Boston Children's Hospital's Transgender Clinic

BOSTON CHILDREN'S GENDER MANAGEMENT CLINIC STARTING AT 9 OR 10 YEARS OLD. I just saw this most disturbing piece of news and I'm heartsick, sick to my stomach and so sad for these children and wanted to let you know how sinful and disgusting America is getting. Boston Children's Hospital (Harvard) is the #1 pediatric hospital in the U.S. They now have a transgender clinic for children. If the parents believe their girl is a boy and vice versa and if the child agrees they can begin their children's sex change at 10 years old or as soon as the first sign of puberty. The Dr. will give drugs to delay puberty and at 16 years old will begin hormone treatment which is NOT reversible and will cause infertility for the rest of their lives. CHILDREN ARE DECIDING if they want their body medicinally mutilated, along with their parent's influence. THERE ARE SOME LEGITIMATE PHYSICAL DEFECTS BABIES CAN BE BORN WITH WHERE A DECISION HAS TO BE MADE IN REGARDS TO SEX AND I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT. Killing our babies is bad enough and now we mutilate our children, but I suppose that's one way eugenisists and the elitist can help control the population. Anger, hurt, and sadness is pressing on my heart.
You can check this out on the Boston Children's Hospital site.
  • grandmadiane
    I will not comment on the above...no comment will fully encompass my thoughts.
    I would like to ask for your prayers though on another matter. A friend of a friend gave birth Mon to a beautiful baby boy who sadly was born with an enlarged heart. Andrew needs a transplant within 2 weeks or is not expected to live. I know this is an issue close to you so I ask you and all those who read Our Hope will pray for this little soul.
    by grandmadiane at 02/09/12 10:21PM
  • aleta
    I had heard ^^ of this incident today from a congregation's e-bulletin out of Louisville. I do pray for that little boy.
    Concerning your post - I just don't know what to say.
    by aleta at 02/09/12 11:04PM
  • OurHope
    Yes! I will pray for Andrew! I'm so sorry to hear this. Please keep me informed.
    by OurHope at 02/10/12 9:12AM
  • OurHope
    I want everyone to understand I'm not speaking of children who are born with both sex organs. My son had a roommate at the hospital like that when he was a baby and the mother had to choose which way she was going to raise her child. I felt so sorry for her and the baby. I was thinking how a boy baby and toddler may like playing with dolls and wearing their sister's clothes etc. and liberal parents being concerned if their child is gay and may even influence the boy if they come to believe that. Also, what about children raised with gay parents? They get to influence and change their child's thinking. The whole thing is scary.
    by OurHope at 02/10/12 9:17AM
  • ceoltoir
    Yuck!
    by ceoltoir at 02/10/12 10:54AM
  • hmjmom
    Very sad and disturbing. I often wonder how long God will put up with the sinfulness of this world.
    by hmjmom at 02/10/12 11:43AM
  • onelittlecandle
    Wow
    by onelittlecandle at 02/10/12 12:40PM
  • aleta
    I went to the website, and I know what your are referring to. You are absolutely right; it's very disgusting.
    by aleta at 02/10/12 11:31PM
  • granny
    I'm so glad you gave us this heads-up. This is extra disturbing to me.
    by granny at 02/11/12 11:00AM
  • grandmadiane
    I'm thinking of you and your son today. He is on my mind quite a bit this morning and I am hoping all is well with you!
    by grandmadiane at 02/15/12 8:42AM
  • grandmadiane
    Thinking of you and your family
    by grandmadiane at 03/15/12 1:43PM
  • grandmadiane
    You have been on my mind and in my heart. Prayers for your family!
    by grandmadiane at 05/13/12 9:45PM

Waiting on the Lord

Hello friends. It's been a while since I've been on here. I just haven't had the mindset and lacked the will due to fatigue. Just after Xmas my son got very ill and ended up in the ICU. He was so ill the doctor told me to tell my husband to come. It was an intense time but, thanks be to God, he overcame the crisis and is now stable. All the adreneline and stress left me weak and when that happens my brain seems to take a vacation as well. So, I'm back and my son is on the 1a list for a heart so we wait. Speaking of waiting...

