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  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    Are you going to delete or not use the other two blogs?
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 04/08/08 12:23PM
  • catwoman
    i love the pictures
    by catwoman at 07/01/08 5:07PM
  • pearls03
    hey
    by pearls03 at 08/15/08 11:41PM
  • haleybelle
    I miss you guys so much! Come visit soon! :)
    by haleybelle at 09/04/08 11:09PM
  • silverstn86
    hey how is everythimg going? how are you and steeven doing?
    by silverstn86 at 06/23/09 3:09PM

"New Post" request granted.:)

So much to do, so much to be done...and every day is a beautiful new adventure, holding new lessons and blessings beyond compare.:)

Stephen and I are in Georgia for the weekend. We found cheap tickets to Atlanta and so here we are! So much is different, yet so much is the same. In some ways it's almost like coming home, and then the truth hits with startling clarity. It is home...and so is Dallas, and so is Houston, and Livingston, and Arkansas, and Virginia...where loved ones and brethren reside and where the Lord is present, this is "home." God's blessings are so abundant and seen so richly in the relationships we hold dear.

Also...tomorrow is Marmee's birthday! Happy Birthday!!!
My relationship with my mother is one I cherish. Having her as an example, a teacher, a mentor, an older woman...such a gift! It's her birthday, but she has given and continues to give the gift. Thank you Marmee.

In other news...we are now assembling with the Melrose congregation in Richardson and are enjoying building relationships there. They are brethren who provide encouragement, who we are challenged by, and who so openly wlecome us and show us their love.:) We are blessed.

Life is full with studies during the week, studies during the evenings, fellowship on every hand.

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. To those back in Texas, we'll miss you this weekend, but you all are in our thoughts and prayers.:)

Amber Raif
  • lilyofthevalley
    That's wonderful that you have such a good outlook on "home" alot of people don't get that.....That must be a wierd feeling to go to your "parents" house! :)
    by lilyofthevalley at 02/23/08 4:37PM
  • catwoman
    i love you too amber a am know 19 me and you same age what know
    by catwoman at 02/23/08 4:48PM
  • onelittlecandle
    I'm so glad for your happiness and joy in life! God blesses us richly indeed. :)
    by onelittlecandle at 02/23/08 6:03PM
  • robynbobm
    Sounds wonderful!
    by robynbobm at 02/25/08 8:22PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    New picture!!!
    by 7laughinghardmans at 03/05/08 7:59AM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    Even though I love the one you've got posted! :)
    by 7laughinghardmans at 03/05/08 8:00AM
  • basketballluver20
    :) sounds like alot of fun
    by basketballluver20 at 03/22/08 7:07PM
  • robynbobm
    How are the Raifs?
    by robynbobm at 03/24/08 4:33PM
  • cay
    We are blessed to have you at Melrose!
    by cay at 03/24/08 9:45PM
  • catwoman
    i love the pictures
    by catwoman at 07/01/08 5:12PM

Well Hello...finally:)

Yes, I do suppose that it's time for another post.:)

Life is full and wonderful. We're settling into the house in Richardson, TX and it really feels like home now.

We've recently been spending a lot of time with different brethren in the area; there are so many people to meet! I have trouble keeping track of familiar faces and when it comes to names...it's a disaster! Working on it, perhaps it just takes time.

We've been invited to peoples homes for meals, to studies, people have blessed us by coming to our home to spend time with us...blessings and fellowship abound, there is so much love our brethren are freely bestowing on us. God is so good!

So, life continues and is beautiful. Many people smile and we still get teased over our "newly-wed" status and our affectionate natures. It couldn't be better.:)

Stephen is my leader and I am blessed beyond my wildest dreams. To follow him? Why was I given such a gift?!

Grace and peace to all of you.:)

* * * * *

P.S. Thank you all so much for the congratulations and the happy birthday wishes!

edit: And to all who would be interested to know...Sasha is doing very well in her new Dallas life style.:) She's a German Shepherd mix, we were told her other half is golden retriever. But we're not sure on that, looks more like doberman to me.:)

She loves Stephen, we haven't had any trouble with her affections including him. Her Dallas days consist of a couple of neighborhood walks, frisbee in the park when it's not raining, meeting lots of other dogs and children, and just keeping me company during the day while Stephen's at work. Dogs are wonderful:)

