country time lemonade...

I'm having a big glass of it after a very intense yoga class and it is VERY refreshing! It's been a long time since I have posted but I felt compelled to update. I'm back in Winston-Salem and for the first time it feels like I'm settling in here! I bought a car (many of you have seen pictures on facebook - it is a purple 2008 Honda Fit) and last week my mom visited and helped me unpack the rest of the boxes. Kevin and I were moving around so much since we were married there were boxes we had never unpacked even in our last apartment!

Kevin is working in north Concord - which is a bit of a commute for him but so far he doesn't seem to mind. Next week my quartet starts rehearsals and we have several concerts in the next couple of months. I'm also getting some work subbing with Charlotte Symphony and am playing a recital at UNC Wilmington in November so I should have enough to keep busy.

The best thing about settling in is that I can be here more to meet with friends and to hopefully contribute to spreading the gospel here. I'm not a very outgoing person and it's always a struggle for me to get out of my shell but this week I've been working hard at trying to strike up conversations. I've met some very nice ladies at my yoga studio and a few of my neighbors. I just hope I can get up courage to start talking more about Jesus!

I hope everyone is doing well - I miss you NYC friends (and other friends around the country!) but I'm glad to be back to see my NC friends!

Have a blessed day!!

Love,
Emily
  • rockinrobin
    Congrats on your new wheels! Maybe I will see you before November. I am glad you called when you were down here in Wilmington.
    by rockinrobin at 08/26/09 1:05PM
  • nycami
    It sounds like things are really falling into place! So glad you've got a place to be and to be happy. You are sooooo good at intriguing people with the gospel. They want to see what's behind that peace and joy you carry around. Come as often as you can.
    by nycami at 08/26/09 7:34PM
  • rebecca_mckay_howell
    Glad you guys are enjoying married life! I hope we can make it to 1KV this year so we can spend some time with you guys again. Our family has changed so much since we last saw you guys. Wow, our son is the age our daughter was when we were there last!
    by rebecca_mckay_howell at 08/28/09 12:53PM
  • kelly
    feel free to call me anytime, outside of nowish. i'm exhausted and about to go to bed. we WILL talk soon. miss you.
    by kelly at 10/26/09 7:46PM
  • kelly
    HaPpY BiRtHdAy EmIlY! hope it's been great for ya!
    by kelly at 10/28/09 7:37PM

:)

Thanks for all the prayers on behalf of my audition.
I didn't get the job, but it was a great experience preparing and I'm hoping all the practicing will help me win a job sometime in the future:) It was disappointing to get so far in the process but I know I have to trust that God knows what is best for us now and He'll show us where to go when it's the right time.

The best part of working so hard is being able to relax now with Kevin's folks in Indiana!! We should be back in the Carolinas next Monday.

Love you guys!
Emily
  • jodimn
    Sorry to hear you didn't get the job. You and Kev will continue to be in our prayers.
    Have a great time in IN!
    by jodimn at 05/06/09 11:39AM
  • nycami
    I know you haven't settled on exactly where you want to be, but it's natural to be disappointed after you've worked so hard. I think it's amazing how far in the process you went. So glad we got to see you for a little minute!
    by nycami at 05/07/09 6:50AM
  • rockinrobin
    The waiting and looking is the hardest part. YOu will find something.We will keep you all in our prayers.
    by rockinrobin at 05/09/09 9:51AM
  • dorkhistory101
    yayy I had fun with ya'll on Wed night watching rebecca
    by dorkhistory101 at 05/16/09 10:50PM

if..then...

i'm trying to think of something profound to say but it doesn't seem to be happening. kevin and i just got back from St. Louis on tuesday - i had an audition there for the symphony. there are three rounds of auditions and i've been called back for the next one in a couple of weeks. i'm trying not to think too much - i would love to stay in north carolina, or be in new york, or to move to st. louis. each possibility holds so much opportunity! but it is also scary. i've met so many wonderful friends here and i don't want to leave just when i've started to feel comfortable (aside from the driving bit) but it would be great to have a position in a seemingly financially sound orchestra (and we'd be only 4/5 hours from both of our folks) hmmm...anyway i have to leave it up to God (but isn't it hard to wait?)

hope everyone out there is well and if you are at bible study in manhattan on tuesday night, look out, i may just crash the party;)

love,emily
  • nycami
    Yes, Yes, Yes!!!!!!!!!!
    by nycami at 04/24/09 5:10AM
  • nycami
    To the New York Bible study part! And congrats! on being called back! Could be good!
    by nycami at 04/24/09 5:11AM
  • shadow
    congrats on moving forward!
    by shadow at 04/24/09 7:45AM
  • rockinrobin
    The waiting is the hard part. Patience is a virtue. I would hate to see you all move but you do have to go where there is a job.
    by rockinrobin at 04/27/09 8:24PM

back home...