WAITING ON THE LORD

As my son waits for a new heart and I wait with him there’s nothing I can do to speed things up, however, the wait time is not altogether passive. My job is to supply food to help strengthen my son’s body and to keep our spirits up as we are away from home for such a long time. The most important job I have in this waiting time is to pray for my son’s future and I know that in doing so I am “waiting on the Lord.”

Waiting on the Lord with a faithful, trusting heart seems to be a passive thing to do; if we have complete faith then don’t we pray for help and then dismiss it from our mind KNOWING we will receive an answer? While this kind of trust is good, God tells us that waiting on Him is, in fact, a very active process. Let’s look at the actions that are coupled with our wait.


=FIRST OF ALL WAITING MEANS A CONFIDENT EXPECTATION: Psa 62:5 My soul, wait silently for God alone, For my expectation is from Him.

=WE ARE TO HAVE COURAGE: Psa 27:14 Wait on the LORD; Be of good courage, And He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the LORD!

=WE ARE TO TRUST, DO GOOD, AND FEED ON GOD'S FAITHFULNESS: Psa 37:3 Trust in the LORD, and do good; Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.

=WE ARE TO DELIGHT IN THE LORD: Psa 37:4 Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

=WE ARE TO COMMIT OUR WAYS TO HIM: Psa 37:5 Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.

=WE ARE TO REST IN HIM AND WAIT PATIENTLY: Psa 37:7 Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for Him;

=WE ARE TO GET RID OF ANGER AND NOT FRET: Psa 37:8-9 Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret—it only causes harm. For evildoers shall be cut off; But those who wait on the LORD, They shall inherit the earth.

=WE ARE TO KEEP THE LORD'S WAY: Psa 37:34 Wait on the LORD, And keep His way.

=WE ARE TO WAIT WITH THE LORD'S SAINTS AS WE PRAISE GOD WITH THEM IN WORSHIP: Psa 52:9 I will praise You forever, Because You have done it; And in the presence of Your saints I will wait on Your name, for it is good.

=WE ARE WAIT WITH CALMNESS IN OUR SOUL AND NOT BE MOVED TO DESPAIR OR DISTRUST: Psa 62:1-2 Truly my soul silently waits for God; From Him comes my salvation. He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be greatly moved.

= WE ARE TO WAIT STANDING ON THE FIRM FOUNDATION THAT OUR LORD IS THE ONLY ROCK OF OUR SALVATION, OUR DEFENSE, OUR STRENGTH, AND OUR REFUGE AND NOT BE MOVED OFF OF THAT ROCK: PSA 62:6-7 He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be moved. In God is my salvation and my glory; The rock of my strength, And my refuge, is in God.

=WE ARE TO ALWAYS TRUST HIM...ALWAYS...NOT JUST WHEN WE HAVE HOPE BUT WHEN EVERYTHING LOOKS HOPELESS TO US: Psa 62:8 Trust in Him at all times, you people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Selah

=WE ARE TO POUR OUR HEARTS OUT TO GOD, NOT JUST APATHETICALLY AND ROBOTICALLY THROW IN OUR WISH: Psa 62:8 Trust in Him at all times, you people; Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us. Selah


=WE ARE TO HOPE IN HIM: Isa 8:17 And I will wait on the LORD, Who hides His face from the house of Jacob; And I will hope in Him.

=WE ARE TO SEEK THE LORD, WAIT QUIETLY FOR HIS RESPONSE IN HIS TIME: Lam 3:25-26 The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, To the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should hope and wait quietly For the salvation of the LORD.

=WE ARE TO HOPE IN HIS WORD: Psa 130:5 I wait for the LORD, my soul does wait, And in His word do I hope.

