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  • misssonja
    I've had two knee surgeries and I assure that "waiting until your knee is swollen to twice its normal size" is not a proper diagnostic parameter. But I can aver that you don't have to visit a VA hospital to get a nitwit for a dr...but the VA may be a short cut to one.
    I would like to go to Bailey's sometime, but I think I'd need a scooter.
    Hope you recover!
    by misssonja at 07/02/11 10:09PM
  • heatheronthehill
    Lovely article. Having different expectations about when my baby will "sleep through the night" has made the fact that Thomas is still waking so often at almost 17 months so much easier to deal with. That, and I think I've really gotten used to never sleeping an uninterrupted night anymore. Expectations. Makes all the difference, huh?

    So sorry for your pain. I'm praying that you will find some relief soon!
    by heatheronthehill at 07/02/11 10:32PM
  • ceoltoir
    That was an interesting read. I think I did have the feeling that everybody else's baby was sleeping and mine wasn't. My 3-year-old still has trouble sleeping through the night. It's slightly painful to get up in the middle of the night still. But that little face snuggling against my neck and the soft warm breath on my cheek is a nice compensation.

    I'm sorry for all your physical pain and testing of your patience. Aleve might help your aches. I think it's a great medicine. Unfortunately, it's not so simple to treat family challenges. I'll say a prayer for you.
    by ceoltoir at 07/03/11 8:15AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    I missed you.
    I pray that you get some relief. ♥
    by cyber_space_cadet at 07/03/11 3:13PM
  • nickkrumrei
    We bought a new baby congrat card we have not given out yet, but it was so cute we had to have it posted on our fridge. Picture of newborn with the inscription: Patron Passage of newborn babies: 1 Cor 15:51 "We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed" We bought it at the CEI bookstore last time we were in Athens Alabama.
    by nickkrumrei at 07/04/11 7:05AM
  • heatheronthehill
    This morning Jack is asking if we can go to "Will's house" to play with Haydon. ;)
    by heatheronthehill at 07/04/11 7:25AM
  • sirtarin
    I hope you're getting some relief from your pain.
    by sirtarin at 07/04/11 11:52PM
  • finnbarr_galedeep
    I know. I really don't want to go into this wearing rose colored glasses. Z is only 6, if we do get him, we will have time to work on a real bond. If the parents dilly dally around, we may not. Do you have any recommended reading or advice? It sounds like you've been there and done that.
    by finnbarr_galedeep at 02/28/12 4:36PM

Active Learning

Examine things through a magnifying glass, or just with the naked eye, ask questions to draw out analogies and connections- questions such as:

What does this look like?

What else does it look like?

What does this remind you of?

What else?

Look closely. Think by analogy. Change scale. Theorize.

The four most important mental tools are:

Close observation

Thinking by Analogy

changing scale

theorizing


Organization of information in your mind-

The more actively you process information, the more actively you retain it.- David Perkins, Project Zero, co-director of Cognitive psych-research.

I don't think active processing is done through projects done with modeling clay, sugar cubes, toothpicks, and yogurt cartons, but a variety of ways of thinking about the material, asking questions of oneself, making analogies and discovering and making connections in the mind.
The person making the connections and doing the research is the one learning the most.

These are notes I took from a book called
The Private Eye : "5X" Looking/Thinking by Analogy - A Guide to Developing the Interdisciplinary Mind on creative ways to approach science. I think there are applications for Bible classes as well.

Updated to add- these are *just* notes, raw. I actually meant to save this as a draft and work on it later, but in my haste to get out the door, I hit publish instead.=) Thanks for your ideas, S.C. (my middle brother, btw, is Stephen Christopher)

Possible approaches in Bible class (or elsewhere):
Close observation- I'm going to tell you the Bible story, and when I am done, I want you to tell me back every thing you can remember.

Thinking by Analogy- What is God's love like? What is God's power like?

changing scale- What would it be like to be God and then make yourself be born as a human baby?

theorizing- In what situations would this passage of scripture be helpful? What other verses would be good? How could you apply this verse/command/principle? Why do you suppose God might have done things this way (with the understanding that our ability to figure this out is minimal, it is still a useful process).