After two months in sunny Sarasota Florida we arrived back in Winston-Salem late last night. It was a great time but it's good to sleep in a real bed, as opposed to an air mattress!

in the last couple of months we:
- lived in a pool house and made friends with our rentors (who have 4 rescue dogs and a white dove named JR)
- got to hang out with our awesome cousins!
- learned how to roast our own coffee beans (Kev should have a blog about it soon)
- had a great visit with parents and met up with friends at the FC lectures
- got to meet brethren at the church in Bradenton
- ate delicious amish pie, and a lot of good sushi!

i performed 4 different operas an average of 10 times each:) good times, great music:) and took my first orchestra audition. i didn't get the job but am on the sub list in Charlotte now. we're praying that we will find more permanent work now that we are back:)

i still miss my new york crowd, but i hope to see everyone around here soon!

love,
emily



  • pattycakes
    yeah a post!! : ) guess that means you guys are alive ;p
    by pattycakes at 03/31/09 9:14AM
  • nycami
    Glad for the update! Miss you lots, but sounds like good things are happening there!
    by nycami at 03/31/09 3:00PM
  • kelly
    we, or at least i, miss you too!
    by kelly at 03/31/09 4:53PM
  • spygirl007
    yoders! oh how ill miss it. orrr wait a second, i can still go there!! be jealous, haha jk. im glad you guys made it back safely and ill miss having you guys so close!
    by spygirl007 at 03/31/09 9:06PM
  • rockinrobin
    I am glad to hear you are back in NC! Any concerts our way?
    by rockinrobin at 04/04/09 9:14PM
  • kelly
    if you're readin this and haven't heard the happy NY news from this morning... get in touch with someone. love ya!!!
    by kelly at 04/12/09 3:15PM

one more week!

This time next week I will be married to my best friend! I can't believe it's almost here, I feel like a little kid waiting impatiently for Christmas morning. In fact, I don't think I've looked forward to anything more in my entire life!

In school, when I was fourteen, we were asked to write a letter to our future selves - our science teacher said he was going to save them and send them to us in ten or fifteen years. He never sent the letters but I remember exactly what I wrote.
It was at a very difficult period in our family's history - I had just been baptized and my dad, a catholic, was extremely upset. There were fights and debates all the time and I would often go to bed crying. So I wrote in my letter to myself "If you aren't married by this time, make sure you marry a christian who thinks like you."

Years went by and I started dating. When I got to college the influence of my non-believing boyfriends gradually led me away from Christ and into the world. I never took my own advice. When I came back to the Lord my life changed but my struggle to find a companion wasn't over. There were many days I thought I would continue to be alone. But finally, last September my prayers were answered!

I wanted to express today how thankful I am not only to have found a christian, but a true soul buddy. I never really understood before why it was so important, if one is to get married. Now every time we worship together I am strengthened, when we pray and sing together I am renewed in my spirit and when we study the bible I am reminded that I need to put God first in my life. I still have temptations and struggles but I have someone encouraging me, instead of trying to pull me back into the world.

I don't think anyone has to be married to be fulfilled in life or to be the best they can be for God. But, in my experience, the wait to find a soul buddy has been well worth it, and I pray that all my friends who are searching will be patient and wait on HIM.

Love,Emily
  • spygirl007
    aww. this is such an awesome post...for various reasons. i cant believe kev is marrying such an amazing woman. i cant believe its less than week! :]
    by spygirl007 at 12/06/08 11:45PM
  • nycami
    Your story is an inspiration for anyone wanting to do the right thing and wondering if it's the right thing after all. Love you so much!!!! I was digging through some pictures last night and you'r in so many of them. I don't know when I've had a better friend than you.
    by nycami at 12/07/08 6:52AM
  • kevolaf11
    man, i love you...what's that we say all the time "the struggle makes us better" :)
    by kevolaf11 at 12/07/08 2:51PM
  • pattycakes
    SIX DAYS!!! :)
    by pattycakes at 12/07/08 9:34PM
  • jodimn
    What a beautiful post! Can't wait for Saturday!!!!!
    by jodimn at 12/09/08 10:22PM
  • drgann
    Getting teary from reading that...SOOO happy for you guys!
    by drgann at 12/10/08 4:10PM
  • heatheronthehill
    Saw some photos of the wedding on her computer - SOOOOOOO beautiful! You looked so radiant, happy, and lovely! Perfect picture of wedded bliss! :)
    by heatheronthehill at 12/15/08 9:40PM
  • kelly
    all in all i'm good... missing you too. i guess in one way it's been nice that you've been in & out of NY so much the past couple years. now that you're Mrs. Kevin Gillins and livin in NC, it's not a major shock to get accustomed to you being gone. i do look forward to seeing you the next time you're here. til then take care. i'll be in touch.
    by kelly at 01/11/09 6:04PM
  • rosie
    It was so good to see you at lectures.
    by rosie at 02/16/09 6:30PM
  • kelly
    i just saw your post on cami's page you mean it was great seein her at lectures? i sure hope you weren't here and i missed you somehow.
    by kelly at 02/22/09 4:57PM
  • drgann
    man we miss you guys too! we keep saying that we sure do miss having you guys in the next town that we can call at the drop of a hat to go do whatever...counting down the weeks until ya'll are back!
    by drgann at 02/28/09 8:25AM