She's getting old, seven already! It doesn't seem that long ago that she was just my three month old puppy...but she still acts like one so we can't complain!
  • crystalized
    I'm so glad things are so spiritually edifying! God is good indeed! I can't wait to see your house. :) I've heard such good things about what you've done to that once-bachelor-pad. ;-) Love you.
    by crystalized at 12/11/07 11:59AM
  • raifhaus
    I would love to see your influence in the house, too! How many couches are still in there, at latest count? ;) Keep being affectionate. I appreciate your good example in that!
    by raifhaus at 12/11/07 12:43PM
  • marmee
    I'm happy 'cause you're so happy! Look forward to seeing the house next week ... more forward to seeing you and your hubby, though. :) ((HUG))
    by marmee at 12/11/07 1:48PM
  • schmidtkins
    That is so sweet! Blessings
    by schmidtkins at 12/11/07 2:24PM
  • southernpoet87
    I'm so glad to know that you all are doing well!
    by southernpoet87 at 12/11/07 2:43PM
  • robynbobm
    Glad things are so good for you!
    by robynbobm at 12/11/07 7:17PM
  • aga
    Miss you guys...How's Sasha?
    by aga at 12/12/07 11:37AM
  • basketballluver20
    :) God is Good
    by basketballluver20 at 12/12/07 3:50PM
  • chooselove
    who's sasha? :)
    by chooselove at 12/14/07 4:38PM
  • chooselove
    is it a golden retriever? if it's a dog that would be my guess...
    by chooselove at 12/14/07 4:39PM
  • 4tea_something
    Thanks for being with us last night! I'm only sorry we didn't get to visit with just the two of you more. Soon!
    by 4tea_something at 12/16/07 3:43PM
  • 4tea_something
    And we'll be anxious for a car/dog update!
    by 4tea_something at 12/16/07 3:43PM
  • robynbobm
    I will enjoy Bob's cat Felix in the afternoons.
    by robynbobm at 12/26/07 7:58PM
  • buyeroftruth
    Glad you are doing so well. May God continue to bless you all.
    by buyeroftruth at 12/29/07 10:30AM
  • marmee
    Happy New Year! Missing you. :)
    by marmee at 01/01/08 12:39PM
  • brownblackeyes
    you can email me at my email address. it's im.in.luv.with.u18@hotmail.com.
    by brownblackeyes at 01/21/08 5:45PM
  • hannahbanana
    Yay! We are so glad you placed membership at Melrose! It is really great!
    by hannahbanana at 02/04/08 10:33PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    New Post Please!!
    by 7laughinghardmans at 02/11/08 8:00AM
  • catwoman
    i love you too
    by catwoman at 02/23/08 4:50PM

Time is filled with swift transition...

Well, this blog has, as promised, been silent for a time. But now there are happenings worthy of an update.

My relationship with Stephen has grown much; God is watching and His blessings are richly seen! Two weeks ago we spent a few days in Colorado with his family, helping them move to Livingston, TX. I enjoyed it greatly -- being with Stephen and learning more about him was such a gift. Is is all the more clear what a servant of God I have been blessed by. Being with his family and becoming close to them was also so very special. The whole time was good, and the last day in Livingston ended in a very special way...


Stephen asked me to marry him. I said yes. :) :) :)


I am blessed beyond measure! Stephen is such a man of God, a follower of His, a leader that guides and protects and loves with such gentleness and strength and sincerity. A faithful follower of the King.

His treatment of others humbles me and pushes me on to show more patience, more love. His example is convicting, his faith is encouraging, his strength is powerful, his love of God is apparent in his steps. God is so good, and Stephen shows me this!

May God be praised. His thoughts are far above our thoughts. His ways past finding out!








Our wedding is planned for October 30th....of 2007. 3 days and counting.:)

May God be with you all!
  • raifhaus
    Missing hearing anything from you. Want to plan a wedding again? Our love to you both!
    by raifhaus at 11/19/07 11:56PM
  • jennileigh
    Happy Birthday, Mrs. Raif! :)
    by jennileigh at 11/29/07 4:00PM
  • sam_edu
    Happy Birthday Sis!
    by sam_edu at 11/29/07 4:52PM
  • marmee
    Happy Birthday!!! I miss you. :)
    by marmee at 11/29/07 4:58PM
  • crystalized
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! (You old married lady you.) ;) Love you, dear.
    by crystalized at 11/29/07 5:03PM
  • scbrewer
    Happy Birthday!
    by scbrewer at 11/29/07 6:11PM
  • august28rose
    Happy Birthday, Amber! I love you! :)
    by august28rose at 11/29/07 6:39PM
  • lilyofthevalley
    Happy Birthday Amber!
    by lilyofthevalley at 11/29/07 8:12PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    Hope you have a lovely birthday!
    by 7laughinghardmans at 11/29/07 8:42PM
  • onelittlecandle
    Happy Birthday!
    by onelittlecandle at 11/29/07 8:44PM
  • miss_nisee
    Happy Birthday. I also miss you.
    by miss_nisee at 11/29/07 9:47PM
  • lizzbeth
    Happy Birthday! Hope to see you in a couple of weeks.:)
    by lizzbeth at 11/30/07 10:33AM
  • basketballluver20
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
    by basketballluver20 at 11/30/07 4:24PM
  • mattie
    Happy Birthday (yesterday)!!!!! :-D
    by mattie at 12/01/07 5:09PM
  • melodymind1
    I was wanting to join this group Maidens_in_Waiting..is that okey?
    by melodymind1 at 12/01/07 7:35PM
  • robynbobm
    Speaking of swift transition... I am engaged and going to get married January 1st!
    by robynbobm at 12/05/07 12:34AM
  • raifhaus
    Congratulations on earning the title "Aunt" yet again! So many NIECES! wow!
    by raifhaus at 12/06/07 1:32PM
  • basketballluver20
    :) i love your new baby niece!!
    by basketballluver20 at 12/07/07 12:55PM
  • catwoman
    i love you too
    by catwoman at 02/23/08 4:51PM

