We are but a vapor...

...and that we know, oh so well. :)

The older we get the more we realize just how true that sentence is. Thus, memorable moments become, oh so precious!

Our holidays were wonderful! It was fun to spend precious time together, share meals together squished around a nice, big table. Sing some songs together, pray together. Bruce and all the guys took turns praying for our family. It was wonderful and I can't wait to see how God answers that lovely, extended prayer. :) Scary and exciting all at once!

One of my favorite moments was our marshmallow war. Jeremy made everyone marshmallow guns for their stockings. So, on Christmas morning, after we got the hang of it, we had to pelt everyone. It. Was. Fun. It was also fun that throughout the day, a marshmallow would ping you upside the head, out of the blue. Lots of laughter, flying marshmallows (accidentally sucking a couple up instead of blowing them out) and tons of hugs.

(sigh) Now it's time to return to life. Our calender is filling up quickly. So much to do in the next few weeks/months. :)

Bring it on! With a new year, renewed vision and THE God of the heavens on our side...the possibilities are unfathomably endless.

Linda
  • sarai_31
    That sounds like a great holiday!
    by sarai_31 at 01/03/09 4:48PM
  • mamahastings
    My husband and I are getting a giggle out of this one. He bought all the stuff to make marshmallow guns for everyone, but never got to it. We were just planning on giving them to the kids, maybe we should re-think it for next year :)
    by mamahastings at 01/03/09 10:10PM
  • robynbobm
    hahaha. I am liking the marshmallow gun idea, I didn't know there was such a thing!
    by robynbobm at 01/04/09 2:33AM
  • beavermom
    I love your family! Sober when they need to be and silly when they wanna be! Happy new year! Love ya!
    by beavermom at 01/04/09 4:14AM
  • beavermom
    So, was it funny 'cuz one does not usually associate the adjective "killer" with my sweet little mama? :) I will post the recipe one I have obtained permission to do so. I don't know if it's a "family secret" or just a recipe to share. I will letcha know.
    by beavermom at 01/06/09 4:01AM
  • beavermom
    *once
    by beavermom at 01/06/09 4:01AM
  • deputyheadmistress
    That sounds fun.
    by deputyheadmistress at 01/07/09 1:04AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Great entry. Loved hearing about the m'mallow war. :)
    by cyber_space_cadet at 01/09/09 10:35PM
  • purky
    Sounds like a lot of fun. We had a Wii holiday. I really enjoy the Wii sports that is as long as someone isn't videotaping me. I'm just a little competitive and I didn't know the tape was rolling. Oh well we had a great laugh.
    by purky at 01/13/09 11:08PM
  • smiley_beth
    Great to see you all yesterday. Hope you enjoyed yourself and came away unscathed. See you next month, Lord willing.
    by smiley_beth at 01/13/09 11:30PM
  • smiley_beth
    Absolutely! Can't imagine having to miss out on this stuff.
    by smiley_beth at 01/20/09 3:04PM

Celebrating the joy of the moment :)

Tis the time when we all are slowing our steps to take a moment and reflect on our blessings. You know...our blessings :), we all have them. We all can most likely come up with a wonderful list to prove to ourselves and others that we do... have them. :)

Ironic thing about blessings tho is.....usually we have to lose something, go without, experience hardship, trauma, betrayal, grief, sorrow, something that cuts us deeply, hurts deeply, but it helps us to see more clearly that which is truly wonderful and awe-inspiring in our own lives.

For every tear, every smile, every micro second of joy that I see around me and experience myself, I know has been hard earned. :)

Truly, may we all have glorious moments with our loved ones in the coming days, may we cherish every touch, every word, every smile, every sound of laughter, every goofy mistake, every nutsy misunderstanding...family...Thank you God for your wise and loving creation....family...the ones who love us (warts and all) and who (prayerfully) can and sometimes do, walk beside us as we reach for God. :) Family....sometimes blood, sometimes not :) but always in your corner, I Cor. 13 kind of family. :) I have experienced that kind of love and family, it really is out there...God says so. :)

Happy Thanksgiving!! May your celebration this year be meaningful for you and yours. :) :) May God be most gracious in His measure of joy for you this holiday time. Soak it up...and enjoy it.