I use a variation of the following questions for all kinds of reading, school and bible study:

What does this look like?-

What else does it look like?

What does this remind you of?

What else?

I ask: 'What other story/person/event/verse does this remind you of?' How? What other story/person/event/verse? In what way? I am often astounded at the connections my kids make when they have to review the material in their own heads this way.
  • sirtarin
    A good method of approach.
    by sirtarin at 05/28/11 5:13PM
  • chessman
    Wow, you really are a heretic, proposing your own hermeneutic tools. We tend to get scared by analogies, lest we overstep scripture :-P and they're an amazing fantastic tool. We also shy away from theorizing, as we prefer to *know*, forgetting that analyzing that theory to confirm or deny it will force us into uncharted (by us) depths of the scriptures.
    by chessman at 05/28/11 6:47PM
  • chessman
    For changing scale: This is what it looked like when Jesus did x, y, or z. What will it look like when I do it? What will be the consequences to me? To others? Why don't I do this already?
    by chessman at 05/28/11 6:50PM
  • chessman
    Sounds like a pretty cool book. Is it? Also, the reviews on amazon mentioned "How to Think Like a Scientist". Are you familiar with that one?
    by chessman at 05/28/11 7:03PM
  • deputyheadmistress
    I really love The Private Eye. I don't know the other.
    by deputyheadmistress at 05/28/11 11:00PM

Free Stuff

Well, thing. A free thing. If you have a kindle- although you can download a free Kindle app to your computer and read it online that way.

Don't Make Me Come Up There, a devotional book for moms by somebody whose blog I read occasionally- it's a good read. The devotional book via your kindle or kindle app is free today. But only today. As in, now and for about three more hours. Hurry up already. Click on the link- the title of the book. Click, click, click!



Time doesn't stand still, you know? This is both a heartbreaking tragedy and a breath-taking blessing, but I kind of think the blessing side of things would win out if only we knew what God knows.

  • liseybug
    Nice pic.
    by liseybug at 05/10/11 10:21PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Regarding your final paragraph: How RIGHT you are. ♥
    by cyber_space_cadet at 05/10/11 10:49PM
  • chessman
    Of course it's a blessing. Even the heathen recognize this. From a book I read: "Time is nature's way of making sure everything doesn't happen at once."
    by chessman at 05/10/11 11:30PM
  • jkmram
    I was late click, click, clicking... and it still worked. :o)
    by jkmram at 05/11/11 1:02AM
  • sirtarin
    I like the picture. =)
    by sirtarin at 05/11/11 10:49AM
  • mayflower
    Time doesn't stand still... Tuck Everlasting! Loved that book!
    by mayflower at 05/11/11 11:00AM
  • quiltedmama
    The book is still free tonight. :)
    by quiltedmama at 05/11/11 10:51PM
  • ceoltoir
    I got it! Now to find time read it.
    by ceoltoir at 05/11/11 11:48PM

This is not a private post

  • tryphena
    That's okay. I don't think you shared any state secrets. :-)
    by tryphena at 03/29/11 1:45PM
  • deusvitae
    This is not a private comment.

    Hi, Google! Hi, world! :D
    by deusvitae at 03/29/11 2:05PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Then I won't leave a private message.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 03/29/11 4:59PM
  • sirtorin
    Fascinating.
    by sirtorin at 03/29/11 6:00PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    OK.
    by 7laughinghardmans at 03/30/11 8:06AM
  • swiftblades
    And this is not a private comment. ;)
    by swiftblades at 03/30/11 10:31AM
  • chessman
    But so far, no one *not* on your friends' list has posted to it...
    by chessman at 03/30/11 4:14PM
  • ceoltoir
    Does this mean that when I've lurked here in the past, I've missed lots of private posts? Bummer.
    by ceoltoir at 04/07/11 5:39PM
  • deputyheadmistress
    Yes, it does. I wanted to insert a smiley face here, because otherwise, the response seemed to terse, when I only meant to make a statement of fact. But then the smiley face looked mocking, like, "Yeah, so neener, neener." THAT certainly isn't what I intended. And then I thought of just adding you as a friend, but you didn't ask me to, so that seemed presumptious.

