than i have ever thought about. Also I know I am late but I think the time of day matters. When I get up in the morning and get dressed to go somewhere I put a lot more time and effort in to it. If I need to leave the house in the afternoon to go somewhere I just throw something on. Not the attitude we need to have but I think after a long day its easy to want to feel comfortable and many think of casual with comfort. Only my two cents! But thats about all its worth! Two cents!
    by mandao at 05/07/09 8:14PM
  • AlanL
    Yes! Long trip for work. We had been to Ghent, KY to do some work at a plant that is about to start up.
    Regarding our attire, we used to all wear coats and ties to work in my profession, but no longer. My thought on that is that the idea of wearing a coat in the summer just seems silly. I normally dress "nice" for worship, in the same way that I dress nice for the office. I dress "up" when I lead in the assembly, though. Not sure why I see it differently.
    by AlanL at 05/09/09 8:33AM
  • joyinthejourney
    Of course ^^^^^ is anonymous. Never fails. So the conclusion...according to this anonymous pleo writer is that if you dress down...then you must be spiritually sound....whatever "sound" is supposed to mean. Again...this is not about being "showy"...it IS about presenting your BEST to your Creator. We apply it to everything else but our worship to the King. The Pharisees considered themselves "sound" too.
    by joyinthejourney at 05/12/09 6:45AM
  • justg
    I wouldn't give one nod to someone who would post something anonymously.
    by justg at 05/12/09 3:53PM

Your Thoughts?

Do you make a conscious decision to wear something "dressier" on Sunday for worship service? Do you think what you wear should matter when you come together to worship? Is there such a thing as "sloppy" dress for assembly?

Were you to visit a King of a country...would you make more effort to dress appropriately for that occassion?
  • tommyswife
    Yes, Yes, Yes!, Yes!!!!! All of these are very important matters to me. And I am not talking about women in Easter Sunday dresses and men in three piece suits. I am talking about care in preparation for coming before the Lord.

    I think about Esther and her time of preperation before meeting King Artexeres. I forget the spelling of his name, forgive me.

    I am happy with nice clean clothes that are not a distraction and a heart that truly felt the need to put their best foot forward for the Lord. This strikes a cord with me...can ya tell?! :)
    by tommyswife at 05/05/09 8:01AM
  • ncreaves
    Agree with tommyswife that "care in preparation for coming before the Lord" is the key point. On the other hand, some have so little especially in foreign works, that "coming" is the key priority. Modesty is the top priority. I've adjusted to slacks, but still am uncomfortable with jeans especially tight ones. If possible, clean and ironed is nice which goes back to preparation.
    by ncreaves at 05/05/09 2:08PM
  • jenmurff
    I've thought about this a lot recently. I'm guilty of thinking that it is okay to be more casual on Sunday night and Wednesday. Sometimes I ask myself, "why is a denim skirt okay for Wednesday but not Sunday?" "Are slacks okay on Sunday or just Wednesday or not at all?" I'll be interested in what you have to say! :)
    by jenmurff at 05/05/09 2:38PM
  • mamahastings
    Agree with the above. For myself, I try to make sure that we are in our "best." Slacks are an absolute "no" for myself and the girls- however, I do not bind that on anyone else. (I think it is more about being feminine than about modesty) The congregation we are at is much poorer than any of the others we have been at before. It is so good to see a hard working group coming together and being refreshed by the Lord through each other. When it comes down to it, as long as it is not revealing, I could care less about what they are wearing.
    by mamahastings at 05/05/09 2:40PM
  • mamahastings
    Another thought is- If you were going to a funeral or memorial service for a friend, what would you wear? Would you wear any less to remember the death of your Christ?
    by mamahastings at 05/05/09 2:42PM
  • derbydi
    Yes, I do. I hardly ever wear my "church dresses" anywhere else besides church services. I think it's a time when we should put forth our best and dress with respect.
    How would we dress before the president, a governor, or some other important person?
    Thought-provoking questions!
    by derbydi at 05/05/09 3:46PM
  • kmedasmom
    God gave us His best, His only Son, to die for our sins...should we not give Him our best...and be happy to do so?
    by kmedasmom at 05/05/09 5:06PM
  • justg
    Honestly, for me...if it's clean, if it's modest, then I don't put a lot of emphasis on the clothes, for Sunday or Wednesday. I've known plenty of people that dressed in their 'Sunday Best,' however, their hearts were not adorned with godliness and love, but with a cold, checking it off mentality.
    Living in a college town...for me, I'd much rather have my students in a UF teeshirt, jeans and a pair of flipflops as opposed to not being there at all.
    As for going before Presidents, Kings, Popes? I'm sure there is a protocol that the Citizen's must adhere to in order to receive an audience. Not so with our Father.
    Recently, I had to wear sneakers and jeans to a Sunday morning assembly...thankfully, there were no cross remarks nor raised eyebrows. In a lot of congregations across the country, I would not have been welcomed.
    How sad is that?
    I believe this question falls on the side of opinion. I'm equally sure I will be in the minority. That's ok.
    by justg at 05/06/09 1:33PM
  • nornie
    I found this throught Tony

