A new entry

Wow its been months since my last post. Fast forward to today and I'm 5 months preggo about to celebrate my 30th birthday. Having a kid is a very scary process. Don't get me wrong the pregnancy part for me has been very smooth and easy so far. It's the what's about to happen come March that scares me the most. We are starting to figure out just how much our lives are about to change. It's all very exciting but as with anything new, nerves play a big role. I'm sure this is nothing new for anyone who's had kids and not anything we could understand before it began to happen to us. However, there are lots of things that we can learn from old and new parents. One thing I'm trying to figure out is What do you really need. Babies R Us is ridiculous, and how are you supposed to figure out what you really need and what you really don't need. I mean what happened to the days when women just carried a diaper and a bottle and they were set? So those of you who have kids, what are the most important things you need for babies and what are money wasters? Thanks!
  • saundrasigns
    The most important thing I needed when Alyssa was little was what you already said, Diapers, wipes, extra clothes in diaper bag, burp rags(lots of them) and passifier. If i had those things we were good! I know that you will make a great mom. Just go with what you feel is right and you will be a great mom for your little one!!!
    by saundrasigns at 11/08/09 3:57PM
  • karatemom
    Wasters: Wipe warmer, diaper genie. I never had a wipe warmer, but friends who did said it was a waste. I used the diaper genie for awhile, but it was such a pain changing the bag that I just went to diapers in Wal-mart bags, into the trash. I loved the pack and play! Both of my kids slept in the pack and play in my room until they were sleeping through the night at about 8 weeks. Then they went into the crib. Pack and plays are great for trips!
    by karatemom at 11/09/09 12:47AM
  • azuresky42
    Babies R Us was sooo intimidating for me. I registered with another Mom who was able to walk me through and point out the stuff that she found most helpful. Everyone's different. So you might find that some stuff is more useful to you than others. For instance, if you plan on bottle feeding rather than breastfeeding--then bottles, bottle brushes, and a safe bottle cleaner should be pretty high on the list. On the flip side, if you plan on breastfeeding, then a breast pads, breast pump, and nursing wrap are very helpful. The nursing wrap basically gives you coverage when you need to breastfeed in public. I don't leave home without it! Another thing that I did not leave home without was my sling. It just made it so much easier for me to carry the baby in a sling rather than lugging him in a car seat wherever I went. That was my personal preference. Peanut Shell makes some cute slings:: www.thepeanutshell.com. There are a ton of different carriers too. Check out Amazon for cheapies. Also, I've found that floor mat gyms come in handy if you want a clean place to put the baby down when he starts being able to sit up and crawl.
    As far as wasters go, wipe warmers are a joke. As soon as you take it out, it gets cold. Pointless. Resist the urge to register for every single cute outfit in sight because you will get alot and I mean...ALOT. Just pick out a few favorites in different sizes up to 12 months. That way people will see the styles you like. Another waster, baby hangers. It's easier to just fold 'em and put them in a dresser. Changing table is nice but not necessary. Cribs can be used for diaper changing too. Another waster would be baby nail clippers. They are too dull to cut nails. An adult nail clipper works fine.
    Well I guess that's probably way more than you asked for :) lol...but I hope it helps. Btw, I'm so excited for you!
    There's a book called "Best Baby Products" written by Consumer Reports that was very helpful for me. Borders and B&N would have it.
    by azuresky42 at 11/14/09 10:49PM
  • beckyroo
    Well you will need some things made by your good friend Becky...that should do it! :-) I think as long as you have diapers and food for the baby you will be fine.
    by beckyroo at 11/16/09 7:51PM

I have the best mom!

From Wedding
Sorry to all of the rest of you, but I have the best mom. She's always been there for me (even at times when I didn't think I needed her). She's got a great sense of humor and her laughter is infectious. My mom is the most creative person I know and if I can have just half of that creativity I will be blessed. She does the right thing even when people tell her she's justified to do the wrong. She is a godly woman and a great example to others. My mom has always done everything to protect me. She has taught me how to do so many things and taught me so many important things!
Family is most important!
From Family throughout the yearsDisneyland is the BEST!!!
From Family throughout the yearsHolidays should be spent with those you love.
From December 2007I am who I am because of her. She is the only person who made me tear up on my wedding day. And she is the person I miss the most! (don't worry I miss you too Dad & Todd). Mom I love you and wish I could spend this mother's day with you!
  • saundrasigns
    That is so sweet! Happy Mothers Day to your mom!
    by saundrasigns at 05/09/09 2:12PM
  • karatemom
    You do have a good mom! : )
    by karatemom at 05/10/09 11:15PM
  • haileybaileyboo
    That is sweet, Jill. It is hard to be away from moms!
    by haileybaileyboo at 05/11/09 10:37AM
  • beckyroo
    I think she is pretty great also! We have some great times junkin'. :-)
    by beckyroo at 05/12/09 1:36AM
  • azuresky42
    this post made me happy =)
    by azuresky42 at 05/15/09 12:01AM

This is the week

When Stephen found out about his "academy" in September, I knew I would be anxious for this week to come. I just didn't know I would be this anxious. I must admit it was a bit of a "let down" coming home by myself after the wedding. Don't get me wrong I've enjoyed the trips and weekends with my husband but I'm ready for the every day. I'm ready to come home and see my husband every night. I'm just so excited...it's like we're getting married all over again. (we should get our wedding video this week too so we'll relive it for sure).