And....don't put on too many pounds :) Christmas is right around the corner you know. :)

Linda
  • beavermom
    Happy Thanksgiving, my sister of blessing! Hugs all around to you and yours! Love y'all!
    by beavermom at 11/26/08 4:48PM
  • sarai_31
    Happy Thanksgiving!
    by sarai_31 at 11/26/08 5:01PM
  • metzgermom
    Thank you for that post! I especially enjoyed the first sentence of your 4th paragraph. I am feeling incredibly blessed beyond measure, and it's not even Thanksgiving yet! :^)
    by metzgermom at 11/26/08 10:20PM
  • swiftblades
    Thank you for all those wonderful thoughts. Happy Thanksgiving!
    by swiftblades at 11/26/08 11:11PM
  • squirrel
    Happy Turkey day from the Pierce Family
    by squirrel at 11/27/08 12:06AM
  • create_a_way
    I love your thoughts! Thank you for spending so much time talking to me when you came to tampa with Lindsey and Craig...you guys had an everlasting impact on me!
    by create_a_way at 11/27/08 9:47AM
  • drumstick
    Hi Linda. I appreciate your attitude of gratitude!!!!
    by drumstick at 11/28/08 5:46PM
  • purky
    Happy Thanksgiving to all of you.
    by purky at 11/30/08 8:21PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    How was the soup kitchen?
    by cyber_space_cadet at 12/02/08 9:39PM
  • create_a_way
    is that unbelievable or what?
    by create_a_way at 12/04/08 4:14PM
  • craigdehut
    Oh absolutely we're organized. We are after all the Brothers Dehut. :)
    by craigdehut at 12/09/08 7:20AM
  • create_a_way
    you are one of the most encouraging peolple on planet earth!!!
    by create_a_way at 12/10/08 12:51PM
  • crazy_mama
    You know everyone keeps saying that we were trying for our boy. In a way that is true cause we would love to have a boy(s) but we would also LOVE to have gril #3! We welcome whomever God has chosen for us - Girl or Boy! I really love having girls and I think Frederic is a great father for girls so he might just get himself another one!! But having a boy would be great too so like I said either way we are happy!
    by crazy_mama at 12/10/08 3:53PM
  • crazy_mama
    That's how we feel. God knows who would be the perfect addition to our family and he will give us that special baby. When you think of it that way you can't really complain either way he chooses. I would of never chosen a girl to be my first child. I always wanted the strong, older brother to protect the sister but I LOVE having Noelani as my first child. She is such a little mommy to Maleia and she is so excited about this new baby. With both of my girls I was SOOO sick when I was pregnant. I'm already starting to feel sick and I need alot of help while I going through that. I think God knows that and that's why he picked Noelani to be my firstborn cause she is the perfect child for helping me and Maleia out. She LOVES to do that. She's such a blessing to have. Hopefully God will bless us with more than just this new little one and so we'll have more than just the girls and this baby. Can't wait!!!
    by crazy_mama at 12/10/08 5:43PM
  • beavermom
    Hey, Lin! It's 22.8 degrees, and we have 8" of snow, with the cold expected to last all week. How's your winter going?
    by beavermom at 12/15/08 4:41PM
  • crazy_mama
    Ha alot of people tell me that. They do look like girls and they won't have it any other way!!! I had their dresses out of the bags hanging on Frederic's armoire so they could poof up and when Maleia saw them she started to point at them and say "OOOOOOOOOhhhhhhhhhh" and clap and jump and Noelani told her "we get to be princesses tonight Maleia!" Then Noelani insisted that Frederic wear his black suit and pink tie so they could all match. Guess who bought him the pink tie to begin with?!?! She loves to pick out his clothes for preaching!
    by crazy_mama at 12/18/08 11:23PM
  • create_a_way
    Hey, would it be okay if I called you guys in the next week? If yes, will you please email me your phone number? Thanks! fredericgray@hotmail.com
    by create_a_way at 12/24/08 9:57AM
  • purky
    Happy Holidays!!!!
    by purky at 12/26/08 7:58PM
  • kiki
    Hey Linda! It's Kiki Dunagan! How've you been? Well...I've been accepted to Western Kentucky University, and now am looking for a roommate. Do you have any suggestions?
    by kiki at 12/29/08 9:24PM
  • kiki
    Thanks so much! I'll be emailing you soon!
    by kiki at 12/30/08 3:29PM