=WE ARE TO REMEMBER GOD'S CHARACTERISTICS AS WE READ ABOUT HIM IN HIS WORD AND GAIN STRENGTH FROM THE KNOWLEDGE OF HIS STRENGTH, HIS GREATNESS, HIS POWER, HIS UNTIRING ABILITY AND WILLINGNESS TO HELP, AND HIS UNSEARCHABLE UNDERSTANDING. Isa 40:25-31 "To whom then will you liken Me, Or to whom shall I be equal?" says the Holy One. Lift up your eyes on high, And see who has created these things, Who brings out their host by number; He calls them all by name, By the greatness of His might And the strength of His power; Not one is missing. Why do you say, O Jacob, And speak, O Israel: "My way is hidden from the LORD, And my just claim is passed over by my God"? Have you not known? Have you not heard? The everlasting God, the LORD, The Creator of the ends of the earth, Neither faints nor is weary. His understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the weak, And to those who have no might He increases strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, And the young men shall utterly fall, But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint.

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The blessing of actively waiting on the Lord builds our faith, trust, and even knowledge in Him; actively waiting influences others for good, gives praise to God, keeps us from falling into worry and despair, gives us calmness and confidence in our expection of an answered prayer within the Lord's time. And, finally, waiting on the Lord gives us the desires of our heart trusting we have received an answered prayer according to our righteous, merciful, loving, all wise, and all knowing God.

The LORD upholds all who fall, And raises up all who are bowed down. The eyes of all look expectantly to You, And You give them their food in due season. You open Your hand And satisfy the desire of every living thing. The LORD is righteous in all His ways, Gracious in all His works. The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth. He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He also will hear their cry and save them. (Psa 145:14-19)




  • aleta
    These are such beautiful thoughts and I thank you for pulling them together from the scriptures and sharing your own experience in the light of them. There's nothing I can add, except...perhaps this is so beautiful to me because I traveled through a very trying time in my own life and the wait was most definitely the time in which I grew closer to the Lord and to other people. I recognize all that you have so eloquently said. Thank you!
    by aleta at 02/02/12 10:47AM
  • grandmadiane
    Thank you. I so needed this and have several who are in need. If you don't object I'd like to print this and pass it along.
    by grandmadiane at 02/02/12 8:59PM
  • ceoltoir
    I've been sitting here imagining myself in your shoes. Or rather, trying to imagine. I will pray for you more fervently than ever.

    Thank you for the good lesson.
    by ceoltoir at 02/02/12 9:09PM
  • granny
    Dear Pat, even as you face each new day, confident in Him, encouraging your sweet son -- I want to add a loving caution, please don't neglect your husband. We wives can easily get distracted from our never ending responsibility to love our husbands in every way -- even though he is thankful for your care for his son. During these times in our lives we "Marthas" can easily become confused, unbalanced in what is needful.
    by granny at 02/03/12 1:21AM
  • racheldean
    Wonderful thoughts, thank you for sharing. Reminds me of how Grandma would write out great sermon outlines - this would be a good sermon! It was great to see you all last month. Wish we could drop by more often.
    by racheldean at 02/07/12 2:42PM

Clothed With Humility

Is there any piece of clothing more humbling than a hospital gown?! I was watching a big, burly man taking his walk around the ward wearing two gowns (one as a robe). As I saw his bare legs and slippered feet coming out from the bottom of the gown I couldn't help but smile inside thinking how humbling hospital wards are. People dress, talk, and function in ways they would never dream about outside those walls. All of us who have experienced being a patient in a hospital know we are willing to cooperate and do whatever it takes, no matter how demoralizing, in order to get well.

Now, if we willingly debase ourselves as we timidly slip into our hospital gown, why is it we so often refuse to put on the clothing of humility when we need help in our spiritual weakness? We want to be healed but slipping into the clothing of humility is just too much for our egos to handle. What if we used this same mindset in the hospital? What if we said, "I refuse to have surgery if I have to put on that flimsy gown!" No healing would take place. All that would be left is a broken body and a whole lot of needless pride.

1Pe 5:5 Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for "GOD RESISTS THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE."

