I'm Stayin' up nights...

I just came home from work this morning and had the inexplicable urge to reconnect with the Pleonast community. I’m sitting in our hand- me- down armchair at the moment using the fantastic I-squeeze foot massager that I got for for Christmas this year. What a great feeling at the end of a twelve hour shift to get a little foot massage. I highly recommend these things, especially if, like me, you are on your feet all day.

I’ve been working the night shift at work for the past few weeks. I only signed up for six weeks but now I am trying to decide if I want to stay on nights or go back to days at the end of my stint.

Here are the pros and cons as I see them.

If I work nights I get about 15% more money; don’t have to work weekends ( I have to work every third weekend on days); I get a much slower paced, relaxed shift; and I like my job better when I’m there. I also might have some negotiating power with my boss to get some extra time off or flexibility since they need nurses on nights.

The cons: I find that it often gets really hard to stay awake around 4 am; its hard to go back and forth between nights and days; I miss out on things that are going on in the evenings; and I miss out on most of three or four nights a weeks with Rachel.

Its kind of a tough call. I think my sleep schedule might get easier if I stayed on nights, but it still just feels kind of odd to come home in the morning. As I drive home in the mornings, the sun is usually just rising and there’s a really nice, soft light in the sky. Everything about those first rays of light speaks to beginnings and possibilities of a new day. I always have these urges to just keep on driving past my house and out to find what adventures the day might hold. Instead, my mind always drifts back to reality, and acknowledges that no sleep will make Jack a very dull and miserable boy. I choose sleep.

In other news, Rachel and I recently survived almost a whole week without power with subfreezing temperatures to boot. It was fun for the first day and then got really old about the time we both started getting sick. Its no fun to come home to a freezer with no lights and no hot food. We pretty much ate out all week and look for warm places to kill time. Thanks to John and Laura for feeding us dinner and giving us a place to hang out for one of those nights. I sure do feel very blessed now to have electricity. Florida sure does seem appealing this time of year.

I’d love to hear from all you guys that I haven’t talked to in ages. Peace, love, warm thoughts and cold toes.

  • lovinmarriage
    My dad is on night shift on the cardiac floor. And he is not a night person, but he is surviving. He said it's very lonely when he is not working and staying up while everyone else in the house is sleeping. It's also harder for them b/c I still have siblings at home and they are trying to stay quiet during the day so he can sleep. But hopefully, this will only be for a year.
    You have a big decision on your plate and that is one that you will need Rachel's feedback and consider it before you make your final decision. Either way is good, it's just what is better for your worship, your marriage and you.

    Good luck and I'm so glad ya'll have heat again!
    by lovinmarriage at 02/06/09 11:16AM
  • coulter
    If FL is so appealing, why don't you come down for Lectures? I need to hook you up w/ some Indiana boys who backpack in Red River Gorge every Feburary. Sid Lathem from Indianapolis is their lead man.
    by coulter at 02/06/09 1:31PM
  • butterflyhomerachel
    The pros: More money is always good and I'm happy you are enjoying your work more. The cons: I hate having to wait all day for you to get up on Saturday when we could be together. Sometimes I get lonely at night without you. But, overall, I really don't mind what you decide. I love that you always have Sundays off. I love you, sweetheart.
    by butterflyhomerachel at 02/07/09 4:00PM
  • thecellardoor
    wow bryce, that's crazy! not having power when it's that cold. You guys get MAD PROPS for being so resilient. I hope you decide which shift is best. Pray about it, you know, all that. :) Hang in there --nicole mongeon
    by thecellardoor at 02/09/09 8:21AM
  • coolbeans
    that is a tough decision! I'm sticking with nights though!
    by coolbeans at 02/13/09 9:24AM
  • boss
    Just do what I do...work days and nights. Hooray, 80-hour work week! :P
    by boss at 02/14/09 4:49PM
  • flychic
    A foot massager sounds kinda nice right now. I ran 3.1 miles tonight. I should check into getting one if I'm going to try and run a 1/2 marathon this year. Where did you get yours?
    by flychic at 02/16/09 8:50PM
  • apple
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRYCE!!
    by apple at 07/31/09 6:38AM
  • jodimn
    Happy late birthday!
    by jodimn at 08/03/09 2:30PM

Fall is coming

Cooler weather is finally arriving in Evansville. It’s so wonderful to be outside when the weather is this perfect. The weather has put me in the mood to get active.