:) Something to smile about :)

Bruce and I got the sweetest gift yesterday. We got a beautiful, hand made blue bowl (thanks Anna ) filled with slips of paper from loving children, who put down one-liner memories for us to read and chuckle about. It is always very much fun to hear the kids regurgitate something from their childhood that has a particular meaning for them. Something they remember as fun, funny, hysterical, sober, heartbreaking, laugh till you cry wonderful :)

I have my own storehouse of wonderful family memories, some even they don't remember because they were too young or weren't even born yet (depending on the circumstance). God is just amazing to have given us the ability to "remember". How wonderful to be able to relive special moments or feelings.

Have you ever read about people who suffered an accident that wiped their memory clean and they basically have to start over. Not only to relearn important functions but, to rebuild their "memory bank". The place that stores everything special that can help us to bond with one another. How very sad.

I am not and have never been a "material" kind of person. But I am a "moment" kind of person. So, the price I would put on special memories, special moments is so high, there isn't anyone alive who could buy mine at auction. No one. No how. So, a memory wipe would certianly be the worse thing I could think of that could happen to me here on this earth.

I am thankful for the many experiences God has allowed me, in my lifetime thus far, to have. And, I look forward to many more :)

May this month, associated with thankfulness, find you making your loooooong list to remind you just how much God has given to you and how precious it all is.

Hope your Lord's day was inspiring and your week profitable for HIM. :)

Linda
  • lindseyd
    I love you mom, you're just too cute.:o) And don't read all the smile slips all in one day!!
    by lindseyd at 11/09/08 5:38PM
  • beavermom
    what a great idea! I have a few I could add to the bowl.
    by beavermom at 11/09/08 6:09PM
  • robynbobm
    That is really neat!
    by robynbobm at 11/09/08 6:50PM
  • tlb9596
    She's doing very well! How are you and Bruce doing??
    by tlb9596 at 11/09/08 9:37PM
  • queenbeetle
    That sounds neat. Being a mom can be hard but I also love the memories I have of my boys (including Brandon). See you Wed. :)
    by queenbeetle at 11/09/08 9:50PM
  • tlb9596
    Well y'all did a fine job with your kiddos! Some friends of mine raised 5 kids and once they were all grown and married, they had to teach themselves how to buy groceries again, such as only 1 gallon of milk at a time, not 4. haha! They were exaggerating of course, but I can imagine what it was like.

    Me and my family live in Granbury, TX, a little southwest of the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex in north-central TX. Dad and I run a retail business here where we sell outdoor power equipment and trailers. It's a great learning experience starting and running a small business.

    Where are you and Bruce living these days? I thought I heard y'all had moved from Indiana.
    by tlb9596 at 11/09/08 9:56PM
  • robynbobm
    It sure does smell yummy! I decided to use it as my "perfume" this morning so when Jonathan leaned against my chest he would smell it too.
    by robynbobm at 11/10/08 1:11AM
  • tlb9596
    Oh, wow. I was just in Louisville a couple of weeks ago for the big Green Industry and Equipment EXPO at the big expo center by the airport. Since we sell lawn mowers and other outdoor power equipment, I just had to go to this expo to check out all the latest equipment. Next time I'm up that way, I'll have to track y'all down!

