Prayers

Please keep my mom in your prayers. The doctors said they need to go back to a stronger & more "traditional" dose of chemo as the experimental treatment was not giving the desired effects. As of right now, she is not in remission from the leukemia anymore. The carcinoma seems to be under control still, but she will have more tests done this week to be sure. She is still in fairly good spirits, although she was not too happy about the news. Thank you so much for your prayers.
We will be traveling to the US for the next 3 weeks and will be on the road quite a bit, so I am sure we will have a great time even though it will be a bit tiring.
Thanks!
Anna
  • slmarti7
    OOOOoo Where will you guys be? Anywhere around here?
    by slmarti7 at 11/06/10 6:03PM
  • granny
    Praying for your safe travelling in the States, and for your sweet mom.
    by granny at 11/12/10 2:02PM
  • jenjam
    I will pray for your mom. I hope you're enjoying your time in the U.S.
    by jenjam at 11/18/10 12:45AM
  • granny
    How's your mom doing??
    by granny at 11/21/11 3:39PM
  • slmarti7
    You can call anytime you want.
    by slmarti7 at 11/04/12 6:09PM

I hope this "first" will be the LAST!

Well, I figure what happened today was worth posting about! Have you ever stared in the face of someone who just broke in the house you walked in? Well, it happened to me today! Thank God I am safe and they didn't hurt me nor take much but it was something I will never forget!
I have been taking care of some friends' pets while they are off the island. I go every day 2 times a day to let the dogs out and back in at night. I go midmorning and after dinner. By myself even at night many times. Know better now! Joel is coming with me from now on :)
This morning I took Copper with me (our dog) and as soon as I came in our friends' house, I noticed that their dogs were barking like CRAZY. They have a pretty good relationship with Copper so I wasn't sure why there were so agitated. I looked on their shiny white floor and I saw mudprints ALL over it. Poor naive me, I thought, wow their gardener must be here ( I know he comes to take care of the yard) and he is MESSY! I thought, I better go tell him I am here... so he won't be surprised....so I go out in the backyard and their backyard ends with a patio overlooking a little creek. I lean on the patio rail and I see 3 kids running away. THEN (DOHHHHHH) I realized something was WRONG! I run back in the house, lock the door behind me and grab the cell to call Joel (he was at our home across town). I hear a noise but was so focused at looking at the MESS they left I thought it was Copper. I hear it again. One of them hasn't had a chance to run and he is STILL in the house. Locked up. With ME! He is a young kid, 17 or so, a little rough looking but other than that, looks like just a regular kid. He starts talking to me and for a spilt second my brain can't even recognize the language he is using, even though I have been hearing it for almost a year now. I have 2 thoughts: is this really happening to me and he can really hurt me if he wants. The thoughts are in and out and my mind remains calm, clear and rational. It was like a movie, and I felt like I was watching it. But I wasn't in there. We look at each other in the eyes and he wants my phone. So, I give it to him. THen he grabs a desk lamp and hods it up like he is ready to strike if I do anything "suspicious" We keep looking at each other and I realize he is not going to hurt me. I see fear in his eyes. I think mine just showed disbelief. He wants me to unlock the door to the backyard so he can also run. I grab the keys and obey. He runs outside and turns around and warns me not to call anyone. I literally stretched my hand out to him and kindly ask for my phone back. I was thinking it was a HUGE nuisance to lose my phone like that. My voice is low, clear and steady. No trembling no cracking. Me puedes dar el telefono? Can you give me my phone? He sternly repeats that I am not to call anyone and I say, ok, and think to myself (you are lying!) but he wanted to hear my answer because he told it to me again after I didn't answer the first time) and HANDS me my phone back. After he had touched it all over. Don't get why he didn't think better, but he probably was panicked. He throws the desk lamp down and runs. So I locked the door behind me and left, went back home to get Joel. When we came back to their house, we get a good look at the "damage" they looked in every drawer, made a TOTAL mess. mudprints ALL over the house...but nothing seemed to be missing. BTW, in their hurry to run away, they left me the backpack with what they had actually taken, so I grab it and we still have it. although, the desk lamp he threw to the ground was not there anymore. I am