Long over due!

Hey Pleo Friends!

So sorry I haven't updated in forever. My sweet baby will be 4 months old on Sunday and I haven't updated since she was almost 4 weeks old!!!!

She is doing so well and pushing 10 lbs now! She hasn't had a single set back and is just a joy to behold! Thank you for all your love and prayers!



  • hmjmom
    Beautiful baby! I'm so thankful all is well with her.
    by hmjmom at 12/03/10 5:46AM
  • neenee
    Your girl is beautiful, my dear.
    by neenee at 12/03/10 7:53AM
  • wifelet
    What a happy girl! :)
    by wifelet at 12/03/10 4:19PM
  • friedaj
    It is about time young lady! She is beautiful. I loved getting to meet her in Alabama. She did well.
    by friedaj at 12/03/10 10:19PM
  • split_rock
    She keeps you busy and happy -- no time to post on pleo, I'm sure. Thanks for sharing!
    by split_rock at 12/04/10 8:23AM
  • azuresky42
    I was just thinking about you this morning! So glad to hear you both are healthy and happy =) Isn't it wonderful being a Mom?
    by azuresky42 at 12/04/10 2:45PM
  • iloveponds
    There are no words to describe how happy I am for you and your hubbie! Just enjoy!
    by iloveponds at 12/05/10 6:38PM
  • ootda
    What a Cutie Pie! So glad to hear that you are enjoying your sweet bundle of joy from God.
    by ootda at 12/06/10 9:34AM
  • friedaj
    You're such a cute family!
    by friedaj at 02/15/11 10:53PM

Our sweet girl

Well I had to share with you my favorite pic of Kyleigh so far (And there are a lot of good ones!)


This pic was taken about a week ago and she has already changed a lot. She is up to 4 lbs now (technically 3 lbs 15.7 oz but i say that's pretty close!). We are just working on gaining some more weight and nursing. Hopefully, we will be going home in the next couple of weeks!
  • frogkisser
    She's beautiful! I am so relieved and happy for you three. God is wonderful!
    by frogkisser at 08/26/10 4:57PM
  • hmjmom
    Beautiful baby. I hope you will be able to take her home soon.
    by hmjmom at 08/26/10 6:03PM
  • friedaj
    She looks so happy
    by friedaj at 08/26/10 8:06PM
  • s_laughter
    This is my favorite pic too from those I've seen on fb. I also like the one of her hand in Aaron's. So excited she's growing and I pray you'll be home with all of your family soon!
    by s_laughter at 08/26/10 8:38PM
  • ootda
    What a sweet smile.
    by ootda at 08/26/10 8:54PM
  • iloveponds
    Oh, so nice to hear how well things are going and to see a gorgeous picture of your sweetness!
    by iloveponds at 08/26/10 9:30PM
  • wvrose04
    so sweet!
    by wvrose04 at 08/26/10 10:01PM
  • wifelet
    What a doll! :) She's so beautiful!! How are you feeling, mama?
    by wifelet at 08/26/10 11:09PM
  • amyrea23
    So glad she gets to work on nursing. That is wonderful!
    by amyrea23 at 08/27/10 12:16AM
  • crazy_mama
    She is just a doll. Can't wait till you can take her home. But I'm sure no one can wait more than you!
    by crazy_mama at 08/27/10 1:27AM
  • mrs_poochie
    glad she continues to gain weight. you'll be headed home before you know it!
    by mrs_poochie at 08/28/10 11:12AM
  • azuresky42
    yay for nursing! and yay for beautiful babies =)
    by azuresky42 at 08/31/10 3:04AM
  • bamy
    Hi Becky! I don't know you personally, but we have a lot of mutual friends I think. I just happened on your blog and wanted to tell you congratulations on your sweet baby girl and let you know that I'm praying for you. I had premature twins who were in the NICU for four weeks and I know just how emotionally and physically exhausting it is. My little one was just three pounds, but he's very healthy and active today. Just wanted to send a little encouragement your way :) Kyleigh is beautiful!
    by bamy at 09/15/10 4:55PM

Our good and perfect gift....