    So now I am neither terse, nor all neener neener, but I am not sure I've communicated anything, either.
    by deputyheadmistress at 05/03/11 1:57AM
  • ceoltoir
    That was funny! You are welcome to be terse with me or be "neener neener" if you wish. But I would like it best if you add me as a friend.
    by ceoltoir at 05/03/11 10:23AM

Update on this and that.....

And so it begins.... Made plans for the boys to spend the weekend. On Thursday was called and asked to go pick them up. In a blizzard. Declined. Happily, was able to decline easily because I actually had no car available. Said we'd pick up the boys Friday afternoon as planned. Friday morning was called and asked if she could bring the boys and drop them off in an hour. Okay. Sunday night was called and told she was in Chicago, so we couldn't take the boys home, she'll come get them tomorrow after her cable guy comes to fix the cable. The four year old is an angry little boy and has made it clear he does not want to be here. He told his mother on the phone that he never, ever wanted to come back to my house again. The 6 year old is pleased as punch. The four year old.... Well. Y'all pray for him. And us.

On a highly positive note, our 12 year old son was AMAZING with the little boys. He took them sledding, he played trains, he brushed teeth, he gave piggy backs, he played chase all over the upstairs and hide-n-seek. He kept the 4 year old in his lap for half of evening services. Two of our girls were gone for the talent show and singing down in Indi. I missed them. She made some FABULOUS scones. So delicious and tasty. Full of nourishing foods like bacon and onions and pepper. Goodness abounds.

On another positive note: I am relieved to be able to say I now have SIX times more to read through Jeremiah. I did not get to the eighth Montaigne essay as planned, but I finished the seventh, and *MIGHT* get to the eight tonight. Of course, as Jeremiah says, the heart is deceitful...
So, I have now read through Jeremiah 14 times back to back (plus the other times I read it when I've read through the Bible. Plus, I had an intense high school Sunday School class taught by my father when he had his marbles and was no slouch as a scholar. Plus the major prophets were covered in an excellent college class I had. So I should know Jeremiah, yes? Of course, yes.). And so today I was reading this section:

“‘Hear the word of the Lord, all you people of Judah who come through these gates to worship the Lord. 3This is what the Lord Almighty, the God of Israel, says: Reform your ways and your actions, and I will let you live in this place. 4Do not trust in deceptive words and say, “This is the temple of the Lord, the temple of the Lord, the temple of the Lord!” 5If you really change your ways and your actions and deal with each other justly, 6if you do not oppress the alien, the fatherless or the widow and do not shed innocent blood in this place, and if you do not follow other gods to your own harm, 7then I will let you live in this place, yadda, yadda, yadda (I hope that doesn't seem irreverent)

And All of a Sudden my brain went, "Wait. Wha- OOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHH" and made a connection that has ALWAYS been there. YOU probably already noticed this, but I hadn't. But this goes back to the division of the kingdom- you know, when Rehoboam got Judah (and Jerusalem) and Jeroboam got Israel, and concerned that he'd lose his grip on his kingdom, he built new places of worship and golden calves and ordered the people to worship them and duplicate the temple feast (more or less) but in honor of his golden calves, and otherwise engage in his totally made up religion.

And Israel never had a good king again. They were all wicked. By the time of Jeremiah, Kingdom of Israel has already been exiled to Assyria, never again to fully return, and no doubt the Kingdom of Judah has been smug for some time now- just as in the days of Jesus with the Samaritans. They had the TEMPLE and Israel didn't, so off Israel went to exile. But Judah had the TEMPLE, oooooh, neener, neener, the TEMPLE, so of course the Lord was never sending THEM into exile like those temple-less jerks in the Northern kingdom, ooooooh.....
Essentially, they trusted to the form of religion and ignored the heart.

Wonder what I'll be noticing over the next six times.

Here's what you've all been waiting for:

My husband reading to our first grandson:


Me getting my weekly snuggle time with our second grandson:







There was something else I meant say, but all this cuteness made my brain melt.