not sure about this, but all I can figure is that he came back for the backpack and the phone? Since he touched it, I guess, but I had already left. So now we call the police and they won't even come out to the house until our friends come back. We can't clean up anything or tidy things up. GRRR that's messed up. That caused me more nerves than the first event. Oh yeah, also because I had to call 5-6 times to actually speak to someone (I was getting the run around) and the information I got, I went to get it myself from a policeman whom I stopped shortly after. We would still be there waiting. Very disappointing. Of course, I am very thankful to our good God who kept me safe and allowed that nothing bad happened more than it had already. PLease, pray for our friends, I know you do not know their names, but still, they have had a rough month and this is just on top of it.
Ahhhh, I feel better now. I think. Am I still in shock? I have displayed little to no emotion about this and that's so not like me.
We'll see how the next few days go. Please pray for us that we can be safe.
Love,
Anna
  • raifhaus
    What!! This is crazy! You were so composed. Good job. I love that you just asked for your phone back.
    by raifhaus at 07/22/10 10:55PM
  • video_nana
    When we were staying with Trudi and Matt in SC (when we were doing a brick wall for them), I was there alone and a young woman (probably late 20's) came into the house while I was vacuuming. When I turned off the vacuum to move the cord to another outlet, their dog (who was in her crate in Trudi and Matt's room, was barking like crazy. When I went to where I could see into their room, there she stood! I never really felt afraid. I told Trudi, Matt and Wilson "I thought I could 'take her' if I had to." Anyway, she didn't try to hurt me - she just wanted out of the house when she realized that I had "found her." This was about 8 years ago. Glad you are OK!
    by video_nana at 07/23/10 10:30PM
  • kendrad
    Yikes! I would have been afraid. I'm realy happy to hear you're okay, but it does seem kind of silly that the police won't check into anything right away. "Crime scenes" get messed up when they wait too long.
    by kendrad at 07/25/10 11:39PM
  • jenjam
    Anna, this is such a crazy story and I'm so very sorry you had to go through that. But, PRAISE GOD you are okay and alive to tell about it. I'm so thankful nothing bad happened to you. Sorry the police don't seem to care too much.
    by jenjam at 07/26/10 4:26PM
  • kendrad
    The basil was from one of the Christians here. They grow it in their garden. Last summer one of the widows here had truckloads of basil so we spent a couple days making pesto too. I have never grown basil, but I think (like cilantro) it has to be regularly picked to avoid going to seed.
    by kendrad at 07/28/10 9:22AM
  • granny
    Hello new friend Anna!
    So very thankful your experience didn't harm you physically--although emotionally you will continue to be jumpy.
    I will enjoy reading of your experiences in San Juan. I rather guess many will be similar to my African ones. I see you are friends with the Raifs, my nephew. Nice, that!
    by granny at 08/03/10 1:28AM
  • granny
    Please, Anna, please write me. I've been praying your health has improved.
    by granny at 08/25/10 2:11PM
  • dressednyella
    Thanks, Anna! I'm so glad you and Joel are doing better. :)
    by dressednyella at 09/02/10 10:21AM
  • heatheronthehill
    Hi Anna - here's my answer to your question... hope this helps!

    I have read in a couple of books the recommendation to present the same plate of food to the child as many times as needed until the plate is finished. This *can* be a good lesson, but also has the potential to turn really, really ugly. I have heard of children going more than a day not eating when placed in such circumstances, and instead of the hunger humbling them to the point of submission, it pushes them past the point of reason and rationality and they become so weak with hunger that they cannot eat anything. At that point, the parent is faced with a decision to force feed the food (UGLY, UGLY battle), or to give in and allow the child something else to eat. It becomes a lose-lose situation. I don't believe such a lesson is necessary to teaching good eating habits. As I said at the beginning of the article, I try to avoid making bodily functions points of discipline. There is no need to create a battle, throwing down the gauntlet so to speak, over a single plate of food. The situation is shifted from your control to the child's, and can easily backfire. When the long term goal is to win the "war" and have a child that will eat healthy foods, it just isn't necessary. This is a case of "winning more flies with honey than with vinegar".