  • jess
    Just beautiful. SO very happy for you, Becky. We can't wait to meet your perfect gift! :)
    by jess at 08/07/10 2:27PM
  • split_rock
    These pictures made me smile. So happy for you all.
    by split_rock at 08/07/10 3:20PM
  • ekholl
    These just make me want to cry and smile at the same time. She is perfect.
    by ekholl at 08/07/10 6:16PM
  • wifelet
    She's so gorgeous. :) And teeny!!
    by wifelet at 08/07/10 6:38PM
  • rebecca_mckay_howell
    So tiny, so beautiful! God bless you!
    by rebecca_mckay_howell at 08/07/10 6:47PM
  • hmjmom
    Tiny and beautiful. I love the picture with the hands.
    by hmjmom at 08/07/10 9:15PM
  • friedaj
    I think my favorite is on facebook where she is making an awful face or blowing bubbles or whatever. So Cute
    by friedaj at 08/07/10 9:45PM
  • ootda
    Oh. I am speechless. She is beautiful. Thank God.
    by ootda at 08/07/10 10:34PM
  • curlie
    What a beautiful baby girl! Congratulations! :)
    by curlie at 08/08/10 8:06AM
  • kiss_the_rain
    She is so precious! Praise God for your sweet baby girl :)
    by kiss_the_rain at 08/09/10 2:16PM
  • lindseymarie
    She is just amazing Becky! And she has an amazing mom! Love you both so!
    by lindseymarie at 08/09/10 10:35PM
  • crazy_mama
    You are right...PERFECT!
    by crazy_mama at 08/11/10 1:34AM
  • iloveponds
    Oh, thanks for the pictures. You are definitely blessed, but she is too!
    by iloveponds at 08/11/10 7:09PM
  • azuresky42
    A very perfect gift from our very perfect Creator! Congratulations =) She is made in His image
    by azuresky42 at 08/12/10 6:43PM

Kyleigh Grace Dobbins

Our little Kyleigh was born at 9:59 a.m. this morning weighing 3 lbs and measuring 15 3/4 inches long. Thank you so much for your sweet offering of prayer for us! Our little girl seems to be doing very well. I'll post pictures soon.
  • hmjmom
    Congratulations! SO very thankful to hear she is doing well. I will continue to pray for her and for you. How are you doing?
    by hmjmom at 08/05/10 8:16PM
  • split_rock
    So thankful that Kyleigh arrived safely.
    by split_rock at 08/05/10 8:28PM
  • iloveponds
    Oh, thank you for the post. I couldn't tell from one of the comments left on your pleo post below if all was going well or not. Prayers continue and she must be a blessing to you already!
    by iloveponds at 08/05/10 9:21PM
  • ootda
    What wonderful news! Welcome Baby Kyleigh!
    by ootda at 08/05/10 10:02PM
  • crazy_mama
    Happy Birthday Kyleigh!
    by crazy_mama at 08/05/10 10:05PM
  • wvrose04
    I have been checking every day to see some update on how you all were doing. I am so glad to hear good news :) congrats on your little blessing!!
    by wvrose04 at 08/05/10 11:30PM
  • friedaj
    I am so excited to be a "Great Aunt" Is it anything like being "Grandma" I wonder..... Love You!
    by friedaj at 08/05/10 11:57PM
  • jess
    :) :) SO happy she is doing so well. Hope you are both doing wonderfully today!
    by jess at 08/06/10 1:09PM
  • azuresky42
    yay!! God is so good.
    by azuresky42 at 08/06/10 2:46PM
  • wifelet
    SO glad she's here safely!! Saw the picture on FB - she's gorgeous!!!
    by wifelet at 08/06/10 7:23PM

Update from the hospital

Hey Friends,

Well I thought I would update you all!

It's been a crazy past few days for us. Wednesday we went in for our growth ultrasound (every 3 weeks) I have had a lot of them and Kyleigh has always been in the 33 or 34% on all of them. Wednesday she was in the 14%. This was very alarming for me esp since I have had a lot of trouble with my blood pressure lately. I have been on bedrest the past 4 1/2 weeks and they have raised my meds three times in the last three weeks. So I feared she had been restricted.

Well the dr downplayed it and said some babies are just petite and she was probably just showing her genes. Well this continued to wear on me throughout the night. It really upset Aaron and my mom too. The next day, I called back and re-explained my concerns and asked for tests to verify her theories. She said no and that everything was okay.

I was in a panic. I couldn't make the drs do anything. So the next day my mom took the initiative and took me to Vanderbilt's ER to see if we could get a second opinion. The Lord prepared the way and the same high risk (cheif of staff) that was over my care with Chloe happened to be in the hospital that day. This made all the differences. She understood that I didn't show preclampsia the textbook way. I don't have the traditional symptoms till it is too late. They even gave the whole petite line a week before Chloe died and afterwards said "oops there was something wrong." Anyway, she totally agreed that I was had preclampsia (toxemia) but wasn't showing the classical signs. If we had had any other dr I think I would have been sent home again. She did run a test that verified Kyleigh has been restricted in growth and there is a problem. She is keeping me in the hospital until Kyleigh is born. They are running tests on me daily to determine if it is time deliver yet.