    Glad to hear Bruce is still preaching. We need all the evangelists we can get in this day and age. Liberalism is stronger than ever these days, especially after last Tuesday.
    by tlb9596 at 11/10/08 7:20PM
  • tlb9596
    Well, thanks for the offer! I will keep it in mind. :)
    by tlb9596 at 11/10/08 8:36PM
  • beavermom
    Hey! I though the pet name "twirp" was reserved only for your offspring! Thanks- I feel special. Especially since you are only 5 years older than me!
    by beavermom at 11/11/08 4:59AM
  • purky
    Cute Idea! Memories are very special.
    by purky at 11/11/08 7:10PM
  • create_a_way
    thanks for sharing! Hey...what's the name of that book?
    by create_a_way at 11/13/08 2:38PM
  • heidiw
    Linda, you have a wonderful gift of being able to make people aware of the blessings, especially the simple ones, that so many of us often take for granted, like our memories. I know that i have several GREAT memories of you which I won't emparrass you with on here. :) But I am glad for them nontheless. You are a blessing! Love you!
    by heidiw at 11/23/08 11:09PM

John 15:1-14

Humbling.

Scary.

Sober.

Comforting.

..."For without Me, you can do nothing." I love knowing that I don't have to have all the answers. I don't even have to do things perfectly (tho I need to always do my best to do what's best in God's eyes :) ) but because God is on my side I can always run to Him for guidance, for comfort, for reassurance, for assistance.

What a freeing feeling to know that, even if I 'trip' in life, with God, I can stand up taller, stronger, more focused on Him.

"Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling." Wow. We need to think on that from time to time to help us 'tighten' things up. You know, maybe we've gotten sloppy in how we speak or respond to people. Maybe we have gotten less kind, less understanding, less resolved to honor God in all we do.

I just love how God put the bible together with such balance. Such loving thoughtfulness for us and our weaknesses. Oh to be able to attain such a level of 'holiness' that we could consistently know what to think, do, say to moments in our lives that can shake our faith in God and others.

Thank you God, for your plan, your provision, your purpose. We love you and hope to rise up and live in such a way as to give you the honor and devotion that you deserve.

As we all reflect, like most do from time to time, may we be strong enough, courageous enough, honest enough with ourselves to truly look into 'the mirror' of our soul and be willing to confront what we find there. We don't have to do it alone :) God made provision for that :) for which I am truly, humbly, eternally grateful. Thank you God for 'the peace that passes understanding'...thank you.

Have a great rest of the week and may you look around you and 'see' God's provision for you. See it..and be blessed.

Linda
  • robynbobm
    :)
    by robynbobm at 10/29/08 3:56PM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Wonderful thoughts, Linda, thank you.
    by cyber_space_cadet at 10/29/08 10:21PM
  • smiley_beth
    Could you e-mail me your home address please? My e-mail is on my page. I want to write you for some advice if you are willing. Thank you!
    by smiley_beth at 10/30/08 8:38AM
  • queenbeetle
    Very encouraging, Thanks. :)
    by queenbeetle at 10/30/08 10:16AM
  • beavermom
    Amen! WE have Gary Henry out here for a meeting, and I highly recommend him-he is humbly inspiring!
    by beavermom at 10/30/08 6:35PM
  • sallyanne
    We have six, too :) We've always homeschooled and love it. Nice to 'meet' you :)
    by sallyanne at 11/04/08 6:28PM
  • robynbobm
    Ooh, that does sound soothing and yummy!
    by robynbobm at 11/07/08 9:26PM
  • robynbobm
    Is olive oil too heavy?
    by robynbobm at 11/08/08 12:32AM
  • beavermom
    Hi, Lin! Tell somebody to hug you for me! :)
    by beavermom at 11/08/08 9:56PM
  • beavermom
    You're welcome! Who gave it to you?
    by beavermom at 11/09/08 1:12AM

White wate rafting...

This past weekend, we had the most wonderful opportunity to spend the day with 20+ people, rafting down the Ocoee river in Tennessee.

It was great! We all had a good, safe time (a good percentage had never been before) it is kinda fun to imagine spiritual analogies as you drift along.