    Re-setting at each meal helps you, as the parent, retain control over the situation and helps keep things unemotional, so that is why I recommend what I do. Hope that clarifies things!
    by heatheronthehill at 10/10/10 9:18PM

New Brother

Luis Gonzalez was baptized last Tuesday night. Tol has been studying with him for about a year (or so) and Luis has been to almost every service here since we arrived so we were all hoping and praying it would be soon :) He is about our age and we are so glad to be able to have a new Brother in Christ. We pray that we can be a good support and help and that he will stay strong. His grandmother Carmen is the only faithful Christian in his family and I know she has got to be very happy!

My mom went back in for her 3rd round of chemo yesterday. The PET scan results she had 2 weeks ago did not find any more carcinoma cells and the leukemia has been under control so far. The doctors are very happy to see how well she has responded to the cures so far, but I know it must be thanks to all the prayers she is receiving from brethren in the world. The doctors are now considering doing a stem cell transplant (I think from her own but I am not sure) at the end of all the cures but I think she still has to have radiation for the carcinoma before they can do that. So...still lots of hospital time. She has been amazingly strong and calm through all this and I admire that immensely.

We have happily settled down in our little apartment and feel more and more at home here. We just love it :)
Getting to know Guillermo, Leticia and Wilkins has been an added bonus. Please, keep them in your prayers. We are studying with all of them and we hope so much that they can become Christians soon too.

I do miss the snow I hear lots of you are enjoying these days :)

Take care,
Anna
  • gemma
    Lol! Maybe so. It seems the Holt factor is responsible for a lot of things! Ha, you have no idea what kind of family you married into. =P jk.
    by gemma at 01/30/10 11:41PM
  • raifhaus
    Wonderful. Congratulations to Luis. I saw his photo in Joel's report. You're a good example of determining to be a an influence for good on your neighbors.
    by raifhaus at 03/01/10 11:59AM
  • gemma
    So the boy got a buzz cut eh? Bet he's cute! You ought to post a picture. =)
    by gemma at 03/13/10 3:58PM
  • heatheronthehill
    Endangered Minds is about brain development in children and how it is influenced by media. VERY interesting!
    by heatheronthehill at 05/05/10 10:31PM
  • gemma
    I'm peeling big time on my arms still. I don't think mine iches as much as yours but I've had that problem too. =/
    by gemma at 05/27/10 8:18PM
  • gemma
    Copper would be the perfect little boy he always is, I'm sure. =P
    by gemma at 05/27/10 8:18PM

We are in Puerto Rico!

We arrived safely on Monday of this week and are just trying to figure our how to get settled down here. Puerto Rico is gorgeous and I am so happy to be here. We look forward to working with the churches here and pray that it will bring good fruits.
We have found our home, a very cute apartment, and are now looking for the car and getting all of our other things taken care of, with the help of the brethren here and especially of Tol. Please keep us in your prayers!
Come see us!

~Anna
  • slmarti7
    I'm glad you are starting to get settled in! When do you think you might come back for a visit?
    by slmarti7 at 10/16/09 8:10AM
  • heatheronthehill
    Wonderful! Look forward to hearing your updates. :)
    by heatheronthehill at 10/17/09 4:03PM
  • video_nana
    So good to know you are safely there and hope you get settled soon! We are in Perth Australia visiting Eddie, Melaine and Matilda. Tillie is 1 year old today (1009).
    by video_nana at 10/20/09 11:06PM
  • slmarti7
    What are you guys doing for Thanksgiving? Staying in PR? I wish I could see them before they went back, but I don't think its going to happen! How is your Mom?
    by slmarti7 at 11/11/09 11:31AM
  • jifennerh
    All of the above. There are advantages to both that are so different. Jeff started talking about western and how it would be a lot better if I went there. I was pretty determined to go to FC at first, but he has some really good reasons why I might want to think about western too. I'm all confused now and I'm not sure what to do. I'll try the pros and cons list. I'm going to apply to both schools and get more info about western and maybe visit the campus. We'll see. I don't know. Do you know of any particular reasons you would suggest FC over WKU besides the fact that I would be able to come visit you, which I plan to do anyway as much as possible? =]
    by jifennerh at 12/26/09 10:32PM
  • gemma
    believe me, if I knew how to do it on here I would post pictures!! =) I got some on the cell phone though so I can show them to you when we get down there. =) I soo wish you and Joel were here! We'd make ya'll go sledding with us too! =P I think I enjoyed it enough for our whole family. I don't remember seeing so much snow! and it came so quickly too! It started before my last class at school and in an hour the front yard was covered!
    by gemma at 01/29/10 10:33PM

