11/09/05 3:25PM

do you ever feel like you don't want to be friends with someone anymore, but yet you can't let go because you have such great times together and they understand you? i feel like that right now. i love this person to death, but i'm not so sure i like who they are. no no, scratch that, i don't like who they try to be and don't try to be. no one understands that. i'm sure. i don't know if i can continue being this persons friend if i feel so little when i stand next to them because they belittle me. i don't know if i can be friends with someone who constantly has to control everyones life around them and always has to have their way. what would you do?
  • saberhagen27
    I would take a nap. Because I'm tired.
    by saberhagen27 at 11/09/05 3:41PM
  • blink05
    I definitely know what you're talking about. I just tried to distance myself from the person that I felt this way about. Did you confront the person? Do that before doing anything else.
    by blink05 at 11/09/05 3:52PM
  • jenniefer
    see i would do that except i'm scared of them. im scared of how they would react, what things they would say, and then they would probably say mean things to other people about me
    by jenniefer at 11/09/05 7:40PM
  • nightwalker
    dreaming of me again?
    by nightwalker at 11/09/05 8:06PM
  • stlcara
    aw jenn you have boring names now. we need to talk soon.. sorry i couldnt talk when you called the other night.
    by stlcara at 11/09/05 11:55PM
  • jenniefer
    yeah i know, i'm trying to figure out something unique to put. hmm. *deep thinking* no, it's fine. that's why i asked if you were busy. i was just calling to talk. it's not like it was important or anything. don't be sorry at all. but i miss you! :)
    by jenniefer at 11/10/05 12:36AM
  • pianobub
    you were one of the cicks on the white bus, right?
    by pianobub at 11/10/05 12:05PM
  • geddmor2life
    i would buy a bunch of silly string cans. invite your friends over. invite that person over. and when they arrive, you and your friends will cover them in silly string.... them or their car.
    by geddmor2life at 11/10/05 3:31PM
  • madscientist
    not a bad idea. your friend/soon-to-be-exfriend seems weird i must admit.
    by madscientist at 11/10/05 7:14PM
  • jondoug300
    yes, Justin, she was one of the chicks from the white bus. Scary times were had by all! :-P
    by jondoug300 at 11/11/05 5:25PM
  • 4thjeanoftheneffs
    Ask your "friend" a question or two about what SHE thinks about your friendship. Get her to start talking first.
    by 4thjeanoftheneffs at 11/12/05 1:27AM
  • 4thjeanoftheneffs
    Communication, Honesty
    by 4thjeanoftheneffs at 11/12/05 1:28AM