Yes, it IS an update...

Just wanted to say I KNEW IT!!! I knew that this, our last winter up here in PA, was going to be ugly. We have already had several days with flurries and then BAM yesterday we get our first snowstorm. In the first week of December. I was so hoping to get out of here without a crazy winter, but oh well.

In other news, Layla is doing very well. She is slowly working up her nerve to let go of the couch, our legs, etc. and stand on her own. She is stable enough but doesn't quite have enough courage yet.

Only two weeks until we are back in FL for the holidays and less than one week until we find out where Daniel will be doing his residency.

Stay tuned...
  • 71lespaulcustom
    Panhandle... Panhandle... Panhandle...
    by 71lespaulcustom at 12/06/07 1:45PM
  • cdillman23
    What are any of the possibilities for his residency or could it really be anywhere?
    by cdillman23 at 12/06/07 5:43PM
  • justg
    Do you guys enter 'Match Day' or because of the USAF connection...is he just assigned? Looking forward to getting you back HOME.
    by justg at 12/06/07 9:47PM
  • musicaljill
    I would love to see you guys if you're down this way-even if I have to drive to G-ville. Yep, I like you guys that much. ;)
    by musicaljill at 12/07/07 7:48AM
  • loislane
    I'm so excited! I can't wait to know! And I really can't wait to see you! And what a brave niece of mine. She's still so "wise beyond her months."
    by loislane at 12/07/07 1:13PM
  • jennking
    Hi Tabitha! I enjoyed meeting you and your little cutie too!
    by jennking at 12/07/07 8:33PM
  • itsme
    Thank you. Layla is so beautiful!! Aren't little girls so much fun!
    by itsme at 12/08/07 9:14AM
  • steviep
    are you going to be in Orlando at all? or just G'ville? I want to try and visit either way...see ya'll and the little one.
    by steviep at 12/17/07 11:42AM
  • emmylou
    Hi, Tabitha! This is Emma Bingham :) How are you all? I must say that I'm jealous that you have snow - the forcast is 78 degrees for Christmas day!
    by emmylou at 12/22/07 9:36AM
  • bnbmom325
    Merry Christmas, Tabiatha
    by bnbmom325 at 12/23/07 7:18AM
  • emmylou
    well, they aren't really done. hehe - we didn't dish out as much time as we needed for this project. they're close though, and they look GREAT! i'll send you pictures!
    by emmylou at 12/27/07 8:46PM
  • musicaljill
    Yes! We MUST catch up soon. Let me know when you're coming in March and I will be sure to be here! :)
    by musicaljill at 01/03/08 1:07PM
  • musicaljill
    oh, and I need your address, please :D
    by musicaljill at 01/03/08 1:08PM
  • stephanie08
    Looking forward to you and Layla coming back down! I hear Layla weaned herself; Sasha is on her way out, too!
    by stephanie08 at 02/04/08 3:46PM
  • bsnowy
    I love the way Layla responds when someone talks to her. She surely shows her expressions well. :)
    by bsnowy at 05/02/08 1:59PM
  • bsnowy
    by bsnowy at 05/10/08 12:07PM
  • sunshinelove05
    by sunshinelove05 at 08/29/09 9:53PM
  • loislane
    I miss you.
    by loislane at 01/06/10 8:34PM

When the lights go down in the city...

Tonight I am looking out of an eighth floor hotel room window over the Rittenhouse area of Philadelphia. Daniel has the clinical skills portion of step 2 of the boards tomorrow, so Layla and I tagged along to enjoy the city. I LOVE cities for some inexplicable reason. In fact as soon as we neared downtown and I caught the first glimpse of a skyscraper I got so excited! Daniel cannot understand why just being in a city, doing nothing excites me- but it does. I guess there are two types of people- those who love the crowded streets, ridiculously tall buildings, and taxis stopping in the middle of the lane and those who think these things are all just fire hazards and accidents waiting to happen.