Will we put on clothing of humility if it means we have to admit wrong... or do something we don't want to do... or not to do something we want to do?
Will we put on spiritual clothing that makes us fade into the background in order to help someone else shine for their encouragement?
Will we wear the garment of Christ that may open us to criticism and ridicule because we won't go along with the lies of the world?
Will we be willing to wear humility and not have the last word in order to try and win an argument, but rather close our mouth at the proper time in order to have peace in which to gain a brother (or husband)?

Sometimes, putting on the clothing of humility is just as difficult as snapping up those hospital gowns, but surely if can submit ourselves to all the vulnerability in the prodding, poking, and inadequate clothing in a hospital ward, we can change our spiritual wardrobe in order to have the strength we need to fight the epidemic of sin.


Rom 13:14 But put on [to be clothed with] the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.
  • tryphena
    Excellent! Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts.
    by tryphena at 12/06/11 8:50AM
  • onelittlecandle
    Very good thoughts!
    by onelittlecandle at 12/06/11 9:04AM
  • granny
    I like your list of humble pie. Reminds all of us.
    (And you should see the hospital gowns over here!
    by granny at 12/06/11 9:49AM
  • grandmadiane
    Such good thoughts!

    My granddaughter was beside me as I read this. I told her about your son having a "bad heart" and being very sick. She said, " Awe, we need to get him a good heart!" When I asked, "How?" She replied, "We need to give him a hug. I need to see him!" Oh how I wish I could bring her to give him a hug that would give him a "good heart"!
    by grandmadiane at 12/06/11 10:21AM
  • aleta
    Oh, the irony: putting on humility to have more strength. We just aren't convinced it works until we try it, and many of us aren't willing to try it. What an excellent example to drive that point home!
    by aleta at 12/06/11 3:59PM
  • worker_at_home
    All I can say is WOW, excellent post, and so true. Why is it that we cling so tightly to those things that are so useless (ie. pride, selfishness etc.), and so easily let go of those things that are so valuable (humility, generosity, etc.)?? Thank you for the sobering thoughts...............Danny and your family continue in my prayers daily.
    by worker_at_home at 12/06/11 4:28PM
  • hmjmom
    Excellent thoughts.
    by hmjmom at 12/07/11 5:03AM
  • TNShirley
    Good thoughts for all of us to consider.
    by TNShirley at 12/07/11 2:38PM
  • TNShirley
    Good thoughts for all of us to consider.
    by TNShirley at 12/07/11 2:38PM
  • OurHope
    I'm sorry I don't get back on here as often as I would like to. Every day seems like more complications we have to deal with and by the time I get back home to relax I'm too exhausted to do much (like now). I enjoy your posts very much and I appreciate them all. I will respond eventually so don't give up on me! I do love the hug for a new heart. Children are so sweet.

    Thank you for your prayers.

    Oh and one more thing ladies, those thoughts on humbleness are for me. I really need a new change of clothes... I have been working on it this past week, but it's so easy to mess up and sometimes over silly little things.
    by OurHope at 12/07/11 10:05PM
  • racheldean
    Love your thoughts Aunt Pat! Thank you for sharing them with us.
    by racheldean at 12/08/11 12:58AM
  • quincysmom
    Great thoughts!
    by quincysmom at 12/15/11 9:39AM
  • on_eagles_wings
    Wonderful analogy, Pat! We probably could all do better submitting to one another! It is so hard to shed our prideful attitudes sometimes, especially when we perceive that someone has wronged us. If we want the grace that God gives, we have to be willing to wear the "hospital gown," except I don't think that spiritually, do we even get the second gown to wear over the first!
    by on_eagles_wings at 12/21/11 3:00AM
  • ceoltoir
    I wish for you some peace and comfort and joy this holiday weekend.