On Friday I worked on prepping my kayak to go out on the water and Rachel promised that she would go paddling with me Sunday afternoon.

This particular kayak has very interesting history. I bought it on EBAY and then made a short road trip to Bowling Green to pick it up. I happened to mention to the seller as I was there loading the kayak that I went to school in Florida. When he inquired as to where I mentioned USF and told him that I also went to a small Christian school. He said, “It wasn’t Florida College was it?” I said, “actually it was.”

Come to find out, Kirk Slavey’s wife, Stephanie (Barclay) Slavey went to Chicagoland camp with Rachel back in the day. What are the chances?

I’m looking forward to nice weather and some time on the water tomorrow.

  • samngloria
    Have fun! :)
    by samngloria at 09/20/08 10:49PM
  • butterflyhomerachel
    Hey everyone, ask Bryce about our Kayak adventure. :(
    by butterflyhomerachel at 09/21/08 7:38PM
  • coulter
    It's a big family.
    by coulter at 09/21/08 9:50PM
  • coulter
    I'm ready for stories.
    by coulter at 09/21/08 9:50PM
  • shadow
    awesome. I know the Barclays from way back when they went to Minnesota camp. Her parents were directors a time or two I think.
    by shadow at 09/22/08 11:51AM
  • flychic
    That's a crazy story. Small world huh? I know Stephanie. I've known her since I was a little girl.
    by flychic at 10/01/08 1:12PM
  • cellocellocello
    Where do you guys live now?
    by cellocellocello at 10/11/08 8:43AM
  • bharris007
    hey i need your address
    by bharris007 at 10/13/08 10:07PM
  • leelers
    hey does your momma have an e-mail address?? i would love to keep in touch with her that way if she does! i hope you are well!! i'm so happy for you and rachel!! God bless!
    by leelers at 10/25/08 11:53AM
  • fendley596
    I'm so glad you updated you blog. I have been checking it out and found nothing. Looking forward to seeing you ad a couple of weeks. Love you GMA
    by fendley596 at 10/29/08 3:32PM
  • slim
    I went to Italy with stephanie, no joke.
    by slim at 11/01/08 6:30PM
  • butterflyhomerachel
    Gasp! My husband responded on my blog?! You mean he actually reads them?! :)
    by butterflyhomerachel at 11/11/08 4:51PM

Up to Date

My wife requested that I update my blog; so tonight while she watched a movie I wasn't interested in, I decided to try to bring my Blog up to date.

So much has happened this past year. Rachel and I moved to Evansville, IN, we both got new jobs, made new friends, became members of a new church, had many new adventures and have changed our focus from “me” to “us.” Rachel works for CABAT properties managing about 200 apartment units and I work as an RN on the Cardiac Floor at Deaconess Hospital. We live in one of the apartment complexes that Rachel manages and I often work in the office with her on my days off.

Marriage is a wonderful thing. I am thankful to have a wife that takes the extra effort to make me feel special and to let me know everyday that our love is not mere words- but attitudes and actions. I am thankful to have a wife that lets me know when I am wrong and isn't afraid to tell me that I messed up. I am thankful to have a wife that uplifts me and shows me that the Lord comes first in her life by the way that she lives. I am thankful to have a wife who I never am bored with. I am thankful to have a wife who cares so much about keeping our passion alive. I am a lucky man.

I have been getting more and more comfortable with nursing. The first couple of months after orientation were an especially stressful time as I tried to learn how to prioritize (or sometimes juggle) all of the things that have to be done during my shift. I still have some stressful days but now I am able to prioritize and use the resources that I have more effectively to get the job done.

My worst fear at work is having a code on one of my patients. That still has not happened- knock on wood. I have sent a couple to the ICU and have also participated in codes with patients of other nurses. I’m working on trying to make myself useful during these situations- and feel like I am progressing.

I like nursing now most of the time. I work three twelve- hour shifts a week so I end up having some time during the week to do other things and to travel- which has been very nice. I occasionally pick up some overtime at work as well.

