learning new things

been traveling quite a bit so i haven't written anything for a while. i learned something new recently that has stuck with me so i'm sharing.

i attended a session on how to be a great non-profit organization, and the presenter provided examples of some "great" organizations that were chosen after extensive research. some of those mentioned were habitat for humanity, america's second harvest, the exploratorium, and teach for america. these were chosen not only for their outcomes but for their impact on society.

the part that stuck with me was their discussion of best practices of these organizations, i.e., what they had in common that made them so great. one of the characteristics was named "mastering the art of adaption" and it included the ability to adapt to the changes in the environment (society, economy, etc.)

the point was made that these organizations did make mistakes but they were able to quickly recover and redirect efforts. they would take input from their environment, experiment with new models, and do quick evaluations to see what was working or wasn't working. the key wasn't necessarily to make as few mistakes as possible because of course we all make mistakes. the key was how to let go of models that didn't work and to try something new -- this was "the art of adaption" for the purposes of the presentation.

being not so good with the change, i figured that i could learn something from this perspective. the letting go seems to be very difficult for me. part of the problem may be that to some degree, it's admitting i'm wrong. i can admit it...i just don't particularly like admitting it. add to that the idea of not following through to the very end and the hope that things will turn around, two very important ideas but not required (or advisable) in every situation.

whatever combination seems to be mine, i'm going to try to be kinder to myself and others. work on being a bit more adaptable to changing situations. now, i can see in a spiritual context many might be thinking, oh great, that's what we don't need more of, spirtitual "flexibility"! i was thinking more in terms of being easier on myself and others about making mistakes. making it easier to admit them and to do something about them. also, embracing that as i (or you) grow needs may change, and that spiritually we need to be doing evaluations regularly to see that we are being nurtured and challenged appropriately.

that is all. a lot for a monday, huh?
  • mirrorjranch
    I have so much trouble admitting that something I'm doing needs to be changed. It is much easier to point that out in others :) ~ Janice
    by mirrorjranch at 12/15/08 4:54PM
  • tortilla
    yeah, I really thnk YOU of all people need lots of help being nicer to people! :) Hope you are all having a GREAT week!
    by tortilla at 03/20/09 7:20AM
  • jamiemmoon
    this is the fabulous amy that cooked at texas camp with me a long long time ago. If so, hello. If not, yikes...sorry.
    by jamiemmoon at 03/28/09 11:44AM

livin' large

once every so often i am able to enjoy a life far beyond my own. that is the case this week. i'm staying at a very nice hotel but paying the rate limited by my employer. i'd like to say it's swanky but it's really more exclusive than swanky. i am currently checking e-mail from the billiards room and listening to a man in alligator shoes and a suit that probably costs more than that of my wardrobe...since birth.

it's very much like the description of Christians living in this world. you're in the world but not of the world. there are perks about visiting but it is definely not somewhere you belong.

fyi - there are dress codes and cell phone etiquette required for the various spaces in the hotel - lobby, library, grille, dining room, etc.
  • mirrorjranch
    Trying to picture you in a billiards room. And just the fact that it's called a billiards room denotes the level of swank you are living in right now.
    by mirrorjranch at 09/18/08 8:52PM
  • mladyman
    So, I'm guessing there's NOT a room with an ice machine and Coke machine in it?
    by mladyman at 09/19/08 5:55PM
  • mirrorjranch
    One of the perks of working for the State . . . fancy hotels for a fraction of the cost.
    by mirrorjranch at 09/20/08 5:46PM

things i saw on the way to work

1. 3 cars running the same red light with the last driver using her cell phone.

2. bagpipe players and policeman in a ceremony in front of city hall.

3. a man bringing his baby and 3 year old to work with him; he was carrying the baby in a safety seat, his satchel and his son's superhero backpack. he stopped many times to adjust baggage.

4. dps walking their drug dog.

per·sev·er·a·tion

the word was supposed to be preservation but i misspelled, didn't notice and spell-check didn't pick it up because it was a real word. nice. not what i meant to say at all! ironic that the definition includes brain damage.

per·sev·er·a·tion Audio Help /pərˌsɛvəˈreɪʃən/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[per-sev-uh-rey-shuhn] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun 1. the act or process of perseverating.
2. Psychiatry. the pathological, persistent repetition of a word, gesture, or act, often associated with brain damage or schizophrenia.
  • babyface
    DEFinitely, DEFinitely, DEFinitely perseveration!
    by babyface at 08/01/08 1:08PM
  • mladyman
    Looking at definition 2, I have it. Perseveration. I'm constantly hollering at the kids (persistent repetition) to "CLOSE THE DOOR BEFORE ALL THE AIR CONDITIONING LEAVES THE HOUSE.", often with finger pointed at the guilty party (persistent repetition of gesture), with absolutely no result occurring. And yet I continue to do it. Must be brain damage. (You know the definition of insanity is repeating the exact same action over and over again but expecting different results.)
    by mladyman at 08/02/08 11:34AM
  • blueeyes
    Good seeing you last night!
    by blueeyes at 08/07/08 2:10PM

not everyone loves a parade

I went with my parents to San Antonio to visit an uncle, aunt, and cousins on July 4th. After lunch we stayed around the table and were catching up and telling stories. My uncle was recently in the hospital and had some delusional moments, so his kids were explaining the different situations.

One ongoing story was that they were supposed to be preparing for a parade. My uncle wanted to know if they had gassed up the vehicles, if they were lined up, etc. His kids just went with the flow, “Oh yeah, everything’s ready; don’t worry about a thing.” At some point he looked at his daughter, pointed to his hospital gown and said, “Do you think this is proper parade attire?”
  • mladyman
    How funny!
    by mladyman at 07/07/08 2:49PM
  • mirrorjranch
    Funny, we were at Canyon Lake over the 4th.
    by mirrorjranch at 07/07/08 4:09PM
  • tortilla
    I have some funny stories, too. maybe we can share them all at the LADIES SLEEPOVER aug 1st! please say you will be there! i haven't had a good Amy Hammons talk in a while!
    by tortilla at 07/08/08 2:10AM
  • tortilla
    we were in San ANtone, too for the 4th!
    by tortilla at 07/08/08 2:10AM
  • tortilla
    come see my new post and mark your calendar!! ;)
    by tortilla at 07/18/08 5:36PM