Anyway here's to "normal" life starting Friday.
  • beckyroo
    Hooray! So you are saying that everyone should leave you alone for the next month right? :-) Does he have some kind of graduation? Funny that it would be on the 20th. That day always sticks out for me...your birthday, my birthday... :-)
    by beckyroo at 02/17/09 11:15PM
  • jlmanager
    Congrats! :)
    by jlmanager at 02/18/09 5:51AM
  • haileybaileyboo
    Yay! That will make things so much more fun! Enjoy your wedding video! It is fun to see things from a different perspective.
    by haileybaileyboo at 02/18/09 12:07PM
  • mini_lizzie
    normal life for a while! :)
    by mini_lizzie at 03/09/09 5:15PM

Together again

3 weeks
or 21 days
or 504 hours
or 30240 minutes
or 1814400 seconds


But who's counting?
  • numbers
    not you, you've got it all worked out...mathematically
    by numbers at 01/30/09 7:24PM
  • jlmanager
    Yes, but how many seconds passed by while you were posting?
    by jlmanager at 01/30/09 9:47PM
  • jillorjac
    ^Well, it wasn't really exact when I posted it originally either. It was to show that I have the ability to multiply measurements of time :D
    by jillorjac at 02/01/09 9:00PM
  • haileybaileyboo
    Yay! And now you are even closer!
    by haileybaileyboo at 02/03/09 11:58AM

24 days

I guess it's time for my monthly post. This has been a good month, but next month will be even better...especially in 24 days. Even though it's been a good month, it's been a hard month. I don't know how some people get married and one of them goes off to another country. I'm having trouble with a three hour drive. I feel it the worst when I go to church. Maybe it's the questioning, "how's it feel to be an old married woman?", or "when's Stephen coming back?" I'm also struggling with the fact that Stephen and I are finally going to be together at the end of February and I have to teach class. It would be so nice to sit in class with my husband. I'm scheduled to teach next quarter too, but I told them last year I could only teach one quarter. Guess I'll just have to remind them of that before the next quarter.

At least we are in the home stretch now. 24 days and Stephen will graduate and I'll bring him back home. I'm so proud of him and the hard work he's put forth for this job. He has done awesome on all his tests and qualifications. He spends tons of time studying and preparing for his classes and tests. I've been very impressed! So it's 24 more days until I get to live with my husband and I can't wait!!!!
  • jcreel
    Um, I was in the room when the teaching schedule was made and you wanting to teach only 1 quarter definitely didn't come up. Actually, I seem to remember us thinking, "how can we royally mess up Jill's life" :)
    by jcreel at 01/28/09 7:23AM
  • jcreel
    BTW, would you like me to make an announcement tonight that everyone should quit calling you "old married woman"?
    by jcreel at 01/28/09 7:24AM
  • jlmanager
    I know what you mean. We were looking forward to being in the same class together, then Jen got called to fill in. Hope the time passes quickly for you!
    by jlmanager at 01/28/09 8:15AM
  • kris
    I love being in Bible Class with Aaron, it seems though the past year to year and half one of us has been teaching, I've had class or something. But I love teaching bible class too. So glad he will be home soon!
    by kris at 01/28/09 8:40AM
  • jcreel
    Since when have surveys meant anything?? Seriously though, scheduling the new teachers is not a complicated job and I'm sure everything was quite accidental. If that happens again, just let us know when the schedules come out so we can fix it. FIX IT!
    by jcreel at 01/28/09 10:59AM
  • haileybaileyboo
    Ugh, I don't know how you are living three hours away! That sounds like a horrible amount to me! I'm glad you are almost done with it though and you can begin living together!!
    by haileybaileyboo at 01/28/09 11:46AM
  • nillabarr
    I am sure you are anxious for your reunion! 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder' is so much easier said than done!
    by nillabarr at 01/28/09 1:55PM
  • jcreel
    So... you're saying I shouldn't have signed you up for the Wednesday night exhortation?
    by jcreel at 01/28/09 2:18PM
  • mini_lizzie
    thanks! still totally trying to get used to being down 12 inches! 10 of which went to a wig! :) 22 days my dear! :)
    by mini_lizzie at 01/29/09 5:53PM
  • debsherbs
    I know you treasure your time together. God will continue to give you strength to endure what you must until you are together.
    by debsherbs at 01/30/09 6:32PM