At the moment Rachel and I are on vacation in Canada at Fairmont Hot Springs. We went to my cousin, Brandon Flint’s, wedding on Friday and have been doing some sight seeing, hiking, and of course soaking in the hot springs.

The hot springs are fascinating to me. They originate in underground springs warmed by geo thermal activity in areas where magma is close to the surface. At Fairmont Hot Springs they simply pipe in naturally heated water coming to the surface through springs. There are 4 partitions in the pool heated anywhere from barely hot to barely can stand it hot by mixing the heated water with cool water in different ratios. It has been in the 60s during the day and colder at night making the weather nice for soaking. The mountains in the background have a fresh layer of powder on top from snow that fell up there a couple of days ago.

On one of the trails just farther up the mountain from Fairmont leads to an older facility comprised of several bathtub- sized basins for soaking. These are obviously from a much older time but still function as they did when they were constructed. Hot water bubbling up from a little spring is channeled into the tubs with little open canals maybe 9 inches wide. The water flows out of the tubs through a hole on the downhill side keeping fresh water in the tubs at all times. The simple engineering used to make these little tubs is amazing. Rachel was unwilling to try out the old school hot tubs with me so we spent our time at the new pools.

I love the Canadian Rockies. There are few places more beautiful, rugged, and majestic than the mountains I am viewing right now. Their expanse is beyond comprehsion. I got on Google earth to see just how far I could go without leaving the mountains I am looking at now. I ended up on a coast looking at the Arctic Ocean.

Its on to Banff tommorrow to check out Lake Louis and possibly hike up to the teahouse.

  • megan
    That is really cool!
    by megan at 09/02/08 9:10AM
  • coolbeans
    Sounds like ya'll are having a good time!
    by coolbeans at 09/02/08 9:28AM
  • coolbeans
    The getting comfortable with nursing thing does take some time! I have not had a code on my pts either, but have transferred pts to ICU. I've been the charge nurse when a code happened on our sister floor and had to go there, but luckily they didn't need me. Codes make me nervous!
    by coolbeans at 09/02/08 9:30AM
  • laurenn84
    We hiked up to the teahouse while we were there! It was awesome. But of course, we bought some Trekking poles first. You have me hooked now! I have not yet seen a code at the hospital.
    by laurenn84 at 09/02/08 12:39PM
  • coulter
    you have to go to the teahouse, those candian rockies are so awesome. Lauren & I can't wait to go back! Way to go on your lovely description of your wife.
    by coulter at 09/02/08 1:40PM
  • samngloria
    It's SO good to hear how you are doing! How's your mom? Enjoy your visit!It all sounds beautiful!
    by samngloria at 09/02/08 4:04PM
  • the_girl_next_door
    So glad you updated! It's nice to hear how y'all are doing. :)
    by the_girl_next_door at 09/02/08 5:58PM
  • lovinmarriage
    Hi Bryce, I'm Sarah one of Rachel's friends from college. Thank you for being such a wonderful husband! You are both very lucky! Sounds like an amazing trip!
    by lovinmarriage at 09/05/08 11:01PM
  • tickets
    awww great post! so glad things are going well! evansville, huh? i was just up in louisville & indianapolis...not too far from there. curious, what movie were you not interested in? :o)
    by tickets at 09/08/08 8:39PM
  • kailua
    Today is Christopher Mongeon's Birthday!
    by kailua at 09/11/08 11:44AM

Married!!!!

Marriage is great. Today is two weeks since Rachel and I were married and I have loved every second of it. I love not having to say goodbye at night, hearing my last name attached to Rachel and to getting to introduce her as my wife. I’ve also really enjoyed getting gifts that do not belong to her or I, but to both of us. I get great satisfaction from seeing the unity that I have felt with Rachel for so long acknowledged and expressed by others.

I’ll leave it to Rachel to describe the details of our wedding decor. I will say that although the time leading up to the wedding was stressful, I enjoyed the actual event immensely. It was so nice to get to see so many of the people who are important to my life and Rachel’s life together in one place. It seems almost surreal to look out over the sea of faces and to remember each person and what they have meant to me. Most of all, it was just awesome to commit myself to someone that I love so much for the rest of my life. At times, I wondered if I could ever make such a serious commitment to anyone. I’m so blessed to have found a woman worthy of such commitment, with whom I know I will be a better, more faithful person than I would be alone. God’s plans for me never cease to amaze me.