    I pray for you and yours regularly.
    by ceoltoir at 12/21/11 11:01AM
  • granny
    loving you.
    by granny at 12/26/11 1:07AM
  • on_eagles_wings
    Enjoying the new issue, Pat! Thanks for the hard work in the midst of a family crisis!
    by on_eagles_wings at 01/06/12 12:45AM
  • joc
    I just found your Pleo blog. Your son will be in my prayers. I look forward to reading more of your lovely thoughts.
    by joc at 01/12/12 10:05PM

The Greeter

As I was leaving Walmart the other day I took my bags out of the basket and left the cart near the "greeter" who was sitting on a stool. This was an older Walmart and the carts are located further down near the entrance. Sometimes I don't like to mess with taking the cart outside and I also think of saving the Walmart workers from having to take it back in. Normally I put carts in their spot but this store isn't set up to do that. Besides, there was a Walmart worker right there who would take care of it.

As soon as I left the cart this Walmart greeter yelled, "Ma'am! Ma'am! You aren't going to leave that there are you?" He said it so loudly the people at the registers all looked up. I said, "Aren't you customer service?" He was a very tall, big man and he puffed his chest out, pointed to his name tag and loudly proclaimed, "I am a Greeter!"

I was thinking how caught up we can get in our own titles and our own self to where we give ourselves excuses that we don't have time to look beyond our own station in life in order to serve others with the abilities we have. Afterall, we have our own titles as a wife, mother, and daughter, and we just don't have time for the needs of the church, friends, or even strangers. Do we look as ridiculous to God as that man did to me? Probably more so.

"For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith. For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another. (Rom 12:3-5)

  • tryphena
    Makes me think, what is my knee-jerk answer to the fill-in-the-blank: "I am a _______!"

    I want the answer to be "servant," but I fear that I serve myself too much.
    by tryphena at 11/21/11 9:20AM
  • worker_at_home
    Hello, Pat. I worship with Rachel and her lovely family. We have been praying for Danny for years and will continue to ask for God's richest blessings on him and all of you. Rachel was right about visiting your blog to receive encouragement! I think I will visit here often...........may God bless you.
    by worker_at_home at 11/21/11 10:39AM
  • praguer
    Hello! I'm Tami. I am following a recommendation to visit from my friend, Kathy. Nice to meet you!

    Re: below post - My dad had a heart and kidney transplant last year. It was a long road, but he's doing great now. May God bless your family with the strength to wait (both mentally and physically)!
    by praguer at 11/21/11 3:12PM
  • milly
    Reminds me of my first visit ever to a WalMart. We were living in Canada when they started, and since we got US tv, we saw the ads, but had never been in one. On a trip south, we were in Wisconsin and ready to get out and stretch our legs when we spotted one and decided to check it out. We had seen all the ads about "Leon, the greeter". As we walked in, the greeter handed us a flyer. I stopped, and opened it up as I said, "Well, well, well! What have we here?" The greeter mumbled, with more than a little vinegar, "I dunno. They told me to give it to you." We've laughed and laughed over the years at the surly attitude of our 'first' greeter!
    by milly at 11/21/11 5:05PM
  • ceoltoir
    Walmart customer service - now there's an oxymoron.

    Being a servant is the simplest and sometimes most difficult role we fill.
    by ceoltoir at 11/21/11 8:46PM
  • OurHope
    Enjoyed your posts. The best Walmart greeters are the retired men and women who are thankful they have a job!
    by OurHope at 11/22/11 8:20AM
  • granny
    Walmart greeters were a fine idea. When I returned to the States back in 1992 for a few years, so enjoyed greeting THEM when I walked in and nearly every time when leaving the store they made sure I said goodbye. This is true here in South Africa also. The custom must NEVER be forgotten to greet anyone you have eye contact with while even shopping. I get tickled listening to call in radio. If the host forgets to greet the caller-in, the entire conversation is forced to stop until the greeting is given.
    by granny at 11/22/11 11:52PM
  • grandmadiane
    I should be a greeter...I seem to talk to everyone! When my husband passed even one of the Wal Mart employees came to visitation because she remembered me talking to her.
    by grandmadiane at 11/23/11 12:08AM
  • OurHope
    I went in Walmart yesterday and the greeter was a young woman who was very nice and friendly.