The good news is she doesn't think it will be in the next two days so we may very well make it to 30 weeks (Thursday) and Kyleigh needs more time for her systems to develop. But it VERY important to not wait too long because that could affect her ability to survive delivery. The good news she appears very strong for being little. She is currently 2 lbs 8 oz and they are monitoring her general well being closely.

I just got my booster set of sterroid shots and so that will help her all the more. Please keep Kyleigh close in prayer. We are so blessed to be at 29 1/2 weeks but just want her to get here safely and then she and I can hang out in the NICU for awhile. The dr thinks delivery will be soon. Please pray for Aaron, he is so worried and has to go back to work until she is born and that will be such a burden to him. Please pray for me to have peace with it all and rest so she can get as much blood flow as possible.


Thank you!
  • wvrose04
    I have been wondering about you Becky, I can imagine this is a stressful time for you and Aaron. Hang in there, I am praying for all 3 of you!
    by wvrose04 at 07/18/10 3:42PM
  • wifelet
    Oh, I'm so glad you got your second opinion!! We'll be praying for all 3 of y'all - keep us posted on how everyone is doing. :)
    by wifelet at 07/18/10 5:09PM
  • motherofall
    Thank you for the update, Becky. We are so concerned and hopeful. Prayers abound. Rest.
    by motherofall at 07/18/10 10:00PM
  • jess
    Thinking of you and praying for you daily, thanks so much for the details so we can pray even more specifically! I am so overwhelmed with thankfulness that you have made it so far and know that every day she has to develop is a blessing! I'm glad that you're in good hands there at Vanderbilt and that you are both being monitored so closely. My appointment with our midwife at Vanderbilt is next Monday (7/26), so we will see you then if not sooner!! ((hugs))
    by jess at 07/18/10 11:02PM
  • crazy_mama
    We have been praying for you constantly and that will not change. You are one of our regular prayer requests each time we pray. The girls have been praying for your sweet baby girl too. I will tell the girls that we need to pray for little Kyleigh and her strength. I am so glad that your mother helped you get where you would get the best care for you. Way to go mama! Please know that you are in my heart and thoughts and prayers right now and in the future. All of these pregnancy challenges can be so hard on a husband and you are blessed with an amazing husband that loves you to pieces! I will be praying for him too. Love to you and please keep us updated on your situation. We love you!
    by crazy_mama at 07/19/10 1:21AM
  • jerzgirl
    You are all in my prayers and heart every day. Praise God for the courage of your mother and the presence of the right doctor. His hand is in every detail. Much love to you.
    by jerzgirl at 07/19/10 8:03AM
  • hmjmom
    I will continue to keep you, Kyleigh and Aaron in my prayers. You have a wonderful mother to have been so insistent on checking things out better.
    by hmjmom at 07/19/10 8:29AM
  • jennking
    Praise God for using that wonderful Vanderbilt doctor!!! I am praying fervently for all of you. Love you Becky! PLEASE post (or have someone else post) as often as possible-those of us who aren't blessed to see you often are thinking of you and sweet Kyleigh often!!
    by jennking at 07/19/10 10:28AM
  • lilsis
    You're definitely in my prayers... let me know if there's anything I can do for you!
    by lilsis at 07/19/10 10:54AM
  • iloveponds
    I think of you daily and look for your name to light up for new news. Sounds like God has been looking out for you and Kyleigh during this critical period of your pregnancy. Keep us posted as you can and we'll keep prayers going up.
    by iloveponds at 07/19/10 12:44PM
  • split_rock
    Prayers are with all of you. I'm so glad you were able to connect with the Vanderbilt high risk specialist and that you and Kyleigh are getting the care you need.
    by split_rock at 07/19/10 5:38PM
  • rebecca_mckay_howell
    Wow, Becky, I will definitely keep you and your precious little girl in my prayers!
    by rebecca_mckay_howell at 07/19/10 9:08PM
  • azuresky42
    Praise the Lord that He was using the doctor to help you! My heart and prayers are with you and your sweet family.
    by azuresky42 at 07/19/10 11:12PM
  • s_laughter
    Praying for all of you! So glad they're keeping a close eye on the situation.
    by s_laughter at 07/20/10 1:21PM
  • jess
    I just read today in the email to Lost River that visitors and calls are not what's best right now, and I understand! So I'll retract what I said about hopefully seeing you soon and just keep praying instead!! :)
    by jess at 07/20/10 6:16PM
  • grandmadiane
    I am a friend of Lindsey's from church and her tender heart has asked for prayers for you! May God give wisdom and understanding to those who are caring for you and your family at this time. May His every desire be your desire and may this situation draw you ever closer to Him. Our prayers are with you and all thos who administer to your needs.
    by grandmadiane at 08/01/10 5:21PM