  • teathyme
    Awwwwwww!
    Isn't it amazing and wonderful how you can read a familiar passage numerous times and still glean new understandings?
    by teathyme at 01/30/11 10:00PM
  • heatheronthehill
    Happy about your son being so good with the boys. We just had some really, really good older boys playing with our boys and I can tell it was SO GOOD for them. I can only imagine how good the attention was for those two little guys, but I *know* it was good.

    And I love "the temple of the Lord" section. :) Makes me smile. I like that God so obviously has a sense of humor and even a smattering of sarcasm... at least that is the way I read it.

    LOVE the pictures! Haydon is a darling, as ever. In Keegan's pictures, I can just imagine him thinking, "Zzzzzz" and then, "Wait! Where am I now?" and then, "Ohhhhh yeah... this is good... Zzzzzzz".

    Happy for your sweet cuddle time!
    by heatheronthehill at 01/30/11 10:04PM
  • tryphena
    Those pictures are just so sweet!! What lucky little boys your grandsons are. While talking with Krystal on Friday evening, I realized that in a very short time, there will be another one to love on! I mean, I knew there was a baby on the way, but it's coming up quickly.
    by tryphena at 01/30/11 10:23PM
  • 23_bravo_7
    Many lessons in Jeremiah for our time. One can see many similarities in what happened in Judah and what is happening to us.
    by 23_bravo_7 at 01/31/11 6:03AM
  • lori_in_pa
    Despite the fact that I haven't come near to reading Jeremiah as often as you, I do remember and had gotten the connection of that particular phrase. HOWEVER, I am certain you have made many, many connections from that book than I because of your devotion to learning it. Remember how I said I was going to use the method you recommended with Ephesians? Want to know what number reading I am on of that much shorter book?



    Zero. Naught. Nada. (I am ashamed of myself.)

    We are very big fans of Sarris' work here. We also wore out a set of audio cassettes and got another. And we own a set for the church building and they get used sometimes in the classes. The kids never forget his drunken Belshazzar seeing the handwriting on the wall...
    by lori_in_pa at 01/31/11 10:22AM
  • juliamiriam
    AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
    by juliamiriam at 01/31/11 2:41PM
  • mayflower
    Hello, do you have any hints for earning lots of swagbucks? Which games do you play? I have trouble finding the free ones.
    by mayflower at 01/31/11 3:05PM
  • deputyheadmistress
    Okay, regarding ze earnings of ze Swagbucks:
    You get swagbucks for referrals, when other people sign up under you. And then you get some swagbucks whenever they do, until they reach 1000.
    You get swagbucks for searches, as you know, but increase your chances of getting sb for searches by convincing their programming yours is a legitimate search. So refine your terms- say I am searching for a printable mathworksheet for Isiah, one with dimes and pennies. I search for printable math worksheets. Then I search for printable math worksheets first grade, and then I search for printable math worksheet first grade, dimes and pennies. If I haven't gotten more sb by then, I move on. Often I don't even to to the third refinement.
    Games- I am not sure what you're doing, so I'm just going to go through what I do. I go to swagbucks, click on earn, then click on games. Then I click on wordgames, because that's all I do. Possibly you'd earn more with other games, I dunno. But I play one or two quickish word games on teh computer most days anyway, as a way of keeping the dementia at bay, or at least that's my excuse. And then I click on the 'play free' button, which is right next to the picture of my game (above the table of games you have to pay to play and then only get sb if you place). I never get more than five sb a pop for games. I think it optimizes my sb wins that I play one game of, say, wordrop, and then I return to the games section and play another game, say, the synonyms game- and I always submit my score (to a 'guest' name, i don't bother signing in). One game takes me three minutes.
    Look over their offers- I've printed out coupons for ten sb a pop, coupons for things I do use from time to tie, and I've gotten free trial memberships to this and that. I got a lot of sb for a credit card application that I didn't accept. I don't always find offers I want to try, but I look them over about once a month or so. You get a lot of sb for those. If you want a lot of swagbucks pretty fast, I'd look those over on a daily basis to see if any of them work for you.
    by deputyheadmistress at 01/31/11 4:30PM