    Happy Thanksgiving to all!
    by OurHope at 11/23/11 6:21AM
  • praguer
    Well, I was born in Tampa/St. Pete, and then we moved when I was about 3. I've been in GA, AL, NJ, and now Prague since then. When I was in college, my parents moved back to Mom's "home" just west of Gainesville. I actually call AL my USA home, but when I go to the States, I go to FL. Are you confused yet? :)
    by praguer at 11/24/11 8:55AM
  • worker_at_home
    Am keeping Danny and all in prayer!
    by worker_at_home at 11/28/11 5:35PM
  • aleta
    I feel so far behind in meeting you and coming to know about the situation you and your family are dealing with. Thank you for stopping by my blog and for the sweet comment. I am a bit behind in reading and hope to catch up. I look forward to getting to know you better and to be encouraged by and to encourage you. God Bless!
    by aleta at 11/28/11 6:54PM
  • worker_at_home
    Thinking of you each day.....and praying.
    by worker_at_home at 12/01/11 12:04AM

Heart Transplantation

It's official. My son is now on the UNOS heart transplant list. Due to several complications in his body it may be a long wait as certain criteria has to be met before he can receive a heart and the donor heart has to match him in several ways. Not just any heart will do. So we wait.

We wait for one to die, the right one to die, so that my son can live. It is a sobering thought. Out of someone else's tragedy, we can have hope. Out of sorrow, comes joy. Because of someone's unselfishness, my son can receive a rare and precious gift. He will have a transplanted heart that is functional and normal, something he has never had in his life. He will be transformed.

The transplant coordinator told us, after all the years she has been doing this, she is still amazed when she sees the difference in a child before and after the transplant. She calls it a miracle.

With all the knowledge, unselfishness, and humble gratitude with everyone involved (medical professionals, donors, and recipients), all of it pales in significance when we realize if it wasn't for the spiritual heart transplantation provided by our Savior, none of the above would matter. Our Lord is the donor of the most precious gift of all - the opportunity for all mankind to receive a new heart, free from the disease of sin. We can be the recipient of a heart that is as healthy and fresh as a small child, free from all the filth of the world and the damage we afflicted upon ourselves, for we all have sinned and come short of the glory of God (Rom. 3:23).

All of us, who have put on our Lord in baptism (Gal. 3:27), have received a transplanted heart. It was a gift free of defects, a perfect fit for all, and the only way it can be rejected is if we turn away from God. We didn't have to wait for our new heart, for Jesus called us to Him to receive it. Rather than OUR suffering, our Savior suffered for us. His shed blood fits all blood types. No testing involved, except our humble obedience to the call of the gospel.

Out of His death, comes our life.
Out of tragedy comes our hope.
Out of sorrow, our joy.
Out of unselfish love, our free gift.

Our new heart did not come from someone's accidental death, but from a purposeful self-sacrifice in order that we may live. Will we be grateful to our Donor and cherish our new life, protecting it from the filth of the world and spiritual diseases of the heart? Spiritual transplantation is a true miracle that our sins have been washed away and newness of life begins, even into eternity.

Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble; for so an entrance will be supplied to you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 2Pe 1:10-11

Or do you not know that as many of us as were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death? Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. (Rom 6:3-4)


  • grandmadiane
    What a beautiful expression of God's gift from a perspective so very few of us have. Your grief of the 'waiting game' can not be comforted by words and yet you give comfort from your words. Comfort that reaches beyond this world into the next. If you ever need a listening ear or an open heart I am gladly here for you. Visit my pleo and tell me about your son. I'd be glad to 'Meet' him and you, if it will help pass those late nights or long days.
    by grandmadiane at 11/18/11 1:03PM
  • ceoltoir
    It's an encouraging development that he's on the list. I've known a few organ recipients, particularly one who received a heart. He was vigorous, happy, thankful and appeared very healthy. Before the transplant he was terribly pale, weak and couldn't even walk across a room. He was an older man so I imagine a young person's transformation would be even more dramatic. I will continue to pray for your son and you. How old is your son? And do you mind telling his name? God will know who I'm talking about without a name, though. :-)
    by ceoltoir at 11/18/11 5:54PM
  • onelittlecandle
    Wonderful thoughts. I came over from Rachel's blog and wanted to let you know that your son has been in my prayers many times over the years and will continue to be. (Clint and Rachel attend the congregation that I grew up in, which is how I knew of him. :)
    by onelittlecandle at 11/18/11 6:09PM
  • OurHope
    Diane, your offer of not only your ear but your "open heart" is very comforting... I like the way you said that. Thank you. I'll send you a private note.