Which are you and what city do you love (or especially despise)?
  • stampergirl
    Did you forget that you live in G'ville now? Having lived in a rural area for the last 30 years, although not by choice, I do miss the big city and availability of shopping, neighborhoods, etc., but at the same time, I don't think I would like living downtown in all of the hustle and bustle. It would probably be fun to watch from a tall bldg.
    by stampergirl at 09/10/07 9:06PM
  • rachel
    I don't like to be in the hustle and bustle... but I don't mind watching it.
    by rachel at 09/10/07 11:15PM
  • franksinatra
    I LOVE LOVE LOVE NYC! That's the best. I'm with you Tab, skyscrapers are exciting lol :) Miss you gorgeous girls!
    by franksinatra at 09/11/07 9:30AM
  • loislane
    I've always wanted to have a flat in London, NYC, or Paris. I wouldn't want to live there forever, and especially not when raising a family. But I sure do love the lights and sounds and crowds and shops and theatre...I really like Philly. I hope Daniel is doing well on his boards!
    by loislane at 09/11/07 11:26AM
  • justg
    NYC, London...the thrill of the sights, the sounds, the people...give me a sidewalk cafe, a beautiful night/day and just let me ...bee! Not forever...but, for a while.
    by justg at 09/11/07 4:11PM
  • stephanie08
    I am a city girl! You can take the girl out of the city, but not the city out of the girl! I LOVE Paris-could totally live there and raise a family-but Matthew says no. And of course I love Chicago and the skyline architecture there is the best in the WORLD!
    by stephanie08 at 09/12/07 3:30PM
  • itsme
    No baby yet. She is taking her time on making her appearance.
    by itsme at 09/18/07 9:05AM
  • justg
    Hey Tab! Over the last 3 years, we have done several Beth Moore studies. We've learned to take the things she says that line up with The Book, and relish them. We use both the workbook and the videos. I own a couple of the video series. Of couse, we think she's great. I'd be happy to e-mail you with the information.
    by justg at 09/18/07 10:24AM
  • boss
    I love Florida's own Twin Cities--Sopchoppy and Steinhatchee. Come for the smell; stay for the mosquitoes!
    by boss at 09/18/07 11:58PM
  • bigpoppa
    I love tin roofs and long country roads...big cities are too lonely for me
    by bigpoppa at 09/25/07 5:44PM
  • jbarrx2
    Tab, how are ya?
    by jbarrx2 at 10/10/07 8:58PM
  • christilmt
    Love NYC. Atlanta, not so much. Would probably enjoy more if the roads were not 525 lanes wide.
    by christilmt at 10/11/07 9:18PM
  • cdillman23
    Thank you for everything! As for the cities, I don't know which one I am. I kind of like that busyness and then I kind of don't.
    by cdillman23 at 11/27/07 10:17AM
  • sunnyd
    I love San Francisco. The city is beautiful at night, as well as during the day. I also love the many different foods you can find.
    by sunnyd at 01/02/08 12:17PM

Anyone still out there?

Well, well, well look who finally posted! I wonder if anyone out there even bothers to check here anymore?

Right now Layla and I are in Texas visiting Daniel and are returning "home" to Gainesville tomorrow. Sure hope that our flights tomorrow go better than the flight here when Layla's ears didn't pop. Imagine two solid hours of intense screaming and flailing about- thankfully the people around me on the plane were very understanding. One nice lady even found us in the baggage claim and told Daniel I should get a medal. I wonder what such medal should look like?

The next few weeks are action packed: The whole fam (minus AAC ) will be gathering in G-ville this weekend to celebrate a brief homecoming and a very important anniversary ; then we have a family wedding and a fun-filled weekend in the Destin area. Can't wait!
  • rachel
    yay
    by rachel at 07/27/07 5:55AM
  • lukeduke
    hey tabitha! so good to hear from you! i still haven't figured out how to find people on this thing so i'm glad you found us! things are going well. i have a job (a PRN position at manor care), but can't start until aug 13th. being out of state requires an FBI background check which takes about a month...i look threatening don't i? ha! i've also had a second interview for another PRN position at york hospital on wednesday so we'll see what happens with that. all of that to say, i've been terribly bored! but, my mom is coming in about a week and a half to visit before i start work. and, i have orientation next week. anyhow, we sure do miss you guys. everybody at church is good (as far as i know). zori took a 1 yr teaching position in kazakstan and is currently in california training for it. bekah stevens got her permit and is learning to drive. tabitha long was baptized a few weeks back. the kids all had a great time at NJ camp. ummm...and i think that's about it. luke's doing well. he's learned to be a proficient "napper" to catch up on sleep at any opportunity. he's on call tonite and again on sunday. i guess that's all, sorry for the long post. it's great to hear from you and i'm glad you were able to visit daniel. when will he be in FL? is everything going well with him? how 'bout you and layla? well, have a great weekend and we'll look forward to hearing from you soon!! ~shannon
    by lukeduke at 07/27/07 7:00AM
  • musicaljill
    Tabitha! I need to come visit you and Layla while you're so close. How long will you be in G-ville?
    by musicaljill at 07/27/07 7:37AM
  • loislane
    I'm ready for my girls to come back! Whooo-hoooo!
    by loislane at 07/27/07 9:43AM
  • stephanie08
    what a flying trooper! you do deserve a GOLD medal!
    by stephanie08 at 07/27/07 12:14PM
  • auntjennywren
    Looking forward to seeing you all together!
    by auntjennywren at 07/27/07 12:36PM
  • justg
    Come home...!
    by justg at 07/27/07 8:15PM
  • stampergirl
    I've never been on a plane with a baby, but if she is nursing still, I was told that if you nurse her on the plane, it will help her ears to pop! I hope you read this before the flight!
    by stampergirl at 07/27/07 9:30PM
  • jbarrx2
    Tab. Long time no see! How is life as a parent treating you? Holly and I are about 2-3 weeks away ourselves and terribly excited. I never got to wish you congrats on Layla. Has her daddy's hair I see :-) Hope this finds you all well.
    by jbarrx2 at 08/03/07 12:14PM
  • steviep
    Glad to hear ya'll are doing well. I still can't wait to meet Layla (hopefully that day will come).
    by steviep at 08/03/07 10:55PM
  • musicaljill
    I would LOVE to come visit you guys! Let me look at my schedule and see when I can come. I'll let you know! :)
    by musicaljill at 08/06/07 12:18PM
  • raecharles2006
    Hey Tabitha!
    I have a favor to ask you and Daniel. Shannon had mentioned that y'all are in Florida and coming home via plane, but his parents are driving your new car up. If there's room with them, I was wondering if they could bring some of my stuff up. The reason I ask is that I have to have all my stuff home in 2 weeks time and it's going to be expensive to have it all flown up.
    If that's okay, please let me know so I don't send to have it mailed up. If it's not going to work out, that's okay, too.
    Thanks! We can't wait to see y'all again!
    by raecharles2006 at 08/16/07 9:35AM
  • pjalford
    Hi Tabitha! Of course i remember you!! Sure wish you guys would come back for a visit. We'd love to meet Layla!
    by pjalford at 08/30/07 6:25AM
  • stephanie08
    hope you guys had a decent trip home. we miss you down here!
    by stephanie08 at 09/06/07 2:30PM