A Time to Rejoice...

Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land and feed on His faithfulness. Delight yourself also in the LORD and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4


I know this blog has been silent for a time, and I do not doubt that after this post it will again become silent for a time. There is much in life right now outside of Pleonast that is arresting my time.:) However it has been agreed that there is great importance in sharing the blessings of the past few weeks with those who we love who would like to be aware, thus this “catch-up” post that is put up simultaneously with one that holds much of the same news.

Life has been busy in Jasper, GA with occasional trips to and from Louisiana, Texas, and a few other states. Day to day is busy with good things, being with brethren, preparing for trips, life is pretty organized in the big picture. However into this big picture has entered something else. Something unexpected and wonderful as only God can make it.

Stephen Raif came to spend a few days with my family in Louisiana and while he was there expressed to my father an interest to court me. After a time of prayer and thought and seeking God's guidance we began a courtship. With commitment from the beginning we have entered into this relationship and with much prayer and counsel we seek the goal of a God glorifying marriage.


This is such a time for rejoicing, for pondering, and for being sober even in the midst of great joy and happiness. Neither Stephen nor I take this lightly, but enter into this new walk of life seeking God and looking to glorify Him. If you would be willing to pray for us, thank you. That means so very much at this beautiful phase of life.

I have been blessed beyond what I knew to be possible. God has given me a such a gift!

And to put it very simply...I am one very happy person!:)
  • lilyofthevalley
    That it does!Very pretty song.
    by lilyofthevalley at 08/14/07 9:53PM
  • lizzbeth
    Now the angels have two reasons to sing.:)
    by lizzbeth at 08/20/07 7:12PM
  • autumn_rain
    Congratulations!!! How exciting:)
    by autumn_rain at 08/23/07 3:11PM
  • lizzbeth
    Have Fun!:)
    by lizzbeth at 08/23/07 4:34PM
  • robynbobm
    How is it going?
    by robynbobm at 08/23/07 9:52PM
  • jennileigh
    SO great to meet you this weekend! Hope you guys have a safe trip back tomorrow. :)
    by jennileigh at 09/03/07 7:10PM
  • robynbobm
    I will add you to my address book. :)
    by robynbobm at 09/10/07 8:55PM
  • miss_nisee
    Hello Amber!
    by miss_nisee at 09/15/07 6:41PM
  • justmarge
    what a great way to start this blog your the greatest.
    by justmarge at 09/15/07 7:09PM
  • 7laughinghardmans
    Charlotte Hardman here! Congratulations!
    by 7laughinghardmans at 09/17/07 8:58AM
  • august28rose
    Hey, Amber! I'm sorry I didn't answer your call the other night, I was at a singing. Are you going to the HS campout on this trip? I hope you and Marmee enjoy it :) I love you!
    by august28rose at 09/17/07 3:50PM
  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    What a wonderful announcement to read :) I'm so happy for you both.
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 09/22/07 10:34PM
  • makingusmile
    You're invited to celebrate something special for Kimi and Andy Cravens. Look at my newest post here for details :D
    by makingusmile at 09/27/07 12:43PM
  • tabitha
    Oh Amber! :) That is soo exciting! (I'm sorry I've not been very good at keeping in touch with you :( )
    by tabitha at 09/29/07 9:37AM
  • makingusmile

    CHECK IT OUT HERE!!
    by makingusmile at 10/02/07 9:51AM
  • laurar209
    So happy for you both -- you're in my prayers! :)
    by laurar209 at 10/04/07 9:56AM
  • memento_mori
    Hey Amber, just wondering how you've been doing. :) Love you!
    by memento_mori at 10/04/07 11:59PM
  • mr_and_mrs_berry
    Hey your blog is still pretty silent except for commentators.
    by mr_and_mrs_berry at 10/05/07 4:32PM
  • basketballluver20
    congrats Amber i really proud of you!!!!
    by basketballluver20 at 10/05/07 7:24PM
  • catwoman
    i love you too
    by catwoman at 02/23/08 4:52PM