    Kathy, my son is 32 and his name is Daniel (or Danny). He's always been private about himself so that is why I don't talk very much about him on the web. Thank you for your prayers. I've heard several success stories about heart transplants. Some do quite well and others not as well. There is a young man in his 20's on the floor who received a heart in June and he doesn't look good. He's had problems with ongoing infections and he told Danny he hasn't been able to tell much difference in how he feels since receiving a heart but hopefully that will change soon and he can move on with his life.

    Sherri, thanks for your prayers throughout the years and I can guarantee you they have been answered many times over! It's comforting to know about your prayers through the years. Thank you for telling me. I appreciate Rachel mentioning Danny. She and Danny are 3 months apart and were always the youngest of the cousins so they had a special bond.

    Leslie, the video was beautiful and comforting. Thank you!
    by OurHope at 11/19/11 6:40AM
  • milly
    I just found your blog. Welcome to Pleoland! I had to chuckle at your "For the first time it really dawned on me how normal my abnormal life has become." My abnormal is not medically-related: I am in my eighth year of living in central China! I haven't used your expression before, but it has occured to me that I am getting up, going to work, and coming home just like I would in North America. So "abnormal" is the new "normal"?
    by milly at 11/19/11 10:31AM
  • moe
    hey this Brandon my nick name is Moe on here i pray to God that he will get a heart soon and hope all will go well and may God bless u with son you have ill be praying for you and him / family
    by moe at 11/19/11 3:06PM
  • OurHope
    Hi Milly! How nice to meet another abnormal normal or is it another normal abnormal?! China...wow! How interesting.
    by OurHope at 11/19/11 3:21PM
  • OurHope
    Brandon, thank you so much for the nice note and especially for your prayers!

    Leslie, I looked you up on your page so I got to meet you. :) My name is Pat Gates. No apology necessary... after all you sent me a beautiful encouraging song. But I am glad we have officially met. :) Hope to get to know you better.
    by OurHope at 11/19/11 5:58PM
  • grandmadiane
    My husband wanted to be a donor. He passed June of last year. We only knew he was sick for a month but by then he was eaten up with cancer. After he passed we left the hospital. I got a call about 10 that night ...an hour and half after he passed...asking if we wanted to donate. I was in shock and helping to put 2 kids to bed and settling visiting family into bedding arrangements. I didn't know what to say or who to ask if he could even donate in his condition. I said no and have hurt from it every since. I wish they had spoken to me about it before he passed. We scheduled to take him off the violator earlier in the day so they could have mentioned it earlier. I'm sorry to those he may have helped.
    by grandmadiane at 11/20/11 11:26PM
  • grandmadiane
    * ventilator..
    by grandmadiane at 11/21/11 12:41AM
  • OurHope
    First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss... and so quickly... 1 month! My heart goes out to you. I also would have thought that he couldn't donate due to the cancer. I wouldn't be concerned any more about it. Actually, some states, like florida, by law, have to ask everyone. It could be it was just a "routine" call (if you can call that routine). I think it was very unwise on their part as well as inconsiderate. There's a good chance he may not have been able to donate so I would be at peace about that. I have a feeling this call was policy but if it wasn't, they are at fault with their timing... very unreasonable considering your grief. And, it's not easy on the spare of the moment just saying, sure, do whatever...just not reasonable.
    by OurHope at 11/21/11 6:55AM