Our honeymoon was beautiful. We went to Cabo, Mexico, which is at the tip of the Baja peninsula. We stayed at the Hacienda Del Mar resort. The resort was right on the ocean and had beautiful grounds. Almost every time we walked outside there was someone working on the landscaping or sweeping the walk. Since they use all hand tools there, we didn’t even have to listen to the drone of motors that usually accompanies such work. Our suite was equally nice, with two sinks in the bathroom, a hot tub, a small kitchen, and native Mexican décor.

My favorite place that we went on our honeymoon was on a mini-road trip up the Baja peninsula. Most of the area is desert with saguaro cactuses stretching as far as the eye could see. After about 30 minutes of driving we ran into mountains where we enjoyed sweeping views of the ocean below for the next hour. The cactuses grew even on the mountain- tops. We kept looking for a road down to beach, but found none.

Eventually, we found a dirt road heading down to a beach. We figured if we paid for full-coverage on the rental car, we had better get our moneys worth. The road twisted and turned and finally dropped us off at a beautiful white sandy beach that was nearly empty. Only two or three other vehicles, obviously belonging to the natives, sat next to ours in the sand.

Rachel and I parked and then hiked about a mile and a half down the beach to a rocky alcove were we sat for a while and enjoyed the crashing waves and the wilderness around us. It was so nice to have the whole beach to our selves. Time spent in a beautiful place with a beautiful woman is hard to beat. The trip was wonderful. We ended up accumulating a little sea glass collection on our walk, which we took back with us. Other than the scorching heat, the trip was perfect.

During our honeymoon we also had the opportunity to, as the brochure said, go “horseback riding on the beach and in the desert.” It turned out that the beach part of the trip lasted about two minutes and that the word “desert” referred to a jaunt through the local landfill. Even so, I think I enjoyed this horseback riding experience more than any previous because it was just the two of us with the guide and because we didn’t have to do that hokey one behind the other thing.

Other highlights included two meals at a Mexican taco stand that were better and about 1/10 of the price of the two mediocre meals we ate at the resort; bartering for silver with the curio hawkers, a beautiful sunset cruise in the company of a drunken mob, and most of all just relaxing on the beach with Rachel.

We had a great honeymoon and really enjoyed ourselves. It’s a bit difficult to go back to the real world after honeymoon life, but we have had fun using some of our gift certificates (especially the REI ones) and putting together our house.
  • bharris007
    congrats man...wish i couldve been there!
    by bharris007 at 09/05/07 9:34PM
  • coolbeans
    are you an RN yet? What's up with you?
    by coolbeans at 09/17/07 1:55PM
  • coulter
    Let me know how the IN move goes, 229 226 7006 I'm praying for your mom'
    by coulter at 09/20/07 11:47AM
  • laurenn84
    Either I owe you a phone call or you owe me one...
    by laurenn84 at 09/22/07 8:39PM
  • natethegreat
    I had no idea man, wow. congrats!
    by natethegreat at 09/25/07 12:39AM
  • cellocellocello
    :)
    by cellocellocello at 10/01/07 3:47PM
  • tickets
    by tickets at 10/01/07 9:27PM
  • coolbeans
    I hope things go well for your mom tomorrow! She's in our prayers!
    by coolbeans at 10/03/07 10:58PM
  • samngloria
    Hey Bryce, it's Gloria here! How are you both! How is your mom?
    by samngloria at 10/07/07 6:16PM
  • desi
    Hi Bryce. It's Ashley (Toombs Barnett). See you're married now too :) Yay!
    by desi at 11/10/07 10:28PM
  • shousinator
    Hey Bryce! Happy Holidays!
    by shousinator at 12/02/07 6:53AM
  • flychic
    Happy New Year!
    by flychic at 01/02/08 9:55AM
  • coolbeans
    Congrats on passing your boards! I know that's a HUGE relief! =) Now, go be an RN! It's an exciting adventure!
    by coolbeans at 03/10/08 9:59AM
  • bronwynisastar
    congrats on passing your test!!!
    by bronwynisastar at 03/11/08 4:05PM
  • granny
    And congratulations from the Beckleys. Bring your beautiful bride over to see us!
    by granny at 03/15/08 6:16AM
  • danmadrigal
    Hey - I am helping a church in Alabama find a preacher. If you know someone, let me know.
    by danmadrigal at 04/10/08 7:36PM
  • jacobreaves
    Party at the Reaves house... Check it out. http://pleonast.com/jacobreaves
    by jacobreaves at 04/23/08 5:41PM
  • boss
    One year, no posts. Get on it Home Slyce.
    by boss at 08/17/08 9:18PM
  • greent65
    here here, congrats Bryce
    by greent65 at 08/21/08 9:33AM
  • leelers
    congrats on ur anniversary!!
    by leelers at 08/30/08 9:09AM