For example...to safely manage the rapids, everyone in the raft had to work together. If we lost our focus, we could end up flipped or catapulted out of the raft. We couldn't do it alone (sound familiar :) ) We needed each other. Everyone was important. It was in everyone's best interest to help each other out, and to allow ourselves to be helped out.

Also, those that listened, obeyed and stayed calm (realizing that what was being told by the guide was true) did very well as they sailed along. It seemed that the younger rafts (there was one filled with boy scouts ..13 & 14 yr olds :( )would sometimes not pay close attention and in their greatest moment of stress would just lose it. Trusting your guide, following his instructions, and hearing his assurances ( ours would always say "As long as we paddle together, stay focused and you listen to me... we will do fine" ...and we always did) seemed to really make a difference.

This year we did have several who fell out of their rafts at various points but, no injuries (thank you Lord!).

There is nothing like a fun, safe, encouraging adventure, especially when you are with people you love and trust. It was great to get to meet and get to know others too. :) One can never have too many good people as friends.

(sigh) Well, that was pretty much the last time a bunch of us Dehuts get to be all in the same place for a while until the holidays roll around. Some of us will get to see some of us (that sounds weird )occasionally from now until then. Family...God sure knew what He was doing didn't He?! I love knowing that there is a group of people out there who love me and want what's best for me, especially spiritually. Kinda nice to know they have my back. I love being in a 'spiritual war' with them.

If only we could dress up in some cool looking futuristic (and modest) armor. Now that would make for an awesome photo op wouldn't you say?

Have a great weekend people!

Linda
  • robynbobm
    I dig the armor idea. Bob went rafting with people from church and enjoyed himself too. I think they were on the Deschutes. Not my cup of tea, I'd rather hike nearby.
    by robynbobm at 09/25/08 7:15PM
  • beavermom
    Yup! I'm with her. I'll be at the end of the ride with luch and first aid kit!
    by beavermom at 09/26/08 1:56AM
  • beavermom
    *lunch
    by beavermom at 09/26/08 1:56AM
  • cyber_space_cadet
    Andrew had such a good time with all of you.

    I'm thinking that armor picture is in your family's future. ;-)
    by cyber_space_cadet at 09/26/08 7:43PM
  • heidiw
    Looking forward to seeing you soon!! Love you!
    by heidiw at 09/30/08 3:50PM
  • create_a_way
    God did some amazing things this past weekend, in the hearts of dads and daughters. Thank you for everything, and all your encouragement.
    by create_a_way at 10/02/08 11:51AM
  • kisforkristin
    i love white water rafting! so cool that you got to do that! and yes, family is one of God's great blessings. i think what is even better is that God modeled the church as a family. some people do not have godly members of their physical family, yet God made it possible to enjoy family benefits as brethren
    by kisforkristin at 10/03/08 8:19PM
  • craigdehut
    Hey...you're wonderful. Just so you know. :) Thanks for feeding us this weekend! And for, you know, being wonderful. :)
    by craigdehut at 10/05/08 4:34PM
  • monk
    thanks for the suggestion.
    i'm going to research that!
    by monk at 10/05/08 7:52PM
  • beavermom
    Lin, he's here!!!!! And he's beautiful!
    by beavermom at 10/06/08 3:45AM
  • beavermom
    ALL babies are the most beautiful in the world! Straight from God's hands in to ours-no wonder they smell so good! ;)
    by beavermom at 10/06/08 4:07PM
  • beavermom
    Everyone is doing great! It's amazing- you think you could never love anyone more than you do your husband, then you have children, and you think you could never love anyone more than your children, then you have a grandchild, and it's a whole new love affair! Of course, it goes without saying that God is loved and adored above all, but it really makes you humbly stand in awe of His love for us, and I still think it's only a small glimpse of the depth of it all! Wow, is God good!
    by beavermom at 10/08/08 4:46AM
  • craigdehut
    I'm thinking that it would be totally awesome to see you this weekend. Let's do lunch. Or dinner. Or whatever. I'll have my people call your people. :)
    by craigdehut at 10/14/08 10:15PM