    Personally I dress up and I dress my children up. It was the way I was raised and I am comfortable dressd up at Church. I admitt on Wednesday I am more casual. I was also raised that if you wore pants in the Chruch building you were going straight to hell, which I do not believe.

    I am a member at a congregation that has many visitors every week for all around the country. These are people who are on vacation and dress in "Vacation" clothes many times. I would never judge them on their appearance or clothing as long as it was modest. I love to meet the people and they encourage me by putting God first.

    I think we need to think "What would Jesus do?"

    I heard a preacher once say "Care the heart and the outward appearence will follow.
    by nornie at 05/07/09 11:32AM

Gotta Love This!

  • AlanL
    :-)
    by AlanL at 04/29/09 8:05PM
  • narey_kay
    My hubby should live by this. He loves that place! Love the fact that they are closed on Sunday's though!
    by narey_kay at 04/29/09 9:42PM
  • arsenal
    Your question is correct, where do we stop? Please explain what landscaping has to do with preaching the Gospel, yet conservative congregations see nothing wrong with spending church funds on it. In the entire NT the only thing authorized for church funds is care for needy saints. Yes, I know they sent money to support preachers but there is no scripture indicating how this money was to be collected or even if it was taken from church treasuries. We only assume it was. I think we do a lot of "assuming" over the silence of the scriptures. The scriptures are silent as to the step by step preceedure for supporting orphans. My point is that based on the silence of the scriptures I believe God left many things to our judgment. One last question, what does a $1,000,000+ dollar church building have to do with preaching the Gospel. I don't read that it was a necessity in the NT.
    by arsenal at 04/30/09 1:36AM
  • arsenal
    I am not anti-church building even though I read nothing of "church buildings" in the NT. This is another thing I beleive God left to our judgment along with the landscaping, support of preachers and orphans.
    by arsenal at 04/30/09 1:49AM
  • jenkegley
    We love Tim Hawkins! We even emailed him and asked how much it would be for a performance. Have you seen the favorite scripture one? - HILARIOUS.
    by jenkegley at 04/30/09 5:48AM
  • derbydi
    Funny!
    by derbydi at 04/30/09 7:43AM
  • rainout
    yes i do!!
    by rainout at 04/30/09 8:52AM
  • ninja_penguin
    Who doesn't love waffle fries?
    by ninja_penguin at 04/30/09 9:16AM
  • arsenal
    Amen to homes for all those kids and yes, an orphan home is an institution. Unfortunately, as no congregation is self sufficient, we don't print our own songs books, Bibles, or make our own communion cups we have to rely on outside secular institutions--FC bookstore or Truth bookstore--which we support with church funds.
    by arsenal at 05/01/09 4:00PM
  • arsenal
    As a side note, with what I see coming, I believe brotherhood disagreements over orphan homes and fellowship halls are going to be the least of our concerns when we have to hire lawyers to defend aganist hate crime arrests and law suits filed by every offended immoral group. A more dire prediction is that we may be sharing jail cells with these same brethren we have disagreed with.
    by arsenal at 05/02/09 3:56AM
  • arsenal
    AMEN!!!!!!!!!
    by arsenal at 05/02/09 5:15PM

My Prayer Book

I recently bought this book called..."Divine Prayers for Despairing Parents." I love it. It is that book for those of us who have a prodigal child and there is nothing else to do but pray. It is a book for those who have rebellious children and can no longer find the words to say to God about their child. It is a book for those who have adult children who are making choices that are not glorifying God.