Love is in the air

True love is...
...freezing your toucas off at 630 in the morning to scrape and de-snow your wife's car, in addition to your own, in 5 degree weather just in case she wants to go somewhere later in the day.

...waking from a near-dead sleep at midnight after being up since 530a to comfort your hormonal wife, who is presently crying because her breath smells bad (or some other such trivial matter).

...going with your sweetie to the grocery store (even though it's crowded and you would rather be dragged through the snowy streets tethered to an 18-wheeler) just because she wants company.

...saying "You look beautiful"--and meaning it.

What does true love mean to you and yours?
  • loislane
    ...waking up to breakfast in bed...a bubble bath and candles...french fries (you know how i am about those!!!)...LOST..."i love you"
    by loislane at 02/14/07 11:00PM
  • tailgator
    Spending a Friday night quizzing your nerd girlfriend with pharm flashcards with barely pronouncable words that you will never in your entire life need to know because she has to study instead of being fun . . . and pretending to find it interesting so she doesn't feel bad
    by tailgator at 02/17/07 11:55AM
  • tailgator
    And btw, your post and your comments made me cry, and I don't have hormones to blame!
    by tailgator at 02/17/07 11:56AM
  • sunshinelove05
    She's almost here!!! :)
    by sunshinelove05 at 02/22/07 11:18PM
  • loislane
    Can you be done being pregnant now? I want to hold her NOW! :)
    by loislane at 02/25/07 3:01PM
  • loislane
    When I read yours, especially with your delicate condition and all, I girly-giggled aloud: You are domestic, fond of children, affable, and considerate. You love your family and are very affectionate toward them. You have a sweet, even disposition, but you are aroused to bitterness if your trust is violated.
    by loislane at 03/04/07 10:58PM
  • tailgator
    I'm so excited! It's almost time!
    by tailgator at 03/11/07 9:08PM
  • coolbeans
    Yay! She's here! =)
    by coolbeans at 03/21/07 9:28PM
  • cecile
    CONGRATS!
    by cecile at 03/21/07 9:36PM
  • franksinatra
    CONGRATS TABITHA! I hope it was just glorious. I love you and your hubby and your gorgeous beautiful Layla!
    by franksinatra at 03/21/07 11:20PM
  • musicaljill
    Congratulations! I know you must be beaming over the arrival of lil' Layla! Can't wait to see her!
    by musicaljill at 03/22/07 8:52AM
  • 71lespaulcustom
    Hooray! Now we need photos!!
    by 71lespaulcustom at 03/22/07 12:24PM
  • auntjennywren
    Congratulations Mommy!! Layla is absolutely gorgeous! Can't wait to meet her!
    by auntjennywren at 03/23/07 11:56PM
  • steviep
    Congratulations Tabitha. I can't wait till the day I meet Layla.
    by steviep at 03/26/07 12:27PM
  • remyzero23
    Congratulations Tabitha
    by remyzero23 at 04/17/07 9:18PM
  • tailgator
    Why don't you post anymore? ;)
    by tailgator at 05/22/07 9:33PM
  • coolbeans
    it was awesome seeing you this evening! Layla is adorable! =)
    by coolbeans at 05/23/07 9:54PM
  • stephanie08
    i hope you had a safe trip back home and i really enjoyed our "nursery time" . We can't wait for more times this summer. You'll have to come to our mommy play group when you're here. Layla is just beautiful.
    by stephanie08 at 05/29/07 3:04PM
  • bsnowy
    It was nice seeing you and Layla. You have such a beautiful baby and you are a wonderful mommy!
    by bsnowy at 05/29/07 10:59PM
  • loislane
    Gee, you'd think you were busy with a baby or something and didn't have time to post anymore. :) Miss you and little Snow White.
    by loislane at 05/31/07 11:08AM