time for another new post!

  • slave_of_jesus_jdb
    Hi Joel. Some NT critical scholars who have done work on the historical Jesus are Gard Ludemann, John Dominic Crossan, Paula Fredrickson and some others (which I can't think of just now). You can find debates with some of these guys with evangelical philosophers like William Lane Craig and Gary Habermas.
    by slave_of_jesus_jdb at 04/22/06 4:00PM
  • slave_of_jesus_jdb
    Yeah, I guess I should try reading some of it, huh?
    by slave_of_jesus_jdb at 05/03/06 11:58AM
  • slave_of_jesus_jdb
    Marcus Borg and Robert Funk are two other liberals to check on the resurrection.
    by slave_of_jesus_jdb at 05/03/06 11:59AM
  • slmarti7
    I know it will be just fine. Next time I have to come up to Tn, I have to see you! The baby was too young this time.
    by slmarti7 at 06/02/06 10:46PM
  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    hello Anna Cum :) This M's mom. how are you doing?
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 08/21/06 9:26PM
  • jeking
    Anna. Joel. This is Joanna King. How are you guys doing? I hope you get one here occasionally and let me know!
    by jeking at 01/30/07 6:47PM
  • jeking
    *on*
    by jeking at 01/30/07 8:37PM
  • jifennerh
    Ciao Anna!!!! Sorry, that's all the Italian I know except pinoche! =P
    by jifennerh at 01/17/08 6:30PM
  • gemma
    Where did you upload them? Thanks for adding me! love you!
    by gemma at 01/20/08 12:14PM
  • purdy_2010
    Anna. Haha, I remember hearing about you at GEMS camp this past summer: ) Julie and Jennifer told me about you: ) Oh, btw. My name's Anna.
    by purdy_2010 at 02/07/08 9:29AM
  • jifennerh
    Happy V day!
    by jifennerh at 02/14/08 4:20PM
  • jifennerh
    I loved those pics of Remi!!!!!!!
    by jifennerh at 03/16/08 10:06PM
  • pray_for_tabitha
    Hey give us a call soon... Thanks for the info you sent us about the airfares.. great help.love you
    by pray_for_tabitha at 04/08/08 12:12PM
  • slmarti7
    We thought about that, but the jobs pay better in Al and the cost of living is sooooo much less. Plus all his family is there. There is no real reason for us to move here.
    by slmarti7 at 08/24/09 7:30PM
  • slmarti7
    Sorry to hear that your Grandmother died! I'm glad that Joel was able to be with you though, I'm sure that made a hard situation a little easier.
    by slmarti7 at 08/24/09 7:31PM
  • slmarti7
    Maybe one of these weekends we can go out to dinner or something? I know you guys are probably really busy, but it would be great to see you before you go!
    by slmarti7 at 08/27/09 3:14PM
  • dressednyella
    I wish we could see y'all before you leave, too! When are you going? We will be praying for you! :)
    by dressednyella at 08/31/09 9:27PM
  • dressednyella
    Wow - only $99! My sister and brother-in-law went to PR a couple of years ago and LOVED it! I really hope everything goes smoothly with your move and your new work. I'm excited for you!
    by dressednyella at 09/01/09 9:07PM
  • jenjam
    Hi Anna! So good to "hear" from you. I got to visit with your brother a little bit last night. I hope you and I can keep in touch better now. How are you and Joel?
    by jenjam at 09/07/09 6:28PM