I recommend this book. It is by Susanne Scheppmann.
Example...The Story called..."Holy Tattoo"

Skulls grin at me from across the room. As my son's arm reaches for his water, a snake's blood-red eye winks at me. I recall hanging my son's crayon pictures on the fridge. Pastel Sunday School portraits of Jesus he loved. Now he displays colorful artwork of different genre-on his own skin.

Sullen indifference replaces the sweet excitement my little boy used to possess. I wonder where the young artist-child hides inside this young man I hardly recognize. Surely he resides in my son's soul still.
Smiling at the memories, I ask, "Son, can I get you a refill? I'm headed to the kitchen."

Without looking up, he nods.
I stop at the fridge to fill up the glass and whisper to God, "Bring back the boy of the crayon days. Help him to feel the excitement again! Let him remember how he colorfully displayed Your love for him each week. Lord, tattoo his heart with Your love. Give my son a tattoo of holiness. Fill him with Your love, just as I fill up this glass."

As I hand the brimming glass to my son, I know God heard my prayer. I smile down at my son's colorful arm, but this time I wink back at the snake.

Prayer......

"Father, pour out Your water on __________'s dry spirit. May my beloved child say, "I am the Lord's." May __________________call on the Lord and write on his hand, "Belonging to the Lord." You are ____________'s Redeemer. Let my child say, "You are the Lord of hosts, and there is no God besides You.

In His name...Amen



Does that not get your heart? I haven't had this type of situation with a child...but I do long for prayers that help me say what is close to my heart. There is nothing great than a talk with the Savior.
  • arsenal
    I have and continue to do so. The heart is hardened against God and the most difficult thing to accept is that God created us with the ability to make choices, even wrong damning ones. God can only melt the heart that wants to be melted. I was praying that all of my son's set backs and misery would do this but so far, like Pharoah, it has only become worse.
    by arsenal at 04/25/09 6:42AM
  • tommyswife
    What a beautiful way to look at a tattoo. I pray for those parents that suffer with the burden of a child who has lost priority of focus. I love how the parent of this story was still serving the child with love and not showing pent up anger and frustration. What a sacrifice! :)
    by tommyswife at 04/25/09 9:34AM
  • ncreaves
    I just read a book by Billy Graham's daughter on that subject--just out of curiosity. :) I remember when our younger sons wanted to bleach their hair . The varsity soccer guys all thought it would be cool. Well they did and I remember wishing for sandbox dirt again! A dry spirit is a scary situation tho--you want so bad for it to be temporary and you live in fear as the days pass. Prayer is a much needed crutch--that and brothers and sisters who care.
    by ncreaves at 04/25/09 9:56AM
  • derbydi
    Let's all pray for each other and our prodigals! May they all come back to the Lord while there is time and opportunity!
    Sounds like a book I need, Julie!
    by derbydi at 04/25/09 2:43PM
  • justg
    We need to be standing on that front porch, looking to see if our children are coming down the road that leads them home.
    by justg at 04/25/09 6:51PM
  • ncreaves
    I would have loved to hear Wilson's lesson on caregiving. I know he did an excellent job and I will look forward to checking out the website....when I can find a patch of free time. I'm working up totally new class material for our jr high/hi school class. It is going to be on church history from Pentecost til now--studying the reforation and restoration and learning of great characters like Martin Luthur, William Tyndal, Thomas and Alexander Campbell, Barton Stone, Raccoon Jon Smith and others. I'm so excited over it...as you can tell. :)
    by ncreaves at 04/29/09 5:36AM