Life expectancy

My life expectancy is 82 years. Whats yours? Your life expectancy
  • butterflyhomerachel
    Actually, you had chicken for lunch on Monday. I'm glad you liked Easter dinner. I love you.
    by butterflyhomerachel at 04/11/07 2:36PM
  • butterflyhomerachel
    Yeah, I think we did watch that movie on Friday!
    by butterflyhomerachel at 04/11/07 3:02PM
  • shousinator
    Heh, 73...interesting. How are you?
    by shousinator at 04/12/07 11:13PM
  • thedelmccouryband
    81... I almost didn't do it... I don't want any undue pressure.. I'll now try to forget and live life again..haha - btw, would you have been amused if I had put 'Eternal' for my answer?
    by thedelmccouryband at 04/22/07 8:59PM
  • coolbeans
    yep! =) I graduate this Friday, May 4th!!! =) I start working at the childrens' hospital in Birmingham, AL June 11th! How's school going for you?
    by coolbeans at 05/02/07 9:13AM
  • coolbeans
    I met your Aunt Janice yesterday....she's really sweet ! =)
    by coolbeans at 05/07/07 8:26PM
  • jess
    I just found out about your engagement - Congrats!!!
    by jess at 05/25/07 10:37PM
  • bharris007
    81
    by bharris007 at 06/02/07 6:20PM
  • tickets
    i got your invitation today...unfortunately i can't!
    by tickets at 06/04/07 10:11PM
  • tickets
    my life expectency is 76 years...
    by tickets at 06/04/07 10:11PM
  • bethers
    93
    by bethers at 06/05/07 10:43AM
  • butterflyhomerachel
    Sweetheart...its been over 2 months since you last posted. I want to hear what you have to say!
    by butterflyhomerachel at 06/12/07 1:09PM
  • jacobreaves
    Hello fellow CHRISTIANS just wanted to remind you of the REAVES BASH!!! coming in 9days. Its a weekend party from the 29th at noon or so through Sunday the 1st. Its come and go as you please. Women and Men are encouraged to stay and spend the night/s. I, Jacob will be supervising that!!!(jk) My parents will be there. Looking for anyone in the ages of 20-30ish Married or Not. There will be fun and games and singing and food and probably a trip to the Amacalola falls in North GA. Our Address for Mapquest is 4845 Wright bridge rd, Cumming, GA 30040. Bring Friends cause its a big deal probably 50-100 people from FL,Western K, Auburn and others! Let me know how many your bringing! Questions Call Jacob 7204041671 Bring your sleeping bags. u might get a couch, bed or floor. I think I'm sleepin in the bathtub
    by jacobreaves at 06/20/07 12:41PM
  • steviep
    Hey Bryce, sorry I wont be able to make it to your wedding. I meant to call but I left the invitation at my house (i've been travelling for the past week or so). Good Luck.
    by steviep at 07/16/07 8:16PM
  • greent65
    anybody up for some foozeball?
    by greent65 at 08/03/07 11:48PM
  • tickets
    Hey, congratulations Bryce! Mr. & Mrs. Nerland!

    I dunno if I'll see you before I move to Auburn, AL in a week! So if y'all come see Lauren...holla!
    by tickets at 08/04/07 3:04AM
  • laura_kristen
    The wedding was great! Can't wait to hang out with you guys and actually get to know Rachel...maybe you can make us some poutine sometime (not sure if I spelled that right or not)
    by laura_kristen at 08/05/07 10:43PM
  • textilet
    Congratulations Bryce! We're very happy for you!
    by textilet at 08/06/07 6:24AM