25 or 6 to 4

Although that Lamm guy wrote this song about writing a song and being up at the wee hours I have decided it also applies to pregnant people who can NEVER sleep and are also constantly looking at the clock in the wee hours. We went to our first childbirth class today and all I can say about that is that on one of the videos we watched a woman and her husband were "so excited about the early stage of labor" because it brought them closer together. "We took naps together and went on hikes," says the (smug-looking) husband. HIKES?!?!?!?!? I mean I know the early part is usually not painful yet but hiking, seriously? No thanks give me a cushy bed and a good book or a rousing game of cards.

Any moms out there care to share if they went hiking during early labor?
  • auntjennywren
    Oh my. After going to the hospital in labor with Josh, I was instructed to "hike" around the duck pond for about an hour - labor stopped - I was miserable - he was born 1 week later. My advice - don't wear yourself out hiking/walking/ect. LOL!
    by auntjennywren at 01/13/07 8:40PM
  • 71lespaulcustom
    They told Jenny to walk stairs, walk around the pond, walk the mall... all to induce labor.
    by 71lespaulcustom at 01/13/07 8:48PM
  • coolbeans
    sorry, no experience in that department ;) Hope all is going well! =)
    by coolbeans at 01/14/07 7:13AM
  • joce
    I actually enjoyed walking throughout my pregnancy, especially at the end. I don't know, I guess I just felt so gigantic that I thought it would help keep me from getting even bigger. But when I wasn't walking I was usually lying on the couch watching Discovery Health "Special Delivery" eating whatever was in the house. So not sure the walking was all that productive anyway. (I had a sceduled c-section, so I wasn't really trying to go into labor.) Good luck - you have an amazing experience awaiting you!
    by joce at 01/14/07 1:35PM
  • loislane
    Okay, so you didn't hike. You DID teach a room full of preschoolers until a few weeks ago. That's like the equivalent of about two hikes a day.
    by loislane at 01/14/07 9:35PM
  • doubleg
    I was hospitalized with Steve and they were trying to induce labor. No results so they had me "hike" the halls all day (in flat slippers) When I did to stop to rest at a nurses station, they prodded me on. When I finally went into labor, my legs were so tired and hurting I didn't notice any other discomfort!
    by doubleg at 01/16/07 10:14AM
  • soberjoenpaca
    Mexican food and a walk around the mall helped me :)
    by soberjoenpaca at 01/18/07 9:48AM
  • steviep
    I don't know much about walking when pregnant, actually I don't know ANYTHING about it. However I have often wondered (actually just now for the first time) if you walk a LOT when you are pregnant and when in beginning stages of labor if the baby will come out healthier and if it will help the kid to walk at an earlier age. anyways thanks for the help :)
    by steviep at 01/19/07 8:05AM
  • musicaljill
    Thanks for the bday wishes! I'm really trying to figure out how I can come next Thursday. I hope I can! :)
    by musicaljill at 01/19/07 8:39AM
  • musicaljill
    Sorry I couldn't come last night. Things are crazy-busy right now!
    by musicaljill at 01/26/07 10:12AM
  • loislane
    I miss you girls! JIMMY WANT A RIB. JIMMY WANT A STEAK. JIMMY WANTS A PIECE OF YO' CHOCOLATE CAKE...JIMMY GOT SOUL. JIMMY GOT SOUL.
    by loislane at 01/27/07 11:57AM
  • sunshinelove05
    by sunshinelove05 at 01/28/07 1:39PM
  • loislane
    i'm sad! i miss you and your buddah belly! i wish i could have come over after church tonight to see the bedding. i love you tuna!
    by loislane at 02/04/07 8:47PM
  • tailgator
    "She rocks in the treetop all day long, rockin' robin, tweet, tweet, tweet . . ." Yeah, that's me. I sang all the parts myself. Maybe I'll sing them for Layla sometime.
    by tailgator at 